allisonjoy
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doesnt really apply to me-- i dont prefer hearing. i prefer deaf.
Originally posted by Freaky
It is the communication itself. It makes or breaks a marriage and/or relationship.
I have that shirt because I refuse to date a deaf girl.Originally posted by BabyPhat21
also deaf guys wearing that shirt that Deaf Girls never say no... they really think we are easy?? fuck them!!!
You know you prefer me :P Just kiddinOriginally posted by allisonjoy
doesnt really apply to me-- i dont prefer hearing. i prefer deaf.
Originally posted by LeviathanC
When I dated some hearing girls (no serious relationship at all), they seems like they are more close-minded and don't want to talking about anything such as made dirty jokes, etc. That made me irrariated (sp?) because it made me feel like limited to talk about anything at all. Then I had been dated with 3-4 deaf girls, they seems they are more open-minded and don't mind to talk anything at all. Weird...big difference between both of them. From now, I perfer with HOH/deaf girls. But I find that it's very rare to find the hearing open-minded girls that are willing to learn about sign language. Also, I find that it's very rare to find the deaf girls to being very attractive than hearing girls. I don't know why. :|
i agree with you,Goldenleaf!!!Originally posted by GoldenLeaf74
for me I dont care about how relationship with any hearing or deaf, important hearrt, good relationship, respect each other and strong love.
Originally posted by SilenceGold
I found the same thing too. Very hard to find a hearing girl who is all involved with a deaf man. I guess it depends on what the deaf man has that attracts the woman to get into you.
I'm talking about like, "I got the beer and I'm naked. Want to have fun?" Last time I made a similar recommendation to a hearing ex...I got insulted and the whole school found out about it.
With my wife before I married her, she told me, "I know where my dad hides his whiskey, let's get it."
However, why some deaf people preferred to date hearing people are because they wanted some intelligence in the relationship.
Originally posted by LeviathanC
True to that. I don't mind about the intelligence deaf girls because of being more mature. If I can't able to find one...that's okay with me as long as they are open-minded deaf.
Originally posted by SilenceGold
Is that because you don't want to be charged $2.99 a minute when they talk to you dirty.
Originally posted by LeviathanC
:roll: Not that because of that. :roll:
Originally posted by ColinTri
I don't understand what you are getting at. Are you implying that the only reason for deaf men to go out with hearing women is because of their intelliegence? When I was involved with my ex of four years (no surprise here, she was hearing), she was extremely friendly and intelligent. She always knew when I was joking around and when I wanted to mess around.
Trust me, it isn't that hard to get involved with a hearing girl if you know what you are doing. Basically, it is all about playing a game on a different level. I do agree that communication is the key factor in a successful relationship but it depends on how you want to perceive it.
My .02 cents here, fellas.
Originally posted by Freaky
My soon to be ex-husband is deaf and I've noticed that there's a lot of miscommunication between us. His english comprehension is lower than mine, he went to both Gallaudet and NTID but never completed his studies there. I mainstreamed and never had an interpreter. I come from a 6th generation Deafie family and I thought I was better off marrying a Deaf man because "It was just so." I was definitely mistaken because we had a lot of miscommunication. I was for communicating things out, if there was a problem, it needed to be solved right there and then. He preferred to leave it and let it manifest and build up like "an onion, layer by layer". Marriage meant doing things for your spouse, "for better for worse", I realized that and knew it. I would help my husband out and wondered how come he wasn't helping me out. I started to realize I was doing everything for him. I was "shouldering" all the responsiblities and told my husband he had to do his fair share of responsibilties as a husband and as a "man". The fact we marry or date men because they are deaf , HoH or hearing makes no difference. It is the communication itself. It makes or breaks a marriage and/or relationship.