What would you do??

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deaffish

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What would you do if your spouse support pay her/his ex-spouse's bills? Warn him or divorce him?? My opinion this is part of affair.
 
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Or if the ex has the children of your spouse.

And wants to make sure the kids are taken care
 
I'd learn more about these circumstances before judging them. It depends on the situation.

If my spouse was spoiling his ex with personal things unrelated to their kids or the conditions of their divorce or breakup without consulting with me, then we have a problem.
 
Liza said:
I'd learn more about these circumstances before judging them. It depends on the situation.

If my spouse was spoiling his ex with personal things unrelated to their kids or the conditions of their divorce or breakup without consulting with me, then we have a problem.
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My opinion that he still love his ex-spouse because he spoil give money support to his ex-spouse. It mean he affair on you??
 
He needs to have his financial arrangements with the ex-spouse in writing in legal tems.
 
deaffish said:
My opinion that he still love his ex-spouse because he spoil give money support to his ex-spouse. It mean he affair on you??
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It does take time for ex spouses to change their attachments and to tie up loose ends. Will he keep on supporting her financially forever or do they have a plan to wean her off his money eventually?

If you are with someone who has been separated/divorced recently, maybe you should think about letting him be until he gets his shit sorted out with the ex spouse. It's not a perfect situation, but time is all it needs to sort itself out I think. There's a reason they broke up, you know!
 
I'd rob all my ex's money and escape into northern california where one would be lost and never been found again. It's in Trinity/Shasta County, quite dangerous if you're alone. But if you have knowledge, you'd be fine. I'd live there and hunt bears as a wolf. YEA, WOLF HUNTING BEARS FOR DINNER! WOO WOO!
 
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