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Sara, do u understand them trying to tell u something? They warn u about this man and they do not want to see u get hurt so bad because they saw so many people got hurt same way. My friend did date one man online and I told her never give him money because he did not work. I told her " u worked so hard for this money, u used it for urself and your own kids not to man who u meet on line" she did not listen to me and she gave $$$ to him anyway. Now she is sorry she ever gave him money. This man has criminals record too. Please listen to your heart and follow it, I know u wish to find mr right and getting married soon. U will someday with right kind of man, not this man because u never meet him in real person. He uses u and probably has many gfs who are in same boat as you are right now. Who knows.
 
sara1981 said:
thanks!

but im still young to enough so im 25 years old and my boyfriend is older than me.

im sure my boyfriend wont getting more mistakes for that im hope so!
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Do u believe him when he tells u truth? Is he practice absentine? Is he playing around with other women? If he lives in Africa right now, he probably has another girlfriend to give him need u know what it is? SEX. Men can not stay away from sex especially if he has high sex drive, how do u know he does not have sex with other women? I can not image men living without sex if they have gfs live faraway from eachother? Sorry I do not trust him at all.
 
Sara, can you please please get your mom to read this thread very urgent. It is very URGENT!! Your mom will understand what all of the people here are saying and I hope she will explain to you. We are very concern about you cos you are a nice sweet person. We think your boyfriend is a scammer. Scammer mean like thief taking your money. You have not met him in person yet and it is not right to give him any of your money. Please don't give him anymore money. We don't want to see you broke with no money cos your boyfriend took it all.
Please get your mother to read here very quickly urgent. Get someone or an intrepeter you can trust at the Deaf club or organisation to read here too so they can sign ASL to you to explain about what we all trying to tell you. Please do it very soon to ask for help to read this thread.
Good luck to you but please do be very careful.
 
HELLO EVERYONE!!
WHAT A STORY...I READ ALL OF THOSE STORY..
I AGREED WITH EVERYONE!!
YES...THATS FAKE...HE IS FAKE..HE WANT HER MONEY..
DID HE GIVE YOU MONEY? SARA? PLEASE...
BECAUSE MY FRIEND DID TALK TO DEAF GUY ONLINE THRU DEAF SINGLE CONNECTION. HE IS VERY NICE TO HER...TALK TALK TALK FOR FEW DAYS THEN ASK HER...CAN YOU HELP ME..I WILL MAIL YOU CHECK THEN CAN YOU CASH IT AND SEND ME MONEY? SHE USE HER SENSE...SAID NO...YOU ARE SCAM...FBI IS HERE WITH ME WATCH OUR CONVERSATION!!
THEN HE SIGNED OFF...AND QUIT FROM DEAF SINGLE CONNECTION..HIS SCREENNAME NOT THERE NO MORE...SAME FROM NIGERIA!!SO SARA...PLEASE DONT MAD AT US...PLEASE BE CAREFUL..
I KNOW ALL WOMEN ALWAYS GET HURT...CRY CRY..HEARTBROKE..
SO SARA...
SARA...DID HE GIVE YOU ANYTHING? IF HE LOVE YOU...HE SHOULD SHARE...LOVE..CARE...SEND YOU SOME GIFTS...OR GIVE YOU MONEY...
IF YOU, SARA SEND HIM ALL TIMES AND HE GIVE YOU NOTHING...IT IS NOT WORTH...IT WILL HURT YOU MORE!!!

SARA...HOW CAN YOU MARRY HIM WITHOUT HUG HIM OR KISS HIM OR LOVE OR HOLD HIS BODY..TOUCH HIM...MAKE LOVE, ROMANTIC BEFORE MARRY HIM? HOW CAN U DO THAT? I WONT MARRY GUY WHO I NEVER KISS OR HUG..I NEED HIS LOVE, HIS BODY, HIS SKIN CLOSER TO ME..HOLD ME..HUG ME..SO I KNOW HE SHOW ME HIS LOVE...TOUCH ME..THATS MOST IMPORTANT THAT HE IS THERE FOR ME..SHOW ME HIS LOVE...GIFTS..ROMANTIC...BEFORE I MARRY HIM.
OK NOW...SARA...TRY TELL HIM THAT YOU NOW NOT ENOUGH MONEY, ALMOST BROKE..GET IN TROUBLE WITH BILLS..THEN WATCH AND WAIT..
HE WILL NOT BOTHER YOU NO MORE...
HE TRY FIND WOMAN WHO HAVE MONIES..
ITS UP TO YOU SARA...MANY OF US, WOMEN HAVE BAD EXPERIENCE..WE KNOW HOW MEN DO TO WOMEN, HURT US ALOT...FOOL US..
IF YOU SAID ITS NONE OF OUR BUSINESS, THEN WHY YOU PUT IN THIS STORY AT FIRST PLACE...SO THATS WHY WE ARE HERE TO HELP YOU..CARE ABOUT YOU..
I PRAY FOR YOU...WE ALL WANT TO KNOW HOW EVERYTHING GO ON?
ASK HIM AGAIN...TELL HIM...YOU NEED MONEY, ASK HIM...CAN YOU SEND ME SOME MONEY...(SEE WHAT HIS RESPOND!!!)
 
Sara...look at it this way...u have a community out here who cares and looking out for u according to all ADers' posts. I would be very flattered and touched if that many people are begging me to be careful. It is amazing what a great forum this is. Just think of that for a few moments..ok? :)
 
shel90 said:
Sara...look at it this way...u have a community out here who cares and looking out for u according to all ADers' posts. I would be very flattered and touched if that many people are begging me to be careful. It is amazing what a great forum this is. Just think of that for a few moments..ok? :)
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Yes I would feel the same as you as well but Sara see different.

If Sara asked for our feedback etc but she didn't because she think what she doing right. She already told ADers off to not interfere her business then let her do what she wants and learn her own experience.
 
I read here whoa! I understand this AD groups are care you! Listen them because I have few deaf friends victims SCAM and spend the money. One of my deaf friend did spend the lot money to someone. She owed lot money over 60,000.00 from Bank of scam! My deaf friend angry at someone because someone supposed arrived her house but NEVER!!! Other deaf man friend victim scam too he owed over 5,000.00 Bank. He cant go any Bank other places anymore because hot paycheck. I seen through deaf people in Oklahoma suffered and lost lot money of scam!!!! Other deaf lady almost arrested because fraud paycheck from other country.

DONT GIVE MONEY!!!!! Let first person come see you then you can get proof and accept it. You will save your head!!! That's why I dont like meet stranger first time!
 
Koala said:
Sara, can you please please get your mom to read this thread very urgent. It is very URGENT!! Your mom will understand what all of the people here are saying and I hope she will explain to you. We are very concern about you cos you are a nice sweet person. We think your boyfriend is a scammer. Scammer mean like thief taking your money. You have not met him in person yet and it is not right to give him any of your money. Please don't give him anymore money. We don't want to see you broke with no money cos your boyfriend took it all.
Please get your mother to read here very quickly urgent. Get someone or an intrepeter you can trust at the Deaf club or organisation to read here too so they can sign ASL to you to explain about what we all trying to tell you. Please do it very soon to ask for help to read this thread.
Good luck to you but please do be very careful.
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Yes I understand what you mean but get mom to read this thread here doesn't solve anything because Sara would tell her that she is an adult and do what she wants.

If she won't listen us then is her own choice.
 
Oh ummm :iough: I would not trust who are scammer from Africa forget it!! :iough:
 
GILLYOB said:
HELLO EVERYONE!!
WHAT A STORY...I READ ALL OF THOSE STORY..
I AGREED WITH EVERYONE!!
YES...THATS FAKE...HE IS FAKE..HE WANT HER MONEY..
DID HE GIVE YOU MONEY? SARA? PLEASE...
BECAUSE MY FRIEND DID TALK TO DEAF GUY ONLINE THRU DEAF SINGLE CONNECTION. HE IS VERY NICE TO HER...TALK TALK TALK FOR FEW DAYS THEN ASK HER...CAN YOU HELP ME..I WILL MAIL YOU CHECK THEN CAN YOU CASH IT AND SEND ME MONEY? SHE USE HER SENSE...SAID NO...YOU ARE SCAM...FBI IS HERE WITH ME WATCH OUR CONVERSATION!!
THEN HE SIGNED OFF...AND QUIT FROM DEAF SINGLE CONNECTION..HIS SCREENNAME NOT THERE NO MORE...SAME FROM NIGERIA!!SO SARA...PLEASE DONT MAD AT US...PLEASE BE CAREFUL..
I KNOW ALL WOMEN ALWAYS GET HURT...CRY CRY..HEARTBROKE..
SO SARA...
SARA...DID HE GIVE YOU ANYTHING? IF HE LOVE YOU...HE SHOULD SHARE...LOVE..CARE...SEND YOU SOME GIFTS...OR GIVE YOU MONEY...
IF YOU, SARA SEND HIM ALL TIMES AND HE GIVE YOU NOTHING...IT IS NOT WORTH...IT WILL HURT YOU MORE!!!

SARA...HOW CAN YOU MARRY HIM WITHOUT HUG HIM OR KISS HIM OR LOVE OR HOLD HIS BODY..TOUCH HIM...MAKE LOVE, ROMANTIC BEFORE MARRY HIM? HOW CAN U DO THAT? I WONT MARRY GUY WHO I NEVER KISS OR HUG..I NEED HIS LOVE, HIS BODY, HIS SKIN CLOSER TO ME..HOLD ME..HUG ME..SO I KNOW HE SHOW ME HIS LOVE...TOUCH ME..THATS MOST IMPORTANT THAT HE IS THERE FOR ME..SHOW ME HIS LOVE...GIFTS..ROMANTIC...BEFORE I MARRY HIM.
OK NOW...SARA...TRY TELL HIM THAT YOU NOW NOT ENOUGH MONEY, ALMOST BROKE..GET IN TROUBLE WITH BILLS..THEN WATCH AND WAIT..
HE WILL NOT BOTHER YOU NO MORE...
HE TRY FIND WOMAN WHO HAVE MONIES..
ITS UP TO YOU SARA...MANY OF US, WOMEN HAVE BAD EXPERIENCE..WE KNOW HOW MEN DO TO WOMEN, HURT US ALOT...FOOL US..
IF YOU SAID ITS NONE OF OUR BUSINESS, THEN WHY YOU PUT IN THIS STORY AT FIRST PLACE...SO THATS WHY WE ARE HERE TO HELP YOU..CARE ABOUT YOU..
I PRAY FOR YOU...WE ALL WANT TO KNOW HOW EVERYTHING GO ON?
ASK HIM AGAIN...TELL HIM...YOU NEED MONEY, ASK HIM...CAN YOU SEND ME SOME MONEY...(SEE WHAT HIS RESPOND!!!)
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I agree 100%!

Sara, please listen them.
 
oh girl! here is my truth story....

3 yrs ago, guy found me thru ringo, he is from altanta, ga, he work for africia so he sent me everything pic, cell phone, addy so i was alike test see if he is honest with me or not.. so he sent me $5,000.00 so i went to post office, asked them if is this true and they checked and it was fake money order.. i knew it.. he is not honest person and he is not live in atlanta, ga cuz of i got letter return say dont know this addy.. i knew it fake lucky that i dont do anything serious..

2nd, my best friend fell in love with guy from africa where he work from, that he live usa, so he asked him to sent his money to him 1 thousands and he told him that he didnt get money so he sent other $500.00 til he keep on post one not buy ticket airplane come to see him so he found a pic from myspace that not him! he sent him fake picture.. so i told him i wish him ask me first before he send his money so he never get money back... oh boy..



i am honest tell u this stories.. so i think he is fake being ur boyfriend and he just use ur money not love u.. so good lucky.. and u will be sowwy for this and hurt ur feeling.. WATCH ME..
 
I WOULD not trust anyone from Africa period unless show me the REAL proof. sorry girl! You fell for it and believe a whole thing from online guy. So you gotta to be real careful. Good luck and I agreed with other members about it.

Best is find a guy around your home area. Online is kinda hard but good luck!

Sorry it does hurt your feeling but what else can I say?
 
TweetyBird said:
oh girl! here is my truth story....

3 yrs ago, guy found me thru ringo, he is from altanta, ga, he work for africia so he sent me everything pic, cell phone, addy so i was alike test see if he is honest with me or not.. so he sent me $5,000.00 so i went to post office, asked them if is this true and they checked and it was fake money order.. i knew it.. he is not honest person and he is not live in atlanta, ga cuz of i got letter return say dont know this addy.. i knew it fake lucky that i dont do anything serious..

2nd, my best friend fell in love with guy from africa where he work from, that he live usa, so he asked him to sent his money to him 1 thousands and he told him that he didnt get money so he sent other $500.00 til he keep on post one not buy ticket airplane come to see him so he found a pic from myspace that not him! he sent him fake picture.. so i told him i wish him ask me first before he send his money so he never get money back... oh boy..



i am honest tell u this stories.. so i think he is fake being ur boyfriend and he just use ur money not love u.. so good lucky.. and u will be sowwy for this and hurt ur feeling.. WATCH ME..
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Oh Wow :eek3: ....
 
TweetyBird said:
oh girl! here is my truth story....

3 yrs ago, guy found me thru ringo, he is from altanta, ga, he work for africia so he sent me everything pic, cell phone, addy so i was alike test see if he is honest with me or not.. so he sent me $5,000.00 so i went to post office, asked them if is this true and they checked and it was fake money order.. i knew it.. he is not honest person and he is not live in atlanta, ga cuz of i got letter return say dont know this addy.. i knew it fake lucky that i dont do anything serious..

2nd, my best friend fell in love with guy from africa where he work from, that he live usa, so he asked him to sent his money to him 1 thousands and he told him that he didnt get money so he sent other $500.00 til he keep on post one not buy ticket airplane come to see him so he found a pic from myspace that not him! he sent him fake picture.. so i told him i wish him ask me first before he send his money so he never get money back... oh boy..



i am honest tell u this stories.. so i think he is fake being ur boyfriend and he just use ur money not love u.. so good lucky.. and u will be sowwy for this and hurt ur feeling.. WATCH ME..
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Fake money order? How was it fake?
 
hmm.. maybe it wasn't a REAL money order :dunno:
 
that happened to my friend about a year and half ago...she got contacted by a person claiming that he had a babysitting job for her since she posted on the Internet that she was looking for a job. This person said she was hired without a formal interview and BSBSBSB...he said that he will pay her before she even started working..that was a red flag for me but she didnt take my words of warning and got the money order for $4,000. He told her that part of it was hers for the babysitting job and that the other part, he told her that he will give her instructions to give the cash to his "wife"..not sure what happened but she cashed the money order...turned out it was a fraud and she lost $4,0000. I dont know how it worked but they deducted $4,000 from her bank account. She was sooo devastated cuz she was broke already. Oh boy.

Money orders can be fake...but looks real. It is so strange how that works.
 
sara1981 said:
im not sure when i will getting married!!!!!!!

im still dating with my boyfriend for couples of months and im been totally fell in love with him lots and i chat him lots online of yahoo sometimes because he very busy in Africa on his jobs but i would becareful myself but my boyfriend always nice guys.

if you would like intives my wedding tell me i will add yours real names and no nicknames

if you would like come for bridal showers for girls only and NO BOYS! that my rules but i would intives my family gather and i will let you know when will annoucement okay?
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Sweetheart, I suggust you need to see him in person alot before getting married in someday.

Is he hearing or deaf ? If hes hearing.. Do he know how to sign language ?If he isn't... How you guys get communcation ? ? write ? No...he will sick of it if he write to you often by communcation... He need to learn how to sign language before getting married..whatever....

Why don't u meet deaf guys same as ur age.. in ur area or somewhere..than online ? ? Online is VERY dangerous.. Some of them are nuts..

Have ya watched "Dateline" show on tv about "Online/chat".... The reporter said.. dont trust ! ! Some of them are criminal background. Ya know what ? ? Whoever criminal people will not change after something happened to them.. Do u understand ? ? always inside of their mind... Itself isn't cure or fade.

Better is date to normal guys... without criminal background...

Sara, Good luck.... I hope you listen to our advice this thread...:fingersx:

M-:afro:
 
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VamPyroX said:
Fake money order? How was it fake?
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the post office use black light on money order and not have president face on it.. if real money order and it real face hide on money order.. we cant see but black light they use it showed me, i was ahhh got it..
 
shel90 said:
that happened to my friend about a year and half ago...she got contacted by a person claiming that he had a babysitting job for her since she posted on the Internet that she was looking for a job. This person said she was hired without a formal interview and BSBSBSB...he said that he will pay her before she even started working..that was a red flag for me but she didnt take my words of warning and got the money order for $4,000. He told her that part of it was hers for the babysitting job and that the other part, he told her that he will give her instructions to give the cash to his "wife"..not sure what happened but she cashed the money order...turned out it was a fraud and she lost $4,0000. I dont know how it worked but they deducted $4,000 from her bank account. She was sooo devastated cuz she was broke already. Oh boy.

Money orders can be fake...but looks real. It is so strange how that works.
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yea thats right.. post office say it fraud and they did call FBI and take them with them and i gave them the addy too.. so they will look for person
 
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