What would you do, when your doctor told you?

[Liebling:-)))]

It´s hard time for me trying to picture myself in that situation. I never thought about my death preparation..... I enjoying myself what I have today... I tried to picture myself how I react when the doctor gave me the sad result but I just thought about 2 examples...

1. Well, my mother-in-law who died of brain tumor in 1996. She took very bad when the doctors told her that she might stay alive up to 1 year time without operation. It´s 20´% chance to be risk to stay alive after operation. She decided to live without operation. She cried all the time & don´t want die without see her grandchildren´s first school etc. All what I saw is she prepared with her husband what he can do in the future without her etc... What he could do with his grandchildren etc. She want him stay the same what she did with our sons. Unfortunlately she died within 2 months after sad result...

2. I lost my good friend Karole to cancer in January 2000 aged 39. She has a husband & teenager daughter. All what I remember is: Her first cancer is breast. They saved her breast because she want it. She got second cancer within few months time is stomach... operation again... chemo therapy etc. After that she refused to accept the bad result that she stay alive within 1 year so she visited different specialists. She received operations few times.... She fought for her family to against cancer for 5 years, then she lost her battle against cancer. The cancer ate everywhere in her body to brain. During 5 years she traveled around the Europe with her family for 6 months. She got 2 years old Benz car (it´s her dream wish).
She choose what she like coffin.
She choose what she want to wear.
She made the list of invitation to attend her cematary to say goodbye to her because she don´t want anyone to nosey her cematary....
She choose the flowers what she like to have...
We were upset when we got the invitation card with beautiful poem from her to attend her cemetary, that´s we knew straight way that she´s gone up to heaven.

Look 2 examples...
I tried to picture myself... I think I would visit to different Specialists to cure my incurable illness because I want to beleive that the doctors made the mistakes. If it doesn´t help then I would prepare to share everything with my family... I would prepare the testament what my boys will have after discuss with them... Travel alot with them & spent most time with them...
I would ask them to respect my wish to donate my organs to save the people´s life...
Choose my favorite clothes...

I would ask my relatives & friends to not buy the flowers for me because I can´t smell them. I rather to see them use the money to donate homeless children etc than buy the expensive flowers for me. Look at poor & homeless people who need support... Look at incurable illness people who need medicine to stay alive...

 

[Opal]

I would ask my relatives & friends to not buy the flowers for me because I can´t smell them. I rather to see them use the money to donate homeless children etc than buy the expensive flowers for me. Look at poor & homeless people who need support... Look at incurable illness people who need medicine to stay alive...

Yes, Flowers is for living, not for dead people, it is my grandfather's favourite quote for my family!!

In lieu of flower money for my Mother-in-law's funeral, she want us to donated to her favourite charity Cancer's research in her honour.

 

[Kalista]

I think about alot to cremated instead of wake and funeral. I told my children that I would prefer to ash with my Mom (future Dad) in the same graveyard to be with them.

So, my children and future grandchildren can have my life insurance money. I do not need flowers, pity, cry, choice expensive caskett, music, interpreter, friends will be socialize to chatting in the wake. I do not need to see their faces stare at my death body lay on the coffin with bunches of flowers.

My children agree with my wishes... They would be prepare for this.

 

[Opal]

I do not need to see their faces stare at my death body lay on the coffin with bunches of flowers.

Who knows? Wait and see!!!!!!!!!!!!