why men?

Magatsu said:
I dunno if you do read my post or not but I did tried the local deafies... honestly, they are full of jokes. rumormongers & backstabbers plus lack of ability to discuss/debate intelligently and poor tastes in other things. I had enough with 'online' women as well due to my latest ex (just need a break from online for a while). Only one choice left for me to make to solve my problem... by date with hearies and the result: I met my lover, Nas (actually, she made a first move.. not me :(). In the past, I met several good local deaf women in different states/cities but not this time or area where I live in.

Many deafies have the same problem with their 'local' deafies as well. I guess I keep the window open for any opportunities included internet & hearies. Just a thought.

:thumb: :hug:

that's the problem i have too.. i hate the deaf clubs! :ugh: cuz i feel just like you do too!!
most men that i meet tend to be from a distance too.. sheesh.. but what can i do? (sigh) i just met someone online and of course he is from a distance :giggle:
 
Peachy Lady said:
I first met my husband in person in 1986 at deaf club. We chatted for half an hour and I liked him, but I was married at that time with small children. I don't believe in affairs during marriage and never had affair, not even once during my 19 years of first marriage. I got divorced in 2000 and met my new husband online thru another friend. We fell in love online and met in person only three weeks later on Valentine's day in 2002. (I know, I know...too fast, but we were very, very madly in love and couldn't wait any longer to see each other! I have never experienced anything like this in my whole life) I didn't realize it was the same man I liked back in 1986 because his hair was no longer thick or dark. His hair had gotten thinner and much greyer and he had gained some weight. After awhile, he asked me if I remembered him at deaf club back in 1986 on new years eve. I was floored and said "That was you????" He smiled and nodded. I told him that I had crush on him but didn't tell him. He said "what? So did I! I wanted to take you with me, but I couldn't." We are much more in love today even more than the day we got married. We appreciate each other much more today after what we both had gone thru from our exes. I will go get some wedding pictures to scan and post in here if Angel could explain to me how to do this. I had problems with sizing limit to put picture in here and am not sure how to download. That's why I haven't been posting pictures in AD in a long time.

By the way, I have watched Angel and RR courtship from online from the very beginning and I can tell you this, their romance life story is awesome! They both kept telling me how much they love each other very, very much. Everyone has their ups and downs, including me and my husband, but how else would we know each other better without any struggles, right? There is NO perfect relationship on earth. My husband and I had some quarrels, but we have learned how to resolve it quickly and we always, always hug each other and say I love you so much.

Nice southwestern home, and two cars you posted for Angel and RR, RavenSteve! Will those be your wedding gifts for them if they decide to get married? I know they do deserve them and can use them! :thumb: I can bring a huge flowering cactus plant for their southwestern home for their wedding! It would match perfectly!


AAAWWWW!!! how romantic!!! to angel and peachy!!

maybe i will be next? :giggle:

yep.. raven should get angel and rr that fancy house and car for their wedding.. and he has the money i bet from living with his mommy and bush too!! :rofl:
 
:::grins::: :ily:

That was quite a beautiful story there Peachylady! :hug:...I forgot all about the time you met him before seeing him again on line by a friend...Boy, the times sure fly so fast, as I could remember the day I met you thru Roadrunner, how we got close by the days we all three were together by chatting and having alot of fun!! I sure miss those old days, but I know we will be able to do this again once Roadrunner gets his computer up! :giggle: and even more when we all meet in person soon! ..I can't wait...

I will be happy to help you with your wedding pictures by posting it here in AD, send me thru email and I will resize it for ya! ;)


Thank you Zesty :hug: ...you girls will get your chance on having a beautiful relationship one day, I just know it! ;)...

Forgive me for going off the topic here.... :grouphug:
 
ERROR!!!! That wasn't him on the picture. That was another woman..
she looks like a man... And that his ex girlfriend....
And they are both legally same sex marriage. :eek:

He show me his real picture last night.
Which make me the :liar:
He didn't lie to me, yet.

Damn.

Well HAHA, I still don't believe him... he said
he stay at a shelter and he is looking for a job...
And he wants me to give him money so that
he can pay airfare to come down to see me...

I am not a SUCKER!!!! I think he will take my money
and not see me at all. I hope I am right. :)
 
Yes!!! I am not a sucker. He asked me for money... and I gave
him a hard time.... and he got mad and signed off.
LOL!!!! I blocked his ass.

I hope he doesn't email me or im me anymore.

Whew!!!! Now I can think only about myself. :)
 
He and other men and everybody asked me why I
am not married and not have children and why I don't have no boyfriend,
and why I didn't have sex in 6 years...

And so there you go..... I tried to give my heart to that man on the IM.
But he was the one said BYE.

So there, I ain't a lesbian, nah!!!! :whistle:

Men won't give me love.

Not my fault.
 
maybe they won't give you love because you WON'T let them show you love?...
 
Steel said:
maybe they won't give you love because you WON'T let them show you love?...

I told him that I want love. And he only want money.
Men only come to me for one thing... to use me.

Been like that always...
And that Dennis's friend and frat brother in California...
I didn't want to waste my time on that guy....
but everybody said I am bad woman for hurting him...

And I am trying to tell everybody that the guy only
want to use me.

Sex and money are the only things they want from me.

It is stupid when that counselor at CSUN, named Chris Holmes
telling me that I am the one hurting people...
that is not true... People are hurting me.

That guy who IM me said to send him $20 at the Western Union.

But anyway.... I am a Survivor... and I ain't gonna let anybody
put me down, if I get depressed I'll go take some prozac and
that its. And move on with my life.

LOVE IS NOT IMPORTANT. :D
 
so...if love is not important, then I guess you don't even love your parents, your siblings, and even your friends...? nobody told you that you need to hook up with someone, but don't ever say that love is not important because it is, and everybody needs it, even you need it, to show love and recieve love from the close ones like your family and friends.

so...

happy valentine's day, everyone. :)
 
Steel said:
so...if love is not important, then I guess you don't even love your parents, your siblings, and even your friends...? nobody told you that you need to hook up with someone, but don't ever say that love is not important because it is, and everybody needs it, even you need it, to show love and recieve love from the close ones like your family and friends.

so...

happy valentine's day, everyone. :)

I meant Love Relationship with men is not important.
I do love everyone.
 
Steel said:
so...if love is not important, then I guess you don't even love your parents, your siblings, and even your friends...? nobody told you that you need to hook up with someone, but don't ever say that love is not important because it is, and everybody needs it, even you need it, to show love and recieve love from the close ones like your family and friends.

so...

happy valentine's day, everyone. :)


Yup agree with u, Steel.. BTW I like your avatar, anyway

PurrMeow
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
He and other men and everybody asked me why I
am not married and not have children and why I don't have no boyfriend,
and why I didn't have sex in 6 years...

And so there you go..... I tried to give my heart to that man on the IM.
But he was the one said BYE.

So there, I ain't a lesbian, nah!!!! :whistle:

Men won't give me love.

Not my fault.
So, you're saying that you "fucked it all" just because of one man?
 
:cool:
VamPyroX said:
So, you're saying that you "fucked it all" just because of one man?

I am glad men come and go in and out of my life.
It just gives me a chance to become a filmmaker.
I'll have a lot of time doing film.

Not have my hands full, worrying about man and do film and then have 10 babies and all. But since men don't want me, then that is cool, make it easier for me to go after what I really want.

I'll give men a chance to be with me... but if only they give me
their love and heart...
but if they are only after sex and my money, then no.

I don't have to say "Fucked it all", cause men know that
they are wrong and they will go away without me have to tell them that.

I am willing to forgive men... and stuff like that, work it out...
but men are the one pushing me away.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
:cool:

I am glad men come and go in and out of my life.
It just gives me a chance to become a filmmaker.
I'll have a lot of time doing film.

Not have my hands full, worrying about man and do film and then have 10 babies and all. But since men don't want me, then that is cool, make it easier for me to go after what I really want.

I'll give men a chance to be with me... but if only they give me
their love and heart...
but if they are only after sex and my money, then no.

I don't have to say "Fucked it all", cause men know that
they are wrong and they will go away without me have to tell them that.

I am willing to forgive men... and stuff like that, work it out...
but men are the one pushing me away.
Ever heard of the phrase, "There are plenty of fishes in the sea."
 
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