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i am very sowwy abt that happened to u.. u can move on and dont wait for him come back and will often.. nah!
also, my bday is feb 11 too.. LOL!
also, my bday is feb 11 too.. LOL!
why me??? heartbroken.....
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Cheri said:It's not worth going back to him, Once a cheater will always be a cheater, no matter how many times he apologies. I learned from past experience that I was with my ex for six years, he cheat on me behind my back until one day I recovered he cheated when I walked in on them, he beg me right and left to forgive him, I gave him another chance, it didn't stop him from cheating again. Not worth another heartache. Let him go and find someone who would not cheat on you. No man is worth your tears, and the only one is worth would never make you cry.
agree, first chance i would forgive cuz i loved him but another, sorry, i lost to trust anymore
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FreeWoman77 said:
that what i wud do...forgive him but lost my trust and i arent go back with him once my trust is gone ciao to that guy ugh
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ah fuck that bastard I know some guys like him are into shit like that and they should know better but pity is that they don't.
So, if he hasn't talked to you in a long time, it would mean that he's giving you a hint. though I know if he was willing to break up with you, then he should stand up like a real man and say it out loud, but he didnt', did he? no he just want to stop talking to you and forget you and spend more time with some other girl who is proably a slut or whatever like that.
I was sort of in a similar situation like that with my ex when I thought we could still date as friends but she was already seeing someone else without even having the guts to tell me the truth and she just says that she doesn't have to tell me everything and I just gave her an angry cold stare in her eyes seeing that she is definetly a liar, a cheater, and well...everything else so no wonder she fluked school, gets kicked out from family to family,dating more guys, drinking and smoking behind some people's back, especially her aunt, who was strict as hell about getting her better grades in school and she didn't so she had enough with her attiude and kicked her out and lived with another family so I decided that there was nothing I can do with this since she obviously has alot of problems and it's just best to leave her alone and go on with my own life. so with your "guy" here, he seems to have alot of problems too so pretty much when someone is messed up, there's hardly anything you can do about but only they can do something about it themselves.
I'm sorry you had to go through that shit, and he's made of shit so with other ppl here saying dont give him another chance and that he's cheating on u and shit, I agree with them. don't let him fuck with you again and you have the right to be happy and the right to be respected with such serious trust and matureness from a man who knows better so c'mon, I know you can do better than him so just let him go and just go on with your own life. You have alot of exciting and thrilling things going on in ahead of you so hang in there and just enjoy the rest of the ride of your life, and never look back.
2006 is coming.
*pats your shoulder* Just be cool.
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fei ku said:aww yea that what my mom told me....not to show my weakness to him and he knew my weakness but since i dont talk to him anymore soo too bad to him...
ah who is my crush then??? :fruit:
Your crush is.. *thinking* argh.. I lost my head.. I'll have to get back with you and letcha know when i get my head back!
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I undy how u feel... I hate it when guys treat me badly... men sometimes can be bad (not all).. Just take some time and think clearly on what you really want to do.
ofc i will take my time heheheFei Ku said:
Whoa, Are you going too quick already? You just had a heartbroken today, and now you having a crush on someone else? You need to slow down and get over your ex first before going onto another person. Because you will regret it by going too fast and not having your feelings from your ex remove from you heart, you need to do that in order to love someone else, cannot love two people the same time, it can cause conflicts in relationship.
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Exactly! That is what Im trying to explain in rebounded relationship. I have no love feeling for L, It was Oregon K! Now, that I got over with Oregon K, and ready to move on. That is why I regretted going with L! Its too much!
Cheri said:Whoa, Are you going too quick already? You just had a heartbroken today, and now you having a crush on someone else? You need to slow down and get over your ex first before going onto another person. Because you will regret it by going too fast and not having your feelings from your ex remove from you heart, you need to do that in order to love someone else, cannot love two people the same time, it can cause conflicts in relationship.
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Cheri said:Whoa, Are you going too quick already? You just had a heartbroken today, and now you having a crush on someone else? You need to slow down and get over your ex first before going onto another person. Because you will regret it by going too fast and not having your feelings from your ex remove from you heart, you need to do that in order to love someone else, cannot love two people the same time, it can cause conflicts in relationship.
ohh lol i do like other guy but i am taking my time that all.....i arent go to become sweetheart in 1 sec lol i just chatting and be cool for while....i am sure that it will go away in no time...cuz when my last ex dumped me i was like dance around in the room happily... i am tough i can get over it.....i know he can be goody guy but he choice to cheat on me (gordy) soo fk him....actually i feel lot better without him....i mean...i know one day he will be sorry so i have nothing to worry abt why need to worry abt? i told myself...ur single soo ur free from him....if he talk to me that fine if he dont talk to me that fine too....dont matter to me anymore....i mean...who needs him anyways....blah!
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That is exact how I felt 6 years ago, playing "revenge" game with that Oregon bitch. Worth it? Frankly NOT!
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Not what I mean, it is mentally revenge. I done that, and I was nasty to myself. Not knowing I hurt enough people. that is why It is so painful for me to get outta of this.
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All I can say, give yerself time to sort your priorities. Find out what you really want. The more you see yourself, the better person you'd find.
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