Your kids or any kids cussing

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Do you/will you let your kids or other kids cuss?


Is there an age at which you think it's okay for them to cuss?


Is it okay for them to say "shoot" instead of sh*t or Dang instead of D*mn?


WHen you see any people in public cussing up a storm, what do you do?
 
If they were young, I'd try to get them to avoid using it. When they become old enough to know when's the best time to use it, then I'll let them.
 
I would not let my kids swear at all, until they've reached a certain age that they can recognise the difference between swearing unreasonably and swearing reasonably (ie. not to show off).
 
My 4 Years old say the word "Shit" My fault Cause, I always say that word It just normally comes out of my Mouth. And Sometimes, I forget that I have Children around when I said that word.. But I do tell My 4 Years old Do not say that its not a nice word..I try to be more Careful next time around My Children.

I have seen a friend of mine Children Cuss so Much it was so Unbelieveable! They knew most Cussing words than Any Children I know. I tell Their Mom about it But, Pretty Much She doesn't care at all. :eek:
 
Well, We all know that children learning ' Cuss ' words from TV, Movies and most of all from people that are around them etc.....

NO!, I will NOT let my children or other children to cuss at each others... My children knows they will be in trouble if they do cuss at one other or If I ever heard them say it to others.....Yes, Its ok for them to say ' Shoot '....

To be Honest, I am praying they will NEVER say any Cuss words but then if it does happen then I rather them to wait when I am not around ! :( ...I hope they do that when they get OLDER!

When I see people in public who cussing up , I mostly walked passed them by ignoring them and I say ' Forgive him or her or them ' in a quiet way! and enjoy my day!.... :D
 
It is so hard to prevent the children to hear the cuss words nowadays. It was been everywhere place at stores, cars, friends, schools, T.V., movie, radio (music), etc...

My kids cuss the bad languages when they were 4 to 5 years old. Teenager kids are worse ! Oh Dear.. I never heard of those cuss before.

Like Fuck Off

Fuck the Shut Up

I do not give any shit

What is fucking waste of my time ?

Oh Dear... I begged my son, not using those languages. He is 18 years old ! I encourage him to not using too much cuss because of real world. The supervisor at workplace, law enforcement, etc... Try to break his bad habit !!'

I notice, he becomes more less cuss when he becomes older.

I never swear at my parents at those ages. One time, I flipped my middle finger at my Deaf Father. He squeezed my finger really hard. I learned a hard lesson. I never swear in that house.

My grandmother was so upset when we were watching the movie, It called - nun in 'Sister Act', Whoopi Goldberg cuss too much languages in the church. My grandmother was freaking out. Why do the Hollywood make that kind of cuss regilious in that movie?

What is Gay people do ?, grandmother stated. I said, Gay mean two same sex men or women who love each other. She said oh Dear.. That is pathetic. God forbid it...

My grandmother's point of view, God makes Robin and Blue Jay birds. They do not mate different kind of birds. Black and White male and female should not mate !

What is wrong with this world ?? I said... Oh well.. time is changed in this society. She :eek: Poor my grandmother !
 
Cuss kids..

yeah My Kids are using cuss bad words so many different spoken..
I was made them rules.. Do not tolerance anything cuss words in my house..
I know my kids always behind me back.. cuz I'm not stupid..
*sigh* Thanks to school, T.V. and much more.. where taught by everything so many different words come from..
:(
 
yeah its very hard to keep the kids from hearing things at school cuz the other kids may have come from homes where parent/s cuss all the time..i was babysitting 3 kids, ages 8, 6 and 4..when i picked the kids up from school and this 6 yr old boy gave me a finger and said "I know what that means!" i was of course shocked...i said ahemm what? "he said it means "fuck"...i was like :jaw: lol! i told him "not nice" and the other kids just laughed their asses off....made me wonder if they knew what the word "fuck" means!! crikey!
 
Yeah. The younger kids are picking up bad words nowadays. I remember my first bad word, FUCK YOU when I was like 7 years old. Someone wrote it in our bathroom *My mom was raising 4 girls at the same time, two were her sister's* and I came to mom and asked her what FUCK YOU meant. She blew up at me and I told her I read it off in the bathroom. We had to take that paper and write it over and over so my mom and grandmother could find the words that matched the handwriting. Case unsolved. To the day, nobody came forward and I know it s not me!
I got to stop cuss here since one of my roommate has a six month old hearing daughter. At least it'll be a good time for me to break out that habit:)
 
heh my brother said the "F" word when he was 4 but I didn't learn any cussin until I was like 11 or 12 because I was deaf and didnt hear alot of everyday's language in the enviroment, movies, books, etc...so now I think I caught up with every cuss word in the list :P
 
I never cussed when I was growing up and I still won't cuss at all when I'm with my parents. I also don't cuss much in general, I did a little when I was in high school with my friends but I out grew that. I wouldn't want my kids to cuss around me and I'd like to think they didn't cuss around other adults either.
 
I understand that feeling. Most kids feel "cool" when they cuss. They eventually grow out of it when they graduate from high school.
 
I would prefer that my kids not to cuss, in my household I will have rules, and I also would have to follow those rules as well -- set an example.

Of course, kids will pick up on those words sometime in their elementary school years and not knowing it was really bad until someone scolds them. I remember I learned the finger from an older friend (a guy) who showed it to me at school, and later I used it and flipped the bird at another male friend at a high school football practice in front of our moms. Mom immediately pulled me away and scolded me "That's bad.. where did you get that?" I'm sobbing and a little shell-shocked "Uh Alvin showed me.." She took me home. Tsk.

I never really cussed a lot. I still say Bulls*** every now and then. I cuss mainly when I'm super-pissed off, which isn't every often, or when I'm having very deep emotions going on. Other times, I mostly go "shoot" and "dang."

I would prefer my kids to go "shoot" or "dang" rather than the cruder examples.

When I encounter someone cussing up a storm, I will calmly request the person to be considerate of others, especialy the children. If you encounter them w/ equal hostility it is more likely to escalate. That's my belief -- if however they don't respond positively, I'll just move on/walk away/ignore the person.
 
Well, we don't let them cuss...but there are times when we DO have to leave the room and just burst out laughing when they can't see us...

My husband and I BOTH have pottymouths...LOLOL....we curse like truck drivers. I do try to put a lid on it when the kids are around, but we can't really control what comes out of our mouths when we're in certain moods....right?

I'll never forget - my daughter...when she was about six...we were living in an apartment at the time...and I had to drive her to school...so we're looking for the car in the parking lot. Couldn't find the damn thing...hubby had taken it to work the night before and we had no idea where he parked it...so I sighed, put the baby (in his carrier) down and thought...."now where could it be?" But my daughter, the cute, sweet, innocent child standing next to me, blurts out, "Awww, come on! Where's the fucking car?"

:lol: OMG!!!!!!

Then, this summer, my three year old picks up the phone...got a telemarketer on the other end....he hung up, shook his head and said, "fuckin' idiot." I guess I can't say I blamed him...but still!!!! LOL.

Guess we better watch our mouths!!!

Malfoyish
 
Well... I am not against cussing, but there's a time and place for it. I'd teach my kids how to cuss properly in their own rooms to just vent it out and when to not cuss (in public!)- and to respect people, no matter what. The way I figger, it's pretty unavoidable that they will pick it up at school.. would rather for them to learn from me, so they wont think about testing my authority! hehe I think kids will only get more smart and smart in the future, and there's no bullshittin' them anymore. :cry: What happened to the good ol' days?
 
I am covering my son's both ears... :ugh: I won't let him hearing any bad words.. Cause he would learn how to talk in flithy languages in my house, in school or in church.. If I hear him saying bad word, I am washing his mouth with a soap!! :mad: Never talk or cuss in my house!!
 
No I find it's not okay for the kids to cuss but we can't do anything because the kids learn from everywhere like school, movies, TV etc... :mad: My hubby & I are helpless when our children learn like this from everywhere but they respect our rules for not cuss in our house. They can't control themselves when the anger comes out of their mouths sometimes when they fight or row each other. I warned them that they will get in trouble if they do it again. (BUT we can't hear what they talked behind our back is the problem). My husband also can't control himself sometimes when the anger comes out of his mouth on that bad day...

I once complained to one of mothers about her son & his severe languages in my house. Her answer is all:
"Do you think your children are prefect in the world never being cuss?"
"Do you never cuss like this when you was the same age as our children? Oh come on"
"Don't even accused my son who is the most worst of all... Please remember that it's normal that every children cuss each other bad languages... Shame, that you can't hear..."

I'm speechless over her remark comment. I know that it's not worthy to fight with her over that. All is what I said to her: Of course I know that my sons are also NO angel but it's important that they respect me for not cuss in the house. She say nothing but bang her door angrily front of my face.
Well, I realized now it's not worthy to complaint them over their children's bad languages because I must have known that every children learn those words like this from everywhere around those atmosphere... but it would be different if they do something with weapons etc.

None of mothers know what their children doing when they are at outside. I would laugh when the mother claim how wonderful angel their children are etc because I know NONE of children are angel!!!

What could we do to stop the world to cuss each other like this? Look what Sabine stated over her Grandmother... The world like this are real :crazy: - influence everywhere like this... :crazy: That´s how the children learn from....
 
This reminds me of the movie, Old School. They had this guy who would tell his daughter to cover her ears before he starts swearing. Heh!

"Honey, cover your ears. Daddy's going to swear."
 
VamPyroX said:
This reminds me of the movie, Old School. They had this guy who would tell his daughter to cover her ears before he starts swearing. Heh!

"Honey, cover your ears. Daddy's going to swear."
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:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
It helps nothing when you tried to cover the kids´s ear... You can´t watch your children for 24 hours to make sure that they won´t cuss...
Excuse me, I must laugh.... :)
 
I wouldn't let my kids cuss in this house.. they probably will learn it from other kids but I will explain to them about that.. not to use those words against teachers, etc.. not in public either..all that ;) Certainly NOT in my house. They better not mutter it under their breath since my hubby and I am deaf :squint: heh!
 
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