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There was a guy who Instant Message me...
and he asked me for my picture over and over again for a year...

And I told him that I am ugly over and over again...
He won't be satisfy til he sees my picture.

So I sent him a fake picture of me...
and then he said ewww that is an ugly ugly picture of you, is that you?

I said yeah. And I asked him to send me a picture of him.

And he sent me a picture of him and his wife....
And say, MARRIED!!!!

So why Men want to hurt women, even me, when they
don't even know me in person?

Do they feel better doing that? I see why all the madness and
hurt and betrayal, killing and so and so happening in the USA...
because there are some immature people on purpose trying to hurt
other people for no reason at all. :roll:

That is why I don't want to be with men, cause men
do stuff that is not necessary.
 
uh.... he probably just want to chat, nothing more - he might be looking for online friend to chat with? or pen pal? or whatever.... hes probably bored and just want to chat. well it varies on reason why people want to talk to opposite gender.
 
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OldNavyGirl said:
uh.... he probably just want to chat, nothing more - he might be looking for online friend to chat with? or pen pal? or whatever.... hes probably bored and just want to chat. well it varies on reason why people want to talk to opposite gender.
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But why he asked me he wants sex, and he hasn't had sex in 6 years
and that he was in prison for selling drugs?
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
:dunno:

But why he asked me he wants sex, and he hasn't had sex in 6 years
and that he was in prison for selling drugs?
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variety of reasons. he could be lying to you, or he had unhappy marriage. blah blah blah.... if u feel uncomfy just block him simple as that. *shrugs*
 
Wow, I just really don't know what to say about that. USA is full of killers out to hurt people because some guy said a fake pic of you was ugly?
 
Heres a pic for you to give him.
He wont bother you again.
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Miss Pinocchio -

May I offer you a little bit of advice???

If you choose to show your picture online, then I would suggest showing your REAL pictures...especially if it is to someone that you might consider a relationship with. You don't want to be dishonest. Maybe you do, but it's better not to. Someone who is going to base a relationship on looks is not worth being friends (or more) with, anyway. Online, we have the luxury of maintaining a certain degree of anonymity, and it somehow forces us all to get to know one another's words before the face - if that makes any sense. A true friend or someone who is sincere with their intentions would not stop talking to you because you aren't what they're looking for - looks wise. Be patient, Miss Pinocchio...good things come to those who wait, and take it a step at a time.

-Malfy
 
Yes, I am agree with Mayolisch's suggestion.


Yes, I receive IM from some guys who thought I'm single and tried to flirt with me.

All is I ask them who they are and which forum they register? Their answer is: I found thru Internet.

We chat for few minutes then ask me either I'm single. I was puzzled about their questions. So I am honest with them with friendly way that I'm married woman and have 2 handsome sons. It took them while to answer me. All what they make their excuse is. "nice to know you, I gotta go" etc etc etc. They leave me alone... :whistle:
 
Malfoyish said:
Miss Pinocchio -

May I offer you a little bit of advice???

If you choose to show your picture online, then I would suggest showing your REAL pictures...especially if it is to someone that you might consider a relationship with. You don't want to be dishonest. Maybe you do, but it's better not to. Someone who is going to base a relationship on looks is not worth being friends (or more) with, anyway. Online, we have the luxury of maintaining a certain degree of anonymity, and it somehow forces us all to get to know one another's words before the face - if that makes any sense. A true friend or someone who is sincere with their intentions would not stop talking to you because you aren't what they're looking for - looks wise. Be patient, Miss Pinocchio...good things come to those who wait, and take it a step at a time.

-Malfy
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:werd: :gpost: Well said Malfoyishie! :applause: ...She said pretty much of what I would say...
 
*cough* I sent a guy a pix of myself wearing too much make-up :rofl: even tho it stopped him from iming me again ;) but yeah I realized I didn't do it right with my make-up lately but now i learn how but eh.. blah ;) and sure some guys wud bug me for one thing but I wud make up excuses saying I'm not interested didn't u think of using "block" button on AIM? :roll:
 
deaflibrarian said:
I've said this before and I will say it again. Don't do the on-line dating/IM/emailing crap. Men on the Internet (and feel free to disagree with me) are only on-line for two reasons; a) they are married and b) they want a quick :3some:.

Trying to meet someone to date on-line just isn't good for anyone mentally. Stick to forums like this where we're all public and sharing opinions, not sharing bodily fluids.

As for men, don't close off your heart. Just look for them in different places. Stay far, far away from men on the Internet.
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I met my ex through the internet and we end up in serious relationship for two years. Few friends of mine met their lovers through the internet then married and have several kids. I met Nas (my current lover) in person but we sometimes chatted plus shared our pictures (memories, friends, etc) through the internet, it got our feelings stronger for each other even more... Nas and I are doing wonderful for almost one year now. Also Angel and RoadRunner are doing wonderful as well, they met through the internet (through this forum, am I right, Angel?)

Internet/men are not necessarily evil. Many women are worse in many cases that some 'good' men wouldn't even dare to cross the line. Gender itself have nothing to do with internet thingy... common sense and judgment does.

Paranoia is a double-edged sword. It can be healthy but it can be very unhealthy in many case... That is same case for internet, its have a double-edged sword.

Malfoyish, great post as always :thumb:
 
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GeMiNiCaT05 said:
*cough* I sent a guy a pix of myself wearing too much make-up :rofl: even tho it stopped him from iming me again ;) but yeah I realized I didn't do it right with my make-up lately but now i learn how but eh.. blah ;) and sure some guys wud bug me for one thing but I wud make up excuses saying I'm not interested didn't u think of using "block" button on AIM? :roll:
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But I have a SideKick II and AOL, and my buddy list is empty and I got nobody to email to.... or to IM.
Most people I know don't have computer or email address or AOL or anything.
I got 100 people on my block list....
I just wish I have 100 people on my buddy list instead :tears:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
But I have a SideKick II and AOL, and my buddy list is empty and I got nobody to email to.... or to IM.
Most people I know don't have computer or email address or AOL or anything.
I got 100 people on my block list....
I just wish I have 100 people on my buddy list instead :tears:
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damn.. u should tell some close friends that u do have AOL and SKII like friends u can trust.. but eh yeah I have like 126 friends but not all does come on at same time so usually 29 to 40 friends come online :thumb: otherwise.. yeah I do block perverts who talk dirty to me :ugh:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
There was a guy who Instant Message me...
and he asked me for my picture over and over again for a year...

And I told him that I am ugly over and over again...
He won't be satisfy til he sees my picture.

So I sent him a fake picture of me...
and then he said ewww that is an ugly ugly picture of you, is that you?

I said yeah. And I asked him to send me a picture of him.

And he sent me a picture of him and his wife....
And say, MARRIED!!!!

So why Men want to hurt women, even me, when they
don't even know me in person?

Do they feel better doing that? I see why all the madness and
hurt and betrayal, killing and so and so happening in the USA...
because there are some immature people on purpose trying to hurt
other people for no reason at all. :roll:

That is why I don't want to be with men, cause men
do stuff that is not necessary.
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Well, you lied to him... he probably lied to you.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
and plus, he doesn't even look cute. :whistle:
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Hey, watch what you're saying...

Don't complain about people thinking that you don't look good... when you're gonna do the same thing to others. :roll:
 
VamPyroX said:
Well, you lied to him... he probably lied to you.
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A winner.

VamPyroX said:
Hey, watch what you're saying...

Don't complain about people thinking that you don't look good... when you're gonna do the same thing to others. :roll:
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Again, a winner.
 
Magatsu said:
I met my ex through the internet and we end up in serious relationship for two years. Few friends of mine met their lovers through the internet then married and have several kids. I met Nas (my current lover) in person but we sometimes chatted plus shared our pictures (memories, friends, etc) through the internet, it got our feelings stronger for each other even more... Nas and I are doing wonderful for almost one year now. Also Angel and RoadRunner are doing wonderful as well, they met through the internet (through this forum, am I right, Angel?)

Internet/men are not necessarily evil. Many women are worse in many cases that some 'good' men wouldn't even dare to cross the line. Gender itself have nothing to do with internet thingy... common sense and judgment does.

Paranoia is a double-edged sword. It can be healthy but it can be very unhealthy in many case... That is same case for internet, its have a double-edged sword.
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Actually I met Roadrunner in DeafChat, I was a chatter and he was a mod, so we met before we joined Alldeaf! ;)

Btw :gpost: well said up above Magatsu!! :hug:
 
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