Who on here is going through sepration or divorce?

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My Husband Jeremy and I have been seprated since this past Monday and we are going to file for divorce next month. The reasons is because we just don't work things out anymore. But we still agree on the joint custody of the kids etc.

Who else on here is going through thar so I won't be alone here?
 
Oh dear, I'm very sorry about this. :hug: I know that you tried to save your marriage with him for some times in the past...

One thing that I'm glad that you & Jeremy care about 2 small children and make sure that you both have custody instead of war over that children...

It's very sad... but you & Jeremy know what the best for you both and your children...
 
I'm divorced and we have a child together. You should be very thankful that your husband is taking the responsibility of taking care of his children as well. My daughter's father hasn't called, seen or talked to her in 3 years. I was separated for 3 years altogether and finally divorced in 2003. He's only kept her overnight once and that's it. He's a dead-beat dad.

I'm sorry you're going thru the separation, but you can do it, its not so bad afterall being a single mom. I'm sure you'd have a lot of support from friends and family that'll help you out. Most parents that are going thru and went thru a divorce feel like they're at the end of the rope but its not true. You may feel that way for a while but it gets better. Hang in there!
 
WildKaTReSS said:
My Husband Jeremy and I have been seprated since this past Monday and we are going to file for divorce next month. The reasons is because we just don't work things out anymore. But we still agree on the joint custody of the kids etc.

Who else on here is going through thar so I won't be alone here?
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:eek: Are you serious? I had no idea you and Jeremy were having problems. I'm so sorry Hun. :hug: If you would like to talk nor a shoulders to cry on feel free to private message me. ;)
 
I already gave her *hugs*... I'm glad you'll going be strong and stand up... Try remmy, I've told you about your family who supports you as well.. You did great job and be there for your children... You and Jermey are part of responbile be there for children.
As same RebelGirl well said!

:hug: you again.. :D :ily:
 
i am very sowwy to hear about that... I was seprated for almost 4 yrs then got divorced last yr FINALLY!

i am sure that whoever ur friends and family support u and ur kid... :)
 
My divorce just went through - just posted back my signed forms for divorce papers. Probably will get the nici decree by January '06, hopefully! :D Can hardly wait to be officially divorced! Good riddance to my old marriage, not worth shit. (hearing ex, that's why)
 
I got my divorce 2 weeks ago. Child custody and child support payments have been taken care of. So I'm still paying child support by having them taken out of my paycheck so I dont have to worry about if I did made the payment or not. I try to see my kid as much as I can on the weekend.
 
I am sorry to hear this. I have been divorced for 4 yrs now. I feel good about myself and knowing that I can do it by myself with no or little help. I know I can do it so you can do it too.

Keep your chin up and be proud that you have a wonderful children that you can look after also that your future exh will be there to help you out too.

My exh and I agree alot of thing with my son and it turn out well and never had a problem for 4 yrs.

Not all divorced is nightmare but rarely good turn of even of divorced like mine.
 
We filed for divorce back in 1998. We had an irreconcilable differences. We can't agree on anythin' of how to raise our kids together, and he was makin' out too many rules on me which I don't accept it, etc. He forgot the words on the marriage: "In Sickness and In Health" and "Thick and Thin" ..... <sigh> I nursed him back to health, he doesn't. ARGH! We shared the whole things from joint custody to what things will belong to me and him. He just want to give me the whole things because just for kids. :) Nice of him...but since he still lives with us for the help he can pay the rent, bills, and insurance. I've no plan to go back to him as a wife again. I can't fathom why it's still "pending" on the court system. Now I have to go back and find out what is missing from the file folder. <sigh>

If he ever sneak in my bed :zzz:, I'll shove him off the bed in a jiff. I don't care if my bed is cozy or I'm warm. :eek:

Odd as it sounds after we go in separate ways, he decided to help me by driving me home from dentist's office (I was feelin' woozy) or from hospital. He also pick my kids up from schools. I went, "WTF??" I guess the marriage isn't for us. I'm still waiting to go back to my original name. Me think I'm going to fall in love again with him. <sigh> Weird. Glad our kids are more understandable than the others.
 
There's a woman out there that has extreme difficulty accepting the fact I told her to get out of my life on April 21, 2003 after being on the knot for 5 yrs.

Then she does tricks on me using the cops, animal control, and a bunch of feminist extremists to comemmorate the final split anniversary June 30 each year.

I moved on with my life and she cant seem to let go of me.

Richard
 
I'm sorry for what you're going through, WildKatress. I got divorced after 19 years of marriage and it was very hard on me even though I wanted to end the marriage. I suffered for most of married years. I married to new guy on May 31, 2003 and I've been VERY HAPPY with him since then. (You see me and my new husband in my avatar...isn't he a darling??) I can not imagine my life without him, ever. He has been very, very good to me, lets me do what I want to do and we treat each other with lots of love and respect, help each other, etc. It shows you that it is possible to fall in love again with someone else and with the right person, it is possible to have good life. He has three children from his previous marrage who were young when I came into their lives. At that time, they were only 6, 3 and 2 years old. Since I came into their lives when they were very young, I was able to raise them easier. Their mom sees them only once a year or longer. (long story) But the kids has been very happy to be with me and kept telling me that I'm the best mom in the whole world. I love them sooo much! I have my own 2 biological daughters who are 22 and 20 years old. They are living on their own and supporting themselves with jobs, etc. We see each other a few times a year and are very close. They both love my husband and was very happy for us. They love their step brother and sisters and my husband's children truly look up to their older step sisters...smile
 
I am sorry to hear about you going through the seperation and the process of divorce. Nobody should have to go through that but by choice, we have a reason to do it and list goes on.

I'm currently divorced and it was pretty hard but u know what, Keep your chin up ;) It will take a while for you to be able to process your feeling and sort it out.
 
Aw I'm sorry to hear about you and Jermery... :( ...


I got divorce after 15 years of marriage abuse, it was one nasty divorce I've ever been into..It put alot of stress in me when my ex kept lying in court and I thought I was losing every time I was in court, but it didn't turn out that way, once you lie, it comes right back at ya which it did, I finally won and I got what I wanted, it would have been much easier if two people sat down like an adult and sign the agreement, it wouldn't have gone this far, but he was so hard to talk to and hard to make an agreement with....But I'm glad I made it thru, even if it takes a long battle, I'm also glad to have RR at my side, without him, I might have fallen to pieces...I hope your divorce goes smooth and end soon cause you don't want to go thru something that I have....

My divorce was final on my birthday in June of 2004 after fighting for almost 2 years in court...
 
I'm sorry to learn of this and hopefully things won't turn out to be like a battle field during this process...it's never an easy thing to go through, the undue amount of stress, frustrations and at times, feeling 'alone'...this is a good time to find someone in your hometown whom you can fully trust and be a very trueful friend while you are going through this. Also, you have good friends you can turn to elsewhere as well....I do hope things will go your way and also, greater days will be there for you in the near future!!


*off-topic*

Thanks ^Angel^, I was and still am glad that I stood by your side throughout your own battles with the 'ex'...*shaking my head*....but am glad that you got through it and over with!! ;)
 
This is not a easy thing to go through. I have been divorced and now seperated from my second marriage. Being that my mom and dad was married for 50 years, I thought that I was going to be married that long too.

But, it is not the same for everybody. I am much happier and so is he because we have a lot of differences. I do want to say that we have tried to work it out but not able to. Both are hearing and I am hard of hearing.

I am blessed to have a wonderful boy who is going to college and a girl who that will be going to college next year. I am on my own again but doing very good and I will hope the best for you.
 
my parents got divorces in 1990 when i was 9 years old and my brother was 6 years old.

my parents been argues everythings and my mom got filed for separation and divorces and my mom told me she cant married to my dad anymore for more reasons and my parents been married in 1977 till 1990.

and when i was 18 years old my Aunt got divorces from her ex-husband for more reasons and her ex-husband wanted divorces from her and my Aunt dont like to get divorces!

but my parents always still have child support till my reach of 18 and my brother also reach at 18 and my Aunt also.
 
I just found out that two of my friends are getting divorced. Both of them are doing it because their wives were seeing other people behind their backs. Jeez!
 
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