I should think the decision is easy here......you have a deaf/unaidble ear,with a hoh functioning ear that is best one on one and no other situtions.You have a progressive loss(prog loss people benifit significently from CI when they maxed out on aids)...Implant that ear.....you're not doing what I see some people doing.....being preoccupied with hearing without speechreading, or thinking that since CI is the most cutting edge thing out there it's gotta be best of the best......You're maxing out on aids.....that's the perfect sitution to seek implantation....
Ha. In college I had a summer research internship at Boystown. They were trying to get D/deaf and hard of hearing science students to consider getting a PhD in hearing research. My research was actually about the vestibular system but I had to go to meetings with AudDs, PhDs, and other people involved with CIs.
Anyway, I had to attend weekly meetings with several very well known people in the world of pediatric CIs. I learned so much about what cochlear implants can and can't do (at that point I was not quite a candidate).
I learned that CIs aren't magical cures and that there is SO MUCH WORK (esp for children or people who were born Deaf).
Thus, I've spent the past few years reading up about the various processing methods, the number of electrodes, the electrode depth, etc.
I'm sort of afraid a CI clinic will think I'm crazy because I know about the stimulation strategies.
But can you blame me? I spent an entire summer alone in Omaha without a car and I was 19 so I couldn't go to bars. All I could do was read the papers I was given.
I knew nobody and walked a mile to and from work each day.
A not at all unrelated note- I hate Nebraska except for the Monk's garden at Creighton University where I spent a bunch of time with the monestary kitten.