I have been a member here for a month or so now and have learned very much from this and other sites relating to deaf issues. One thing that I have learned is that some in the deaf community feel that if a parent chooses to have a CI for their child, it's because they don't accept their child for who they are. While I can't speak for everyone, I know that for me there is nothing further from the truth. So I would ask the parents of deaf children to please respond with the reason you chose a CI for your child.
Thank you
I never knew there was so much controversy on this subject. I am learning so much by hanging around here in All Deaf Com. I have a son, he is hearing. After reading these threads (Animal Lover's removal also) I wonder what I would do if my son were born deaf. One thing as a parent, we want to provide all the necessary tools to enable advancement in life. Had I given this choice, I really do not know what I would do at this point. From my own hearing impaired life experience, I wouldn't want my son to have to go through it too. Why? Life is much more fuller hearing sounds. Im not ashamed of being deaf. In fact, I call myself deaf although I speak extremely well, and most wouldn't know it. I did mention before that no deaf school would accept me as a child in fear that it would set me behind. I hated it and it meant life is twice as hard. I really would have to think good and though about implanting my own child. I applause the parent who love and give all they got to help their children. Suzi