LuciaDisturbed
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Oh ok....just thought that you might find Unitarinism helpful....it's not really about being part of a specific religion or deonomination.......more like "all or nothing" They are very openminded and libral....awesome!
I just don't want to be part of anything resembling any kind of churches right now. I know Unitarianism is all-inclusive and quite nice as my own grandmother has already told me about it, but I still do not want to be part of any such thing right now. I just want to be free. I do not want people who get into what or who I am or what I do or what I like or what I believe in just because they do not agree with me...I just want them ALL to FUCK OFF and BACK OFF...simple as that. My last church kicked me out in 1999 for going to a dyke bar the night before cause somebody got jealous and snitched on me. But I am glad they kicked me out anyway as I was looking for an excuse to stop going without feeling guilty and having to answer to any members of the church as to why I wanted to leave in the first place. They kicked me out, and that simply meant I no longer have to go, and I felt really happy! I was VERY tired and sick of hearing about how I would "go to hell" for just about everything. It got really humiliating most of the time. They practically crucify you for everything. It was really painful and it kills your self-esteem. I never want to go through that ever again. It was quite psychologically damaging.
It's fine for other people to be involved in religion if they want to be, as long as they stay out of my business and respect me. My fiance is Catholic, but he has respected my desire not to go to church, and I have respected his desire to go to church whenever he wants to, and he goes when he feels like it. He is always 100% free to attend church whenever he wants. It's not a problem for me. We 100% respect each other's beliefs. He has his beliefs and I have mine. We leave it at that. I just want the OTHER people to STAY out of my BUSINESS, and my LIFE is MY business, not theirs.