Yes and No...
Well, I have been avoiding this thread..
Few reasons both marriages that i divorced in past are'nt very good (very BAD).. still sadden about it... because i would like to have long marriage years.. both of my ex that are short marriage years.. the soonest divorced with first ex was only 18 months.. 2nd one was only 2 years.
I shouldn't sad about it because my precious kids wouldnt be here if i didnt have marriages.. my life will be different...
Now, I have this man for almost 2 years. he wanted marry, I told him.. not now.. it broke his heart.. :sad: but now he understands. we are taking our time..
*HUGS* Ms.Giglz... chick, you're not the only one. I had a failed marriage. I am 30 years old and married at 27 years old. I was raised to believe marriage was forever and it was something you took seriously which I did. I poured heart & soul into my marriage and sadly, my soon-to-be ex husband didn't do the same . I was with him for 5 years and we were married 2 years until our marriage dissipated because he did not follow the marriage vows. I fought to save the marriage but it was beyond repair. I learned from this experience that I can and will remarry again. I used to say "Marriage!! Been there and done that!!" I don't say it anymore because I have learned that I know I have a lot of love to offer. Marriage and commitment comes hand in hand just as patience and persistence comes hand in hand.
Originally posted by knightwolf68 Know what ??? my dad married to third wife which is that he is 20 years older than her and i am 2 years older than her !!
Originally posted by Freaky *HUGS* Ms.Giglz... chick, you're not the only one. I had a failed marriage. I am 30 years old and married at 27 years old. I was raised to believe marriage was forever and it was something you took seriously which I did. I poured heart & soul into my marriage and sadly, my soon-to-be ex husband didn't do the same . I was with him for 5 years and we were married 2 years until our marriage dissipated because he did not follow the marriage vows. I fought to save the marriage but it was beyond repair. I learned from this experience that I can and will remarry again. I used to say "Marriage!! Been there and done that!!" I don't say it anymore because I have learned that I know I have a lot of love to offer. Marriage and commitment comes hand in hand just as patience and persistence comes hand in hand.
*HUGGS*
how true.. thats what i felt.. i just cant look back.. it takes slowly process.. rid of things what i had in the marriages.. burned wedding pictures, or any both of them 's faces.. (even with kids in it.. i cut out and made scrap book so they wont *think that i throw away my kids' faces).. why did i do that because their dad didnt be there for them for 7 years.. why should i save them and talk about them.. even tho the kids hate him and disown him.. I
start feeling better, my man have been great support, make me strong.. but I still pull back and not sure.. he kick my butt alot of times.. we all have up and downs.. Life isnt perfect.. we always can make new Life and better..
I'm sorry, giggle but look at urself, u got to where u are today and u have alot of us loving u so much because of ur jokes and everything. Dont worry about those assholes, they aint worth ur time. I dont waste my time with them because they're worthless. Getting the angry out and be calm about it. Knowing somebody did listened to u. Even tho for me, my angry is on-going and its hard to stop. I think I know how to stop but I have to deal with it first. Dont really wanna detail in here because it aint related in this. But... be well and laugh in their face because ur great person!
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Life isnt perfect.. we always can make new Life and better..
