I didn't think the answer could be that elusive.
Just make a choice. That the OP recognizes that he doesn't enjoy the drama is the beginning of the solution. Now if he can take the rest of the steps he could solve the problem.
If I want to converse with dysfunctional people, I have my family of origin for that.
To be fair, he doesn't enjoy deaf drama. I believe there are other instances that he's okay with.
Steinhauer, your question is pretty much what goes on all over DeafVIDEO.TV | Deaf Videos and Vlogs , have you seen the site?
It's no different than hearing people though, people just want to have a soapbox. Some people like watching those, but you already acknowledge you don't like watching those shows.
Never seen that either with my friends. None of my Deaf friends ever shared an experience similiar to yours with me so it is new to me.
However, people sharing their squabbles over FB...yes, I have seen that and I think it is stupid.
Like PFH, I haven't seen this. I don't care much for drama which is why I loathe reality shows.
update - oh it's Video Phone. Just wondering how do people get "VP audience" like Facebook comments when you can only do one-on-one with VP
Kind of like with hearing people: sometimes you hear a fight over the phone between a husband and wife, then one of the callers ask the receiver who is in the wrong.
so to answer your question - "why does this happen?"
well i dunno but have you met mr. Kettle?