Deafilmedia
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^^^ You should just tell your aunt right away. If she doesn't believe you then that is her problem not your. You have to do the right thing or let your aunt to suffer.
I agree that love is very important than just sex. You have to understand that not everyone views that way. Most high maintenance people cares about the attractions than emotion connection just like you describled. Each individual has its own preferances of its life partners. As for me, I have my own preferences for my life partner and I haven't find him yet. I have an excellent example of my recent experience. I met this deaf gay online a while ago. At beginning, I thought he is very hot then I got know him better. After that, I looked him as very ugly person now. Why? That is because he got lousy personality. One of my friends who is seeing someone now... That person is very unattractive but he is really beautiful person... That is because of he got wonderful personality that making my friend very happy. I know many people who are beautiful/hot marries another beautiful/hot people and are very happy together too. Each individual has different result.
If your life partner suddenly had an accident and got paralyze from neck down, would you feed him and care for him all of your life and forget about sex... no more sex. Or would you leave him because you're no longer find
him ATTRACTIVE and cause u can't have sex with him anymore?
I saw on Nightly News that a handsome man married a beautiful woman...
Then they have a beautiful baby son together.
And she got ill one day...
And her husband took her to hospital... and doctors said she got diabetes...
So they cut off her arms and legs....
Now... her handsome husband has to take care of her and the baby.
She is a strong woman... but she is so insecure... she scare her
husband will leave her... because she is no longer ATTRACTIVE.
So anyway.... Beauty is the eye of the beholder.... and Beauty doesn't
last forever... Its just SKIN.
I know it is all fantasy.... I did had sex with an extremely handsome man...
but his personality was awful....
I had sex with an UGLY MAN, and his personality was AWFUL too.
They both broke my heart...
So it doesn't matter how they look, just have to find someone who has
a good heart and very sweet and all....
And I met a cute man and he told me he likes me because I have good heart...
but I don't want to be with him... because I know that he doesn't have
a good heart.
I'm looking for someone who has a good heart and know that he will
be with me for BETTER or for WORSE all of my life..