because for 11 half years, my ex-bf had all windows closed up, closed shades/blinds even TOWELS or BLANKETS cover it. don't ask me why!
Once he was out of my life, I had nothing to cover my windows except for bedrooms due of bed you dont wanna ppl see nake etc LOL
Anyhow, Now i'm starting to "let any shades/blinds and laces curtains" in...
but no dark curtains or anything.. I just don't like to be isolated anymore it was enuff and bad experience for me, my husband put up with me for so long as he can... I was very glad AND still am glad now we just get "argh" when the light view are on our tv screen LOL have to have something cover the window then! hehe..