why deaf peep are so mean?

Miss*Pinocchio said:
Why deaf people are so mean to each other? That is all I see here someone argue with someone, pointing finger here and there. Why can't deaf people be nice?
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Well, my dear Miss P - it's a give and take forum. In each forum you have those nice talkies, those busybodies, those nosey parkers, those that would insult other peeps, those who dont practice what they preach, etc., etc.

The fact is - no one is perfect. I'm WAY far from perfect. Look at me...on this forum alone, I've been called a busybody, a buttisky, a person who cant keep her nose out of other peeps businesses, a homewrecker, a wonderful, caring person, a best friend, and I could go on and on... but who gives a heck? I don't. You know why?

I am ME. I am DreamDeaf. I am who I am. I am what people see outside and inside. Those who want to know me better, go further inside, ignoring the outside.

Many of them know me as very sarcastic towards those who pontificate and preach, but do not do what they say other people shoudl be doing, in other words, they think they're perfect as they are, and don't have to follow the rules they set for other people.

Yet, those very same people that know me, know me as a very caring person, always checking on my family and friends, making sure they're all right and all is good and right in the world.

You, my dear Miss P, is completely correct. There are mean people here in this forum, but that's how it works. A forum is like a melting pot - people of all ages, disabilities, races, emotions, etc., etc., and that's how a forum works.

I do know of a LOT of nice people here in the forum.

I know that you see a lot of people here insulting you, cussing you out, slapping you around literally on this forum - but I do admire you.

Why? You keep coming back, no matter how much punishment you take, you keep coming back for more.

Miss P - don't give up. Those "meanies" (yes, I'm including you, Steel!) already do admire you for your persistence. And then there are those rare moments that you do hit it right on the head!

BTW, this is what you should have done...

*hiding behind RR - peeking out and going :nana:*








AND FYI... I LOVE THOSE FREAKIN' DARN THREE STOOGES!!!
 
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DreamDeaf said:
I know that you see a lot of people here insulting you, cussing you out, slapping you around literally on this forum - but I do admire you.

Why? You keep coming back, no matter how much punishment you take, you keep coming back for more.
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Well with God, he would let me win at anything. God gave us freewill, he allows us to try again, try again, try again.....

If God is you, would it be sad if he said,
"No I will not give you anymore chance, you betray me a lot of time, now you're going to hell".

That is why I can go repent and get save, and ask God to forgive me, cleanse me and wash away all the sin and go to Heaven.

But friends don't do that, once or twice if I mess up, they are no longer my friend, and I have to be perfect.

And that murderer who beg for mercy and ask the governor to spare his life.... Governor went ahead and execute that guy.
God forgave Cain and even Moses for murdering.

Moses had to exile from Egypt, and then met a beautiful woman and married her and had a son and then God talked to Moses about free his people and so forth. God didn't punish him, but gave Moses a chance to be a great hero and leader.

If I beg, got down on my knees, and tell you that I am trying to make progress, even though I keep making a big mistake over and over again, you guys won't give me another chance.

Just like a baby, you teach that baby to walk, and you know that baby will eventually walk, even though the baby fell several times, do you give up? No. You teach the child to have faith in himself and teach the baby to walk.

And also....

When I go for job interview, and want an opportunity to work, so that I can have a nice house, to get married, have children,
and to afford to have all nice things....
And if that job interviewer be prejudice toward me and think I don't deserve to have happiness and tell me no I can't work there.

And if God one day took away the job interviewer's job and he comes home and house is on fire and family is killed and lose everything.... Then that job interviewer will get mad at God and telling God that he went to church everyday and pray everynight and wonder why God punish him? Then he'll go to insurance company to get money and the insurance company somehow turn him down and he'll sued the company and wonder why people give him a hard time. Can't get no help from fema or whoever can bail you out.

What comes around, goes around.

So if you want people to stop giving you hard time and give you a chance, then you need to stop giving people a hard time and give everyone a chance. Let people have the things that you have, instead of being selfish.
 
Well with God, he would let me win at anything. God gave us freewill, he allows us to try again, try again, try again.....

If God is you, would it be sad if he said,
"No I will not give you anymore chance, you betray me a lot of time, now you're going to hell".

That is why I can go repent and get save, and ask God to forgive me, cleanse me and wash away all the sin and go to Heaven.

But friends don't do that, once or twice if I mess up, they are no longer my friend, and I have to be perfect.

And that murderer who beg for mercy and ask the governor to spare his life.... Governor went ahead and execute that guy.
God forgave Cain and even Moses for murdering.

Moses had to exile from Egypt, and then met a beautiful woman and married her and had a son and then God talked to Moses about free his people and so forth. God didn't punish him, but gave Moses a chance to be a great hero and leader.

If I beg, got down on my knees, and tell you that I am trying to make progress, even though I keep making a big mistake over and over again, you guys won't give me another chance.

Just like a baby, you teach that baby to walk, and you know that baby will eventually walk, even though the baby fell several times, do you give up? No. You teach the child to have faith in himself and teach the baby to walk.

And also....

When I go for job interview, and want an opportunity to work, so that I can have a nice house, to get married, have children,
and to afford to have all nice things....
And if that job interviewer be prejudice toward me and think I don't deserve to have happiness and tell me no I can't work there.

And if God one day took away the job interviewer's job and he comes home and house is on fire and family is killed and lose everything.... Then that job interviewer will get mad at God and telling God that he went to church everyday and pray everynight and wonder why God punish him? Then he'll go to insurance company to get money and the insurance company somehow turn him down and he'll sued the company and wonder why people give him a hard time. Can't get no help from fema or whoever can bail you out.

What comes around, goes around.

So if you want people to stop giving you hard time and give you a chance, then you need to stop giving people a hard time and give everyone a chance. Let people have the things that you have, instead of being selfish.
 
Well, Good Gawd Almighty, Im getting so sick of this whiny "poor me bytch"
Really, Miss P, if you think peeps in here are so "mean" to you, then GET THE FAWK OUT OF HERE! THEN, crikey!
Im so sick of you starting a bunch of threads and starting shyt and making people mad too..you are always making people mad..
why dont you just LEAVE THEN? HUH????
nobody said you have to post in here so why are you posting in here??
You have very low self esteem and no confidence in yourself so you take it out on people...you are so miserable..you are not happy person, i know but dont take it out on us, for God's sakes...you obviously need professional help so please go to your nearest Mental health center for help, ok Miss P for your sake and ours.....................
 
I didn't come here to win or lose.

I just have good intention, I want people to stop smoking, I want that gay guy Roy the football player with hiv to get out of halfway house and stop being doom and do thing for himself, I want everybody to get along, that is all I want to do.

I'm sorry for being annoying and complaining.... I just want everybody to live a happy life, instead of being grouchy.

I want to see everybody true color and let me see the beautiful of you and stop hiding in closet.
 
Miss*Pinocchio, you're right in some views of point.. I really become so mean when I feel the sadness of being half deaf...It annoys me!!! and directs me to behave in an unfriendly way.. It is b/c the people around me remind me of my sadness.. ( when I'm in bad temper )... I don't often behave so...
Most of the time I am cheerful ... I walk with a smile :) but sometimes... Yes sometimes... sometimes...I feel... I feel... I feel the bitter pain of my impairment... What the heck should I do ?????...I'm not in denial... Anyway...anyway...anyway... I.. I... I... I love my personality...
I'm here because.. because..because..because I'm a hummmmaaannnn
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Miss*Pinocchio said:
Why deaf people are so mean to each other? That is all I see here someone argue with someone, pointing finger here and there. Why can't deaf people be nice?
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Nuty said:
No wonder why you didn't come here in AD for a while...Right? :aw:
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it has nothing to do with her pms... there is a lot of favoritism going on in here... AND.... what is more? ... we have better things to do than being in this forum--- there is a lot of great and exciting things going on in our lives!!! :D right, cattygirl and gempoo!?!? :thumb: :grouphug: MWAH!!!
 
I understand the frustration, it makes me so mad at the whole world, really wanna burn up the whole place... Cause hearing people won't be patient with me. I can hear better with hearing aid and I have hard time talking to people because of poor voice tone and bad speech and all.

I get frustrated too..... And sometimes I try so hard not to lose it, try not to lose control, and I did make many dumb horrible mistakes... And I'm trying to repair them. God knows that I am having a hard time.

But most of the time, I just smile.

And after I repair some of my mistakes, it pays off and I get reward for it.

Hearing people have problems too.... Most of them on news, a man from England shot his wife and baby in Boston... What is his problem?
 
SAME HERE
There is nothing to add :dunno:
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Miss*Pinocchio said:
I understand the frustration, it makes me so mad at the whole world, really wanna burn up the whole place... Cause hearing people won't be patient with me. I can hear better with hearing aid and I have hard time talking to people because of poor voice tone and bad speech and all.

I get frustrated too..... And sometimes I try so hard not to lose it, try not to lose control, and I did make many dumb horrible mistakes... And I'm trying to repair them. God knows that I am having a hard time.

But most of the time, I just smile.

And after I repair some of my mistakes, it pays off and I get reward for it.

Hearing people have problems too.... Most of them on news, a man from England shot his wife and baby in Boston... What is his problem?
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DreamDeaf said:
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I know that you see a lot of people here insulting you, cussing you out, slapping you around literally on this forum - but I do admire you.

Why? You keep coming back, no matter how much punishment you take, you keep coming back for more.
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Ms P is prolly a sadomasochism. FYI: it ain't wrong with it. :lol:
p.s. who are the
stooges.gif
? I must have missed something all along.
 
Well, the whole world is not perfect, never was, never will be..
so quityourbellyachinbytch,missp...geez...
Most of us have to do best we can to make our lives easier and happier by working harder at it is all but it dont work if you keep whining and bitching about it...you just have to work at it by the Grace of God and hard work.
You really do need professional help with your mental state, Miss P so please go to your nearest Mental Health center, its free. You do have some serious
mental health problems but if you go for help, you will feel better with some professional help and possibly with medication.
About people's bad habits like smoking, drinking and illegal drugs, you can't stop them, its their problem, not yours or mine..its something they have to deal with, not you. You can't force them to stop, they have to do that themselves, if they want to quit..my husband smokes but i cant stop him, he has to do that himself, if he wants to quit..so dont be silly. Same thing about gay people, you cant stop them being gay, geez. You cant stop people being black, white, yellow, etc...
so stop your whining and bitching in here once for all..and try to start some nice and interesting threads instead.......huh? how about it? try it and you might be surprised!
 
Miss P, better listen to Defee's suggestion.
Nothing wrong to admit to the nutty mansion.
You can discover strange things going on
Oh Dear Heavens,
Please write down on your journals
Only you would be released
from the nutty mansion
Please go home and open your
Sony laptop and type about
your horrible experiences.
You are gonna to be rich
for selling the scripts to
Hollywood.

For instance,
Girl, Interrupted
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
A Clockwork Orange

Can you do it?
 
Well if people won't stop being mean, if people won't stop smoking...
Then I ain't going to mental hospital, because you guys can't stop me from whining and bytching....

So get use to it, that is life.

:lol:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Well if people won't stop being mean, if people won't stop smoking...
Then I ain't going to mental hospital, because you guys can't stop me from whining and bytching....

So get use to it, that is life.

:lol:
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I dont smoke but I will be nice to you.

Can you please admit to the nutty mansion?
 
Hmm, I probably missed some of the show,
but who are the same as 3 Stooges ?

stooges.gif
???
 
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