Why adults choose CI's for their children

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1. Child was unilaterally implanted.

2. Child was implanted when she was a year old.

3. Parents signed with the child upon learning that she was deaf; early infancy. BUt did they know sign from before?

4. I can't answer this as I don't know. To be fair, I'm not going to speculate.


Regardless, I find it absolutely a shame that a parent will not learn sign for their child simply because it's "hard". That's a cop out; an absolute cop out.

I also find it sad that parents don't continue signing with their deaf child, because the child is deaf. What happens when that child is confronted with a signer, but can not sign themselves? This is my point. You'll have a deaf child who cannot converse with a fellow deafie simply for lack of sign. I find that incredibly sad. Incredibly sad.
"fellow deafie"... why would there be an instant need to talk to someone who's deaf.. ??? That's rediculous.
She can chat with any hearing person that she meets... How much connection would she feel to a deaf person that only knows sign?
Probably about as much connection I would feel to a Dutch person that only speaks Chinese.
 
I find this child so awesome.

So do I. She can speak, but she also can sign when she wants to. My niece said she often saw Kaylee signing on the playground at recess. So, it's obvious she uses both languages interchangably.
 
Nor did I say that.
You said "those [bi-lingual] children are not "impaired" in any way, and in fact, are at a higher level cognitively than those who are not bilingual."
So... for a person being bi-lingual is better than uni-lingual....

That's pretty sad for Deaf people speaking only signlanguage, or hearing people speaking only English...
 
So do I. She can speak, but she also can sign when she wants to. My niece said she often saw Kaylee signing on the playground at recess. So, it's obvious she uses both languages interchangably.
It is awesome.! I totally agree.!
Lotte can switch between Dutch and Norwegian without a blink.... It's great to watch that.!
 
So do I. She can speak, but she also can sign when she wants to. My niece said she often saw Kaylee signing on the playground at recess. So, it's obvious she uses both languages interchangably.

This reminds me of an individual I once observed.

She moved back to the states from living in Japan. She signed up for Spanish class and anytime she took notes in class--it was written in Japanese!
 
It is awesome.! I totally agree.!
Lotte can switch between Dutch and Norwegian without a blink.... It's great to watch that.!

Can Lotte converse with a deaf person who uses sign as their mode of communication?
 
That is what I dont agree with. The dropping of signs.

I don't, either. Even if the child insists on it, it's the parents responsibility to give them both. To perpetuate denial is sad and it's wrong.
 
If you put a deaf child and a CI child in front of an indivdual that has never meet them before--they are going to notice the Ci child due to the wires protruding from the backs of the ears to the magnet.

Secondly when they see a deaf child signing--first reaction is, " Oh how cute!"



Because you want to include all aspects of communication including sign even if the child insists on speaking/hearing.

That is the holistic approach. :roll:



Good.

How is it deemed "abuse"? Simple--the parent of the child isn't taking into consideration her well being just their's.

How dare you say that I am only thinking about myself when I decided to get an implant for my daughter!?! I was ONLY thinking about my daughter, her needs and her future! You have no idea what it is like to watch a child who COULD hear before lose something SHE valued. How do I explain to her that it would be possibly to give her back some hearing but that I chose not to? SHE misses out on the sounds she used to have. She asks me why her aids are "broken". Yes, I desire that she have RETURNED what she lost. Why is that abuse? Why is it abuse to want to give her the access to sound? I am not denying her ANYTHING!!! I am giving her MORE!
 
"fellow deafie"... why would there be an instant need to talk to someone who's deaf.. ??? That's rediculous.
She can chat with any hearing person that she meets... How much connection would she feel to a deaf person that only knows sign?Probably about as much connection I would feel to a Dutch person that only speaks Chinese.

None and that's sad.
 
How dare you say that I am only thinking about myself when I decided to get an implant for my daughter!?! I was ONLY thinking about my daughter, her needs and her future! You have no idea what it is like to watch a child who COULD hear before lose something SHE valued. How do I explain to her that it would be possibly to give her back some hearing but that I chose not to? SHE misses out on the sounds she used to have. She asks me why her aids are "broken". Yes, I desire that she have RETURNED what she lost. Why is that abuse? Why is it abuse to want to give her the access to sound? I am not denying her ANYTHING!!! I am giving her MORE!

Yes, you are giving her more than what she had. I would love to be able to hear music, the words in the songs, I can only hear musical vibrations, and not the words the song played. I don't think cochlear implant would be the answer for me, I would only think it'll be a waste of time for me, because being 37 years old, and it takes a lot of practice to learn how to hear through the cochlear implant, I think it'll be best when a child is young, and I think she's very lucky that she'll have the access to sounds. ;)
 
How dare you say that I am only thinking about myself when I decided to get an implant for my daughter!?! I was ONLY thinking about my daughter, her needs and her future! You have no idea what it is like to watch a child who COULD hear before lose something SHE valued. How do I explain to her that it would be possibly to give her back some hearing but that I chose not to? SHE misses out on the sounds she used to have. She asks me why her aids are "broken". Yes, I desire that she have RETURNED what she lost. Why is that abuse? Why is it abuse to want to give her the access to sound? I am not denying her ANYTHING!!! I am giving her MORE!

Faire_joir,

I support you. Don't take it personally. There seems to be a lot of bashing but they all really come from only a handful of people. I was born deaf and my mom chose not to do a CI simply because back then it was new and experimental. However, my mom says that she would have done a CI if I was born NOW, and I agree with her. I actually used to be hardcore against CI once because "why should I have surgery, risk myself, and work extra hard just because society tells me that I'm not normal enough?" However, Ive changed my mind (PM me if you'd like to know why) and am having CI surgery in a few months.
 
How dare you say that I am only thinking about myself when I decided to get an implant for my daughter!?! I was ONLY thinking about my daughter, her needs and her future! You have no idea what it is like to watch a child who COULD hear before lose something SHE valued. How do I explain to her that it would be possibly to give her back some hearing but that I chose not to? SHE misses out on the sounds she used to have. She asks me why her aids are "broken". Yes, I desire that she have RETURNED what she lost. Why is that abuse? Why is it abuse to want to give her the access to sound? I am not denying her ANYTHING!!! I am giving her MORE!

H-O-L-I-S-T-I-C-A-L-L-Y.

Jeez. :roll:

I think we all need to take a break from this topic for the weekend or it will be decided for us to be closed or not.
 
Faire_joir,

I support you. Don't take it personally. There seems to be a lot of bashing but they all really come from only a handful of people. I was born deaf and my mom chose not to do a CI simply because back then it was new and experimental. However, my mom says that she would have done a CI if I was born NOW, and I agree with her. I actually used to be hardcore against CI once because "why should I have surgery, risk myself, and work extra hard just because society tells me that I'm not normal enough?" However, Ive changed my mind (PM me if you'd like to know why) and am having CI surgery in a few months.

You're an adult now, that's different.

Secondly why mentioned on a public post that you changed your mind and not reveal it--wanting people to PM you?
 
Can Lotte converse with a deaf person who uses sign as their mode of communication?
No, is there a need for that? In her life up to now she hasn't bumped into a deaf person.
BTW, she cannot speak with a Japanese person, French, Spanish, German... either...
 
None and that's sad.
Why is that sad?
This girl can hear all the sounds around her. How much does she have in common with the deaf person that cannot hear at all...
Even when Lotte's CI is off, she still hears.! When she reads lips, it is still converted to sounds in her head.! (How cool is that!)

Rude example...
Out of the 2000 interesting persons she meets, 2 are deaf, and 1 of them only uses sign. She won't be able to communicate with that one, but she will be able to communicate with the other 1999.!
 
Why is that sad?
This girl can hear all the sounds around her. How much does she have in common with the deaf person that cannot hear at all...
Even when Lotte's CI is off, she still hears.! When she reads lips, it is still converted to sounds in her head.! (How cool is that!)

Rude example...
Out of the 2000 interesting persons she meets, 2 are deaf, and 1 of them only uses sign. She won't be able to communicate with that one, but she will be able to communicate with the other 1999.!

OMG! :jaw: Miracle ears!
 
I'm sorry but the benefits are not subjective. If the child is able to connect with the sounds around them and make use of those sounds then there is benefit. The happiness of the child is dependent on many other factors other than if they have a CI or not. :roll:

Benefits are very much subjective. :roll:
 
I agree...it is a sad way to look at it. Oh well.

Very, very sad, and I think we all know why it is sad. Well,let me correct that. The majority of us know why it is sad. Doesn't even require an explanation.
 
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