19 year old guy has sex with 15 year old girl

[Liebling:-)))]

in my opinion its also an fact anyway any older guys who have sex with minors are very sick and deserved to go to jail and get gang raped

Do you consider that 18 years old have sex with 16 years old is a sick, not 40years old to 18 years old?

 

[DeafMonkey]

Here.
A table of worldwide ages of consent, including US states

Ah thanks for the links .. my youngest sister who is 16 yrs old soon to be 17 in Nov that always stay with her boyfriend who is 19 yrs old will be 20 in Dec that they always stay at my mom's home or at her boyfriend's home that her boyfriend live with his mom. They always tell their mothers where they go so the mothers wont worry about it I am sure her boyfriend's mother is ok with it same with my mom ok with it which he is really very nice guy till my sister turn to 18 in next year then I am sure she can go anywhere what she can cause it is more safe for her and her boyfriend but yes in a way all of my family and her boyfriend's family are worry about them cause of canada law. I dont see her and her boyfriend go out anywhere just stay inside of my mom's home and her boyfriend all the times inside of the house


Once her boyfriend looking for her but couldnt find her then he came in my mom's home and talk to my mom couldnt find my sister so my mom and sister's boyfriend looking for her till found her and bring her home back with the dog inside of my mom's home.

 

[Gemtun]

Lieb,

I taught sex education to youth for three years. You would not believe how nearly every kid 's parents didnt bother to educate them about sex. Most of these kids clung to me and asked me thousands of questions about sex. Most of these girls were emotionally immature but craving for love because family didnt provide love in their homes.

From these experiences, I know that it is impossible to have every youth be educated and make wise decisions. Emotional IQ is very important when it comes to sexuality.

I was educated when I was 15 years old but I fell for his smooth sayings that if I didnt have sex with him, it means I didnt love him and that he would break up with me. Sure I had sex with him to prove it. That is what I am more concerned. We all could be educated in terms of using condoms, etc but only experience can help us understand smooth sayings and be able to trust our instincts/judgements.

So that is why I prefer to have laws be in place to protect the innocents. Education may help but laws are here for the consquences.

 

[Gemtun]

Lieb said: I once caught him experiement with condom... Do I yell on him? No, I tried to calm down... and told my hubby about this... Guess what... My hubby said that it´s normal because he did experiment condom out of curious when he was Danny´s age. I was like Oooohhhh.... My hubby & Danny made conversation as men... Danny understood... We make sure that he won´t notice that we´re over-protective parents... I tried to communicate with him in general way & open mind, something like that "Oh terrible, what I saw from TV that a guy got AID... teenage preggies, poor, It´s scary... etc... time to time, (not on that day I caught him with condom but on other day). It lead us good conversation... then Danny said to me: Mom, I know what I saw is terrible... I won´t do that... etc..." If I have a daughter then I would do the same to her.

Your children are very lucky to have you. Not all parents are open minded like you and your hubby. You come across as a nonjudgement person. Be very very very glad that Danny was experiementing with condoms because he needs to use condoms EVERY time while having sex. He is learning that condoms and sex come together so that is a good thing.

I would not mind having my girls date your boys as I know that you took good care of them I worry about when my girls start dating because it is hard to know if these boys had parents who taught them about sex, respecting women, etc. So many young men dont truly respect young women but see them as sex objects only. It frightens me.

You see so many young women in porno and how older men are addicted to it. Media doesnt help with this issue.

 

[Casperman]

:topic: Happy Birthday to your daughter!

Anyhoo, Back on the topic - I can relate to that. In this case, if a older girl that happens to be 19 and my son's 15 - You bet, There'd be some claws coming out and resulting into a catfight

if it happened to our boys iwill say Ya gotta learn from your mistakes! and ofc Pissedoff toobec shld wait till 18 or whatever it is.. but ssametime yaknow i spoil 'em

 

[Gemtun]

if it happened to our boys iwill say Ya gotta learn from your mistakes! and ofc Pissedoff toobec shld wait till 18 or whatever it is.. but ssametime yaknow i spoil 'em

What do you mean about spoiling them? I dont want to assume what you mean by that so am asking you.

 

[Casperman]

What do you mean about spoiling them? I dont want to assume what you mean by that so am asking you.

ofc i aint spoilin them and let them have sex that early just that i dont like get mad at them or like that but iknowi will have to..-

 

[rockdrummer]

Tell me that's against the law. Someone was arguing with me saying it is NOT against the law.

This is a touchy subject and it really depends on the juristiction. Age of consent for sexual activity range from 15 to 21 years old. See here for details.

 

[Calvin]

Do you mean its' ok for 15 years old to have sex? I think not! It's not ok for 15 years old to have sex, if the kid reaches 18 years old that's fine, since they are into adulthood. In middle or high school, they do have health course to teach kids about sexuality. Also if any adults have sex with minor (under 18) is statatory rape and be sent to prison for this. Parents also should teach kids about sexuality to make them understand.. .and avoid teen pregnancy. A lot of teenagers missed or dropped out of school because of the baby in a BAD timing. If kids are educated, there's good chance to avoid all that mistakes.

 

[rockdrummer]

Do you mean its' ok for 15 years old to have sex? I think not! It's not ok for 15 years old to have sex, if the kid reaches 18 years old that's fine, since they are into adulthood. In middle or high school, they do have health course to teach kids about sexuality. Also if any adults have sex with minor (under 18) is statatory rape and be sent to prison for this. Parents also should teach kids about sexuality to make them understand.. .and avoid teen pregnancy. A lot of teenagers missed or dropped out of school because of the baby in a BAD timing. If kids are educated, there's good chance to avoid all that mistakes.

Personally, what I think doesn't matter. Its the laws that govern us that matter. Did you know that in some parts of the world the age of concent is only 9 years old. I don't agree with that but who am I to judge other cultures. My feelings and beliefs are based on how I was brought up in my culture. While I value your opinion you have to understand that opinions and laws are mutually exclusive.

 

[Taylor]

Liebling,
You bring up some excellent points but if I could disagree with one thing. One problem with teens today (as you and others have pointed out) is being naive. A young girl *thinks* she is in love and feels that she is in love. If a boy says 'I love you' to her, she takes it with all sincerity and will have sex with him. Unfortunately, to counter this is learned through life experience and isn't necessarily something that parents (or teachers) can. If a girl is 14 and a boy says "I Love You" it means the world to her. Take that same girl but she is 30, "I Love You" takes on a totally different meaning.

And unfortunately, the adults that go after young girls prey upon this. The whole "I will take care of you", "I have strong feelings for you", "I would never hurt you", "You mean the world to me". This is powerful stuff when an adult says it to a young girl, and adults use that as an advantage.

 

[Heath]

Liebling,
You bring up some excellent points but if I could disagree with one thing. One problem with teens today (as you and others have pointed out) is being naive. A young girl *thinks* she is in love and feels that she is in love. If a boy says 'I love you' to her, she takes it with all sincerity and will have sex with him. Unfortunately, to counter this is learned through life experience and isn't necessarily something that parents (or teachers) can. If a girl is 14 and a boy says "I Love You" it means the world to her. Take that same girl but she is 30, "I Love You" takes on a totally different meaning.

And unfortunately, the adults that go after young girls prey upon this. The whole "I will take care of you", "I have strong feelings for you", "I would never hurt you", "You mean the world to me". This is powerful stuff when an adult says it to a young girl, and adults use that as an advantage.

Yeah Taylor, I watched somebody say that to a girl about 3 weeks ago and I told her that he was not being sincere at all after I walked up to him and told him to f*ck off and he left. He was a freelance carpnter with his own work truck. I know the girl's older sister and we grew up together.

I let her older sister know what was going on and she told her dad and her father is not too happy with that guy. I saw him say that to her at the pizza place where I was waiting on a small pizza for myself to pick up and take home to eat.

The girl is 14 and her older sister is 27 years old. The guy is 32 years old. I am 30 years old and I know much better than that.

The 14 yr. old girl still thinks he loves her :roll:

I would not be surprised if her father kills him if he keeps on trying to see his 14 yr. old daughter.

 

[Oceanbreeze]

Liebling,
You bring up some excellent points but if I could disagree with one thing. One problem with teens today (as you and others have pointed out) is being naive. A young girl *thinks* she is in love and feels that she is in love. If a boy says 'I love you' to her, she takes it with all sincerity and will have sex with him. Unfortunately, to counter this is learned through life experience and isn't necessarily something that parents (or teachers) can. If a girl is 14 and a boy says "I Love You" it means the world to her. Take that same girl but she is 30, "I Love You" takes on a totally different meaning.

And unfortunately, the adults that go after young girls prey upon this. The whole "I will take care of you", "I have strong feelings for you", "I would never hurt you", "You mean the world to me". This is powerful stuff when an adult says it to a young girl, and adults use that as an advantage.

I must say this is absolutely true.

When I was sixteen, I had a mad-crush on a guy. Ironically, it was a cop.

*ahem*

Anyway, as someone who had prior abuse in her life, it meant the *world* to me that this guy paid any attention to me at all. He was nice. He was curteous. He DIDN'T pressure me for anything I didn't want to do, but from an emotional standpoint, it was exactly like that. This guy made me feel special. He made me feel wanted. He made me feel loved, if you can call it that. I was sixteen, and I fell for it hook, line, and sinker.

Looking back, I am quite lucky this guy was honorable. Otherwise, I could have been an victim again so easily. Just because I was SO very naive. I also had alot of emotional issues stemming from my abuse that would have made me easy prey.

Many times, kids aren't so lucky, and the "mad crush", or whomever, isn't honorable. That's how kids get hurt.

 

[SxyPorkie]

I must say this is absolutely true.

When I was sixteen, I had a mad-crush on a guy. Ironically, it was a cop.

*ahem*

Anyway, as someone who had prior abuse in her life, it meant the *world* to me that this guy paid any attention to me at all. He was nice. He was curteous. He DIDN'T pressure me for anything I didn't want to do, but from an emotional standpoint, it was exactly like that. This guy made me feel special. He made me feel wanted. He made me feel loved, if you can call it that. I was sixteen, and I fell for it hook, line, and sinker.

Looking back, I am quite lucky this guy was honorable. Otherwise, I could have been an victim again so easily. Just because I was SO very naive. I also had alot of emotional issues stemming from my abuse that would have made me easy prey.

Many times, kids aren't so lucky, and the "mad crush", or whomever, isn't honorable. That's how kids get hurt.

Yeah I know what you mean... I went in same situation as you did...only that guy i had huge crush was not a cop... he was my teacher...he did not do anything further... we did necked... when he relocated to other state... he got caught and got fired... he was blacklisted .. cannot teach any school anywhere...

 

[Maria]

Yeah, it is against the law. Statutory rape unless, it is consensual. It's up to the judge to decide on whether if, it is consensual or not.

 

[Oceanbreeze]

Yeah I know what you mean... I went in same situation as you did...only that guy i had huge crush was not a cop... he was my teacher...he did not do anything further... we did necked... when he relocated to other state... he got caught and got fired... he was blacklisted .. cannot teach any school anywhere...

That bizarre! Because, the same thing happened in my situation. All we did was neck, too, but the guy I was crushing on ended up being asked to resign his post. I don't know the full story behind it. I never did know, but rumors were flying around that he was messing with other girls. Someone found out, and they reported him. Nothing was ever really substantiated, so they couldn't outright fire him or press charges. They asked him to leave, though.

Btw, I have to correct myself slightly. At the time of the crush, this guy was actually a hospital security gaurd. He went on to be a corrections officer at a prison in Virginia, so he wasn't a cop.

 

[deafdyke]

Most of these girls were emotionally immature but craving for love because family didnt provide love in their homes.

YES EXACTLY!
Also, parents need to train their girls not to be so submissive to men. Girls need to know THEY have rights TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Foxrac]

It's illegal but depends on other countries but culture can be varies in between other countries, for in US then its illegal for 18 years old that want sex with under 18 years, also that sick to do that. I'm rarely to chat with minor except for several best friend from other forum but 16 years old or over are accept, also only person that I chat with 2hot4you and she's nice.

 

[C.C.Sinned]

I'm rarely to chat with minor except for several best friend from other forum but 16 years old or over are accept, also only person that I chat with 2hot4you and she's nice.

Her screen name is very fitting in this case

 

[Foxrac]

Her screen name is very fitting in this case

How is her screenname to be fitting?