why cant man trust and believe.....

Heath said:
Hi Fei Ku, the best thing you can do for yourself right now is to get through the pain and to let this bad experience help you to become more stronger then things will happen at the right time for the right reason in the right place. Something good always comes out of something bad. :)
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ur right....thanks...i hope i will be stronger once the pain is gone....
 
fei ku said:
why cant man trust and believe woman's love for him???
dont talk abt woman....since i am woman and i wanna to know abt man...pls stay on that topic thanks....


(remmy i explained abt my ex boyfriend from pa? our plm? well he admit to me that he cheated on me....and he still put our relationship on hold he love that girl in his whole life.... :rl: he said that he is in deep shit cuz of his feeling that he still love me and other girl...he even said that he had sex with her and everything....like he did with me.....why did he admit the truth to me??? i was soo destoryed inside me....i felt like world is crush on me and felt like i am worth to anyone anymore.... :tears: why me??? i dont derverse it....all i am loyal to him!!! *sighs*)
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I don't know.. Once I saw my love talking to and stroking another man's face.. I got very angry ... This was like disaster.. but I thought of that he wasn't her love.. maybe there was a misunderstanding..I feel she still loves me .. due to her wishful looks to me.. I think we men are very impatient and don't want to see our loves doing another thing.. anyway, men should trust their beloveds especially if their beloveds show their love to them... Love always :)
 
U deserves someone who loves just YOU no one else, your ex has two feelings for two different women, to me it isn't love, he just toying with yours and that girl's heart...

The only way you can move on is walk away from a two timer who doesn't even know what love is all about....The only thing he seem to care is his little thing....U can do alot better than having someone like him, all he is going to do is keep hurting you, once a cheater will always be a cheater, so dump the jerk, and find someone who will love ONLY YOU!!!...

I know you're hurting :(, but hes not worth any of your tears or your pain, there's alot of fishes in the sea, and one fish can be the " one " for you, all you need to do is keep looking and have faith, love will find it's way!

Hang in there girl , keep your head up high cause you are loved by most of us here, and we will keep reminding you, theres more good guys out there beside this jerk :hug:
 
^Angel^ is right.
I hope the pain in your heart will go away soon so you can focus on your life better. Be strong and hang in there. Someday you will find a better guy who will treat you good and love you back. :hug:
 
Co-dependency ? Blah - it's not for me. Two-timer is bad news. It could confused your trust and play with your emotions/mind. Competitin' with another woman over that man is not worth it. Just let him go and move on to another new direction. And, if you do that and he begs you back - just tell him to get lost !

You are more important than him by findin' another man who will give you more ease, more room to breathe in, more relax to develope your trust, and have a GOOD communication. :hug: Don't forget that there's only ONE life you have...
 
Girl,you learn something valuable out of every relationship you have. The lessons we learn help us grow as humans. The pain we feel makes us stronger and able to appreciate the times we feel good. The body is amazing. It heals itself even though you may seem to think you would never heal. Time is the key.

I used to think that a person could only love another once in their life. I was wrong. I do, however, believe each and every one of us has only one soul mate. We have to love and hurt and go through relationships in order to prepare for the everlasting one. It’s the only way we learn to love and to love right. In order to appreciate love, you have to get your heart broke… you have to hurt.

Our love life is one big puzzle waiting to be completed. We go through relationships putting the pieces together. We’re going to smile, laugh, cry and hurt during the process but the end result will be worth it.

I have been there - have been through all of pain and heartaches but I finally found my soulmate and what we have is amazing is because of our previous experiences and how we do know what we really want at last.

You ll be fine, girl. Just take one day at a time :) :hug:
 
:aw: i m sorry u got hurt more than before cuz u been wondering about him more feel hurt, forget him, over it, u ll get better and meet new friends, spend ur time wisely... FLIRTING WITH GUYS! :naughty:
 
I am for one thing: A woman who has been heartbroken too many times and I have been there like where you have been. He is not worth it at all. If he makes you cry, heartbroken and upset all at the same time, He aint a man. He is worthless.

If a man makes you cry and hurts your feelings, he aint the man. If he breaks your heart more than once, he aint the man. If he sleeps with a girl, other than you-more than just one girl, he aint the man. If he cheats on you and apologizes all over again but he still cheats on you again, he aint the man.

Do yourself a huge favor: KICK HIS ASS AND LEAVE HIM or you can do this: Dump him and be single and free for like a year. If you get lonely: Find Barney! :giggle: Couldnt help it. :hug: Good luck!
 
Blah blah blah everybody is telling you same old things.....

1. It isn't your fault 100%, maybe 50%.
2. He is a human being, he knew what he did to you.
3. Sometimes men feel you are pushing them away.
4. I don't believe he hurt you for no reason.
5. Maybe he was hurt in the past.
6. If you really wanna know, why not talk to him again and get inside his head and let him tell you things why he cheated on you.
7. This thread should be about why you don't trust men and believe.
8. Men can trust a woman if she is a saint.
9. Women can say negative things to men during argument and make men unsure and confuse about the relatioship.
10. Everybody make mistakes....
11. It is cool that we get to pick all different men with different attitude and all.
12. Not all of us will have someone like Steel, AJ, Apathrev, Sequoias, Tom Cruise, Diehardbiker, and so on.....
13. We can just dump the wrong person and date someone else.
14. We just need to shop around....
15. Bad men are like computer that breakdown on you many times.... So just get rid of that and get a replacement that you think will be better, can "hold up", and last long time.
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EyesBlueDeaf said:
Miss Pee.. why did you come back? Ravensteve didn't come back yet. :bye:
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Come on , man .... Miss Pinocchio brought up several good points. There was no reason for those really vicious and rude comments. Leave her alone.

Her post that she made in post # 30 was actually a very good one.
 
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well...although Miss P is a weirdo and all but she does indeed make some good points, especially parts where it says that everybody makes mistakes and women confuse men about relationships, etc and whenever I get confused, I end up making things worse and I dont like it when I'm confused. sometimes they just love to play with your mind which is called "mind games" controlling you and shit and that's not too cool.

So Fei Ku, he did love you but maybe he doesnt really know what love really meant so thats proably why he cheated on you, lied to you, and then admits that he still loves you while he loves the other ugh that's not really cool and if he wants to stay with two girls at the same time at least just find some whores who likes to have a threesome, etc...whatever like that. anyway, try not to think so much about him nor talk about him...and if he even IMs you or text you or calls you or whatever, DO NOT give him a response! not even a little one, and while he's at it for awhile, he may give up and just move on, as well as you would proably perfer to move on too.

Don't worry about it...I've been hurt as much as you had before and I'm just glad that I've moved on and still single and looking, etc.

You are only 22 years old...you still have much more going on in your life now. just relax and wipe those memories of your ex off your mind for good.

he's a fucked up loser now.
 
EyesBlueDeaf said:
Miss Pee.. why did you come back? Ravensteve didn't come back yet. :bye:
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Please show some respect. Miss P didn't even call anyone names.
 
Heath said:
Come on , man .... Miss Pinocchio brought up several good points. . Her post that she made in post # 30 was actually a very good one.
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:ugh: he is either stupid or plain dumb
 
Cheri said:
:ugh: he is either stupid or plain dumb
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dont mean to be rude but cheri....pls dont insult anyone in my thread thanks.....i apprecation that people are trying to help me it dont matter to me if they are stupid or plain dumb no one are perfect....i am not mad at ya but pls dont insult anyone in my thread by the way.... :)
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Blah blah blah everybody is telling you same old things.....

1. It isn't your fault 100%, maybe 50%.
2. He is a human being, he knew what he did to you.
3. Sometimes men feel you are pushing them away.
4. I don't believe he hurt you for no reason.
5. Maybe he was hurt in the past.
6. If you really wanna know, why not talk to him again and get inside his head and let him tell you things why he cheated on you.
7. This thread should be about why you don't trust men and believe.
8. Men can trust a woman if she is a saint.
9. Women can say negative things to men during argument and make men unsure and confuse about the relatioship.
10. Everybody make mistakes....
11. It is cool that we get to pick all different men with different attitude and all.
12. Not all of us will have someone like Steel, AJ, Apathrev, Sequoias, Tom Cruise, Diehardbiker, and so on.....
13. We can just dump the wrong person and date someone else.
14. We just need to shop around....
15. Bad men are like computer that breakdown on you many times.... So just get rid of that and get a replacement that you think will be better, can "hold up", and last long time.
:lol:
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