2 Year Old Cooper Hear's Mommy's Voice First Time

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Everybody? I thought it was for the deaf.

Parents of deaf/hh kids. CODAs. CI uses. HA users. Late deafened. Esteem implant users. ASL users. Hearing students learning how to sign. SEE users. Cued speech advocates. Teachers, educators, etc...etc....

Pretty much everybody.
 
Still no reason to be negative. If one doesn't want a CI that is their choice and I respect their choice. No need to bring down others for what makes them happy.

So far all we know is that the parents are happy their kid can hear, we have no idea what the kid feel about the whole thing.
 
So far all we know is that the parents are happy their kid can hear, we have no idea what the kid feel about the whole thing.

True....hopefully the child will be happy with the parents decision.....no matter what the parent decides.
 
Yes, you are correct. I forgot to add it to my statement earlier today. This site is primarily a Deaf/deaf/oral/hoh audience.

The hearing are welcome to join in on the site, but asserting superiority over the opinion of deafies can be seen as a trolling matter and they will be penalized accordingly to how they violated the rules.


Are you saying a well informed parent of a deaf child is less welcome to share their stories than deaf members. Are they not allowed to share or defend their choices? Not arguing here....just asking for a rules clarification. Thx.
 
Parents still have to make decisions every day for their child whether the child agrees with it or not. As for CI, parents may have to consider the fact regarding crucial auditory development early in a child's life compared to later and consider the ramifications between the two.

Ask them when they get older. Or you ask them now.

Speaking Up For Themselves | Cochlear Implant Online

I'd say a lot of them on that site were successful despite being implanted at a later age. Why the rush?

Jordan S. – Jordan was born deaf and received a cochlear implant at age ten. The valedictorian of his high school, he is studying to become a physician.

Abigael B. – Abby received a cochlear implant at age eleven and is now studying to become a listening and spoken language educator to help children with hearing loss just like her learn to listen and talk.

Melissa W. – Melissa, who attended a deaf school for primary grades and received a cochlear implant at age ten, discusses the differences the CI has made in her life.

Rhianon G. – Rhianon grew up with hearing aids and received a cochlear implant at age eighteen. She is a documentary filmmaker and advocate for people with disabilities.

Leah D. - Leah, a graphic designer, grew up with the Auditory-Verbal approach and received a cochlear implant at age nine.

Monique G. - Monique from Canada was raised with the Auditory-Verbal approach and received a cochlear implant at age seventeen.

Jentry T. – Jentry is deaf due to EVAS, grew up with hearing aids and received her first cochlear implant at the age of 15 years old.

Kunal A. - Kunal is a cochlear implant recipient who is from Sri Lanka but has been living in the US for the past four years to attend a university. He grew up with hearing aids and then received a cochlear implant at the age of 10 years old.

Lidia B. - Lidia is a cochlear implant recipient from the UK who was born with normal hearing but began to lose hearing at the age of 12 years old.

Charlotte N. - Charlotte is a cochlear implant recipient who is from the UK. She was born profoundly deaf and grew up with hearing aids. She received her cochlear implant at the age of 30 years old.
 
I'd say a lot of them on that site were successful despite being implanted at a later age. Why the rush?

For example, Jordan received a hearing aid at age at a very early age until the FDA revised the guidelines for cochlear implant in 1998 she received it at age 10. She would've gotten it earlier.

Abigail - "In May of 1999, at the age of 11, I finally received my cochlear implant! I had tried to receive on several years earlier but had not been a good candidate at the time."

Melissa W- "I’m Melissa, I’m 18 years old and I have a Nucleus Freedom. I received my cochlear implant at ten years old. My life has changed so much since then. I wasn’t born deaf but my hearing was destroyed by aminoglycosides antibiotics after my premature birth at 28 weeks gestation. I was diagnosed as severely deaf at 9 months old and got my first bilateral hearing aids at 14 months. I attended a deaf school from 3-11 years old , the class sizes were so small and you got more 1-1 attention with teachers and there was a oral and SSE policy, so teachers used both while communicating with us deaf children. I was so upset when I left because I loved it so much! My hearing loss deteriorated at around 7/8 years old so my parents, my audiologist and I decided to go through the cochlear implant assessment to see if I was eligible, after a long year of tests and assessments I was found to be eligible! "

Rhiannon - "I was born a hearing child. When I was about two years old, my mother noticed that I wasn’t responding to her when she didn’t face me. She took me to have my hearing tested, but I passed the tests because I trained myself how to watch the movements of audiologists and respond when I saw their hands move. A lover of cinema, I always watched actors express themselves onscreen so I started to mimic their movements and lip motion, teaching myself how to lipread in front of any mirror I could find. ”Boy, she sure likes herself,” my dad said. I was training myself for a life that would be spent looking at faces that I would grow to respect and love.

After I got a CAT scan, it was determined that I had a hearing loss. Many tests were done, yet the cause still remains idiopathic. My hearing loss first started off as moderate. When I had the choice to either hear or sign, I looked at my mother and said, “Mama, I want to be like everyone else. I don’t want to use my hands. I want to talk.” I was four years old. I was outfitted with my first pair of hearing aids then and went through several different brands over the years, along with adjusting to a loss that progressed to profound. I had the help of a speech therapist so that I could pronounce words correctly and work on my hearing. I succeeded in school and athletics to a point of where my deafness was secondary. It was only a part of me and I rarely discussed it.

I wore hearing aids until I was eighteen, when I decided to get the cochlear implant so that I could have a more successful career in the film industry. "

Leah - "I was born with a profound sensorineural hearing loss. I was fitted with hearing aids at two weeks old and continued to wear them for several years. I struggled as my hearing got progressively worse. I reached the point of being unresponsive in both ears, even with hearing aids.

In 1992, my parents and I made the decision for me to get the cochlear implant. It was only two years before that the FDA approved implantation into children. At this time, Cochlear would only consider patients with profound hearing losses and I was a good candidate for the cochlear implant. So the day after my 9th birthday, I was implanted with a Nucleus 22 device on my right ear."


Monique
- "She learned to hear and speak utilizing the Auditory-Verbal approach and hearing aids and is leading a fulfilling life. She attended Vancouver Oral Centre for Deaf Children for Auditory-Verbal therapy sessions from the age of 6 months until 17 years old. At the age of 17 years old, she received a cochlear implant, and she said it was an incredible decision as there is no comparison between hearing aids and cochlear implants. "

Jentry - Jentry's Story - YouTube

Lidia - Lidia is a cochlear implant recipient from the UK who was born with normal hearing but began to lose hearing at the age of 12 years old.

As for Charlotte, getting at age 30 her voice is markedly different from those who receive CI at a very early age. The key is not just the voice but the ability to understand the spoken language without even looking. Let's look at Deena who got her implant at age one.

Deena is a five year-old bilateral cochlear implant recipient who is being raised by deaf parents and has a deaf sister who is also a bilateral cochlear implant recipient. She shares a little information about herself in a video interview.

Deena - a cochlear implant recipient raised by deaf parents - YouTube
 
Nah, it sounds like someone not respecting other members rights to choose their own course and tell their story. That's why I suggested she just ignore in the first place. Haters gonna hate. I hope Cloogy and Csign will continue to be rave enough to share their stories in the face of this bullying and harassment and I hope in doing so others will be encouraged to share their stories. This site is supposed to be for everybody and it's a shame some feel the need to tear others down.

playing armchair mod, I see.
 
You are absolutely correct.... But should people be judging those parents and putting them down? Especially in the HA/CI area of AD?
where?

If so I guess AD stands for something other than I was lead to believe.
feel free to join a forum more to your liking.

I don't haves problem with people posting their negative CI experiences. In fact I think there is informative value in that. But as I said in the other thread it seems that should be stated in general rather than attacking another poster. Just my 2 cents.
good. then stop crying wolf and acting like Zimmerman. Sit down until you have of something value to contribute. it's time you let the mods do their job, not you.
 
Sorry if it seems that way it that is not the case. What happened here is a member posted a video and it was immediately met with sarcasm. The whole whoop dee do comment. IMO that is uncalled for. Again this was in a HA/CI thread.....not a currents nets or debate thread.

Feel free to PM mods if you have any issue with it rather than you dictating how it should go about.
 
Are you saying a well informed parent of a deaf child is less welcome to share their stories than deaf members. Are they not allowed to share or defend their choices? Not arguing here....just asking for a rules clarification. Thx.

I thought his post was very crystal-clear. It basically answers your question. There's a difference between "sharing their stories" and "asserting superiority over their opinions"
 
True....hopefully the child will be happy with the parents decision.....no matter what the parent decides.

So far all we know is that the parents are happy their kid can hear, we have no idea what the kid feel about the whole thing.

This is my point exactly.. This is what i've been trying to explain to people. You HAVE to wait for the child to grow up instead of just being like; "okay my child is deaf, i want my child to be implanted NOW!" -- To me that doesn't seem right, plus it makes the parent seem a bit greedy for just going ahead and implanting their child without involving their child to be a part of the decision. I want my child to grow up and have fun as a kid without having to think why i have implants without my parents talking to me about it first, I wish my parents could wait a little bit longer for me to be old enough to talk about this with them.

Regardless of age, I think its very important for a child to understand these things. A baby or a toddler won't understand because they just entered reality. A child that is maybe about 8 and older would understand. I made a decision getting an implant at 8 years old, I have repeated this thousand of times here on AD and nobody has really looked at my post i recently posted here a few hours ago about how i made the decision as an 8 year old. I feel like parents of deaf children has sometimes no respect for their kids of what they really want, do they want to have a hearing aid or a cochlear implant or none at all? I may be just a teenager, but I have a voice too.. And these kids have a voice too. We want to be heard, Everybody does but Whatever happened to putting your kids first, and wanting to know what they want you to do for them? Don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful that my parents was able to get me a cochlear implant, But I have wish that I could stay on the hearing aid a little bit longer. I'm just voicing out for these kids, My friend has recently removed his cochlear implant, because his parents implanted him when he was a baby, he did not like it. So he made the choice to remove it, his parents weren't really happy about it, but he doesn't care. He loves for who he is and he's not going to let anybody make a choice for him, not even his parents. There will be some defies that are willing to wear it, some aren't. It's just something to think about. There's always risks in surgeries, we know that.. but there's also always risks about how your child will feel about this after he/she grows up with the cochlear implant. its just the hardcore truth.
 
You seem to be the only spin doctor around here right now. You know full well what I meant in that thread. Beyond that, I went on to further clarify that it was another mode of the English language. If you go back and read, you will note that I never said anything negative about ASL, and that I value both equally. . I think it's time you stop spinning my posts and threads to suit your needs, and be receptive to what I've said all along.

First of all - I've never said anything about you saying negative about ASL.

And secondly, you have nothing for me to be receptive of. No offense but in this kind of subject, you're a newbie. You just started! I have about 25 years of headstart. wayyy ahead of you! :lol:
 
This is my point exactly.. This is what i've been trying to explain to people. You HAVE to wait for the child to grow up instead of just being like; "okay my child is deaf, i want my child to be implanted NOW!" -- To me that doesn't seem right, I want my child to grow up and have fun as a kid without having to think why i have implants without my parents talking to me about it first, I wish my parents could wait a little bit longer for me to be old enough to talk about this with them.

Regardless of age, I think its very important for a child to understand these things. A baby or a toddler won't understand because they just entered reality. A child that is maybe about 8 and older would understand. I made a decision getting an implant at 8 years old, I have repeated this thousand of times here on AD and nobody has really looked at my post i recently posted here a few hours ago about how i made the decision as an 8 year old. I feel like parents of deaf children has sometimes no respect for their kids of what they really want, do they want to have a hearing aid or a cochlear implant or none at all? I may be just a teenager, but I have a voice too.. And these kids have a voice too. We want to be heard, Everybody does but Whatever happened to putting your kids first, and wanting to know what they want you to do for them? Don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful that my parents was able to get me a cochlear implant, But I have wish that I could stay on the hearing aid a little bit longer. I'm just voicing out for these kids, My friend has recently removed his cochlear implant, because his parents implanted him when he was a baby, he did not like it. So he made the choice to remove it, his parents weren't really happy about it, but he doesn't care. He loves for who he is and he's not going to let anybody make a choice for him, not even his parents. There will be some defies that are willing to wear it, some aren't. It's just something to think about. There's always risks in surgeries, we know that.. but there's also always risks about how your child will feel about this after he/she grows up with the cochlear implant. its just the hardcore truth.

I put out a video of Deena...age 5.

It's up to the parents to decide on the risks and weighs the options (pros and cons), and the timing of when CI would be the most beneficial and whether they want to go that route. They can wait if they wait if they think it's best, assuming they're making an informed decision that is.
 
I put out a video of Deena...age 5.

It's up to the parents to decide on the risks and weighs the options (pros and cons), and the timing of when CI would be the most beneficial and whether they want to go that route. They can wait if they wait if they think it's best, assuming they're making an informed decision that is.

BUT...did she tell her parents that she wanted it?
 
Yes, you are correct. I forgot to add it to my statement earlier today. This site is primarily a Deaf/deaf/oral/hoh audience.

The hearing are welcome to join in on the site, but asserting superiority over the opinion of deafies can be seen as a trolling matter and they will be penalized accordingly to how they violated the rules.

This is why you wear the Mod crown. I know I have pushed the line a few times, but I dislike being mocked, or when someone labels me incorrectly.

Carry on.
 
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