Oh, my gaylord. you've got to be kidding me.
not all white girls are PICKY like that, any other race or some asian girls are PICKY too sometimes. My gal friend who is picky about dating guys, she likes to date only HANDSOME and TALL GUYS 5'10" or taller even no BALD or no toupee, she's like the type of 'superficial'. it is up to any girls or gals who either want to date you or not. you cannot make white girls or havard girls to date you or like you, that's like controlling.
you got to be patient, find a girl who isn't picky and will accept what you are. she doesn't have to be a harvard girl. and someone who is fun to be with and a good heart person.
plenty of out there who will probably like you.
sadly, i've seen someone like the parents who don't approve of the relationship because of different race. but he or she still loves the person no matter what race is if they don't approve the relationship. one of my deaf friend, her ex-date's parent don't approve the relationship with her because she is deaf, her ex-date is hearie.
anyway, off topic:
i watched last nite "eat, pray, love" with julia roberts. she's a heart-broken then she fell in love with someone new.
well, life is too short.