What women want ...

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husband is looking for a perfect copy of his mommy. This happens a lot. Some men do want their wives to be like their mothers. It doesn't happen and they get frustrated.
 
PlateCafe said:
Women refuse to date mommy's boy because when wife argues with husband.
Husband will tell his mommy. And his mommy will come over and argues with
wife. And if Husband gets sick, mommy will come over and makes him soup.
If wife gives him hard times, he will run home to mommy and spend the night there.
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BearBeauty said:
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husband is looking for a perfect copy of his mommy. This happens a lot. Some men do want their wives to be like their mothers. It doesn't happen and they get frustrated.
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Hmm.... Okay... I am not like this when I have a gf. I am just close to my mom's that's all. Also my mom wouldn't get involve with my relationship, even though my gf's foster parents refuse let me see her because they think I was a bad boy. Obsiviously you guys seems never meet a mommy's boy and what are they like to be a mommy's boy.
 
BearBeauty said:
OR...

husband is looking for a perfect copy of his mommy. This happens a lot. Some men do want their wives to be like their mothers. It doesn't happen and they get frustrated.
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Eeek ! No thanks ! Over my dead body ! :lol:
 
I hate that guy who is over controlable me. Yikes...

He demanded to have me into his serious relationship. I said, ugh... he never met me in person or don't know what I look like. Unbelievable.... I put block him from my AIM list. He begged me to have my pager address, I refuse to reveal my pager address to him.

Oh gosh... I wish, Andrew is around here. It is scared me to meet new guys out there, they act like the wolves drool over sex and control with women.
I prefer to dating with hearing than Deaf guys. I am stunned to see how many Deaf guys act like immature and disrespectful.

I do not meant to insult you (Deaf guys). *sigh*
 
BearBeauty said:
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husband is looking for a perfect copy of his mommy. This happens a lot. Some men do want their wives to be like their mothers. It doesn't happen and they get frustrated.
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my soon to be ex hubby want a perfect copy of his momma.. too bad im nothing like her! lol.. no wonder he run to his momma about our plms and etc.. he is indeed a mommas boy! :roll:
 
Well then I m gonna watch porn movies. All women are not same. But I got better hourglass ass woman better than you all.
 
Some women do want their husbands to be like their fathers. And some of their fathers are no good. That is why some women meet Mr. Wrong. We don't know what good quality to look for in a man.

For example: a woman married an abusive man and her father
was a wife beater. Repeat pattern.

or

A woman married a man who is an alcoholic and her father was
an alcoholic.

or

A woman married a man who is an adulterer and her father was
an adulterer.
 
PlateCafe said:
Some women do want their husbands to be like their fathers. And some of their fathers are no good. That is why some women meet Mr. Wrong. We don't know what good quality to look for in a man.

For example: a woman married an abusive man and her father
was a wife beater. Repeat pattern.

or

A woman married a man who is an alcoholic and her father was
an alcoholic.

or

A woman married a man who is an adulterer and her father was
an adulterer.
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My real father abused me as boy. I hate him and my mom decided to divorce him away from me. And my mom and step dad raised me good boy. My real father is adultery.

My step dad is not alcoholic and taught me how to hunt, fishi, ride the motorcycle, camp, and many. He is not adultery.

"Some," you refers it. Yes, there are some and not some.

My ex wife cheated on me first. I gave second chance but did not work out. She was adultery.

Look at me I m not alcoholic person. There are more issues I don't want to address here.
 
starrygaze said:
My real father abused me as boy. I hate him and my mom decided to divorce him away from me. And my mom and step dad raised me good boy. My real father is adultery.

My step dad is not alcoholic and taught me how to hunt, fishi, ride the motorcycle, camp, and many. He is not adultery.

"Some," you refers it. Yes, there are some and not some.

My ex wife cheated on me first. I gave second chance but did not work out. She was adultery.

Look at me I m not alcoholic person. There are more issues I don't want to address here.
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Good for you. My mother is a wonderful mother. I hope to be a wonderful mother like her.
 
I am proud to say that I am not a mamma's boy. My mother drove me crazy. Yes, I still talk to her. But not everyday.

Also, that pattern, it is a lot more commen then a lot of ppl would believe. Only time that pattern can be broken, is when the women realizes it and forces herself out of that pattern. It just too hard for some to notice it or to get out of it.
 
Well then I m gonna watch porn movies. All women are not same. But I got better hourglass ass woman better than you all.
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Please respect the 'other' ladies here in AD, this is no place for comparisons or/like: "mine's better than yours, etc."....that stuff can stay out of AD.


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starrygaze said:
Well then I m gonna watch porn movies. All women are not same. But I got better hourglass ass woman better than you all.
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Well, just wait until she reaches the age of 80 years old. ;)
 
i just want a man to make his mind about stay in relationship i can't deal with man who can't make his mind about relationship i just let him go anyway
 
Freaky Cat said:
would u believe i didnt try to change my soon to be ex husband.. he is the one who TRIED to change me? i believe that is controlling and telling me what to do and to listen to him? I wouldnt change anything for anyone else.. i have to change for myself only! :P
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if he wants to change you and you don't want to changed, and then leave him. it is not worth your time and your emotions to deal with this crap. i had this similar experience with several women. when and if she tries to change me to someone else i'm not, i'd leave her for another woman. no harm, no foul.
 
Oceanblue7 said:
I like a man who has old-fashion qualities, such as opening the door for a lady, calling her first, and being a respectful gentlemen. Someone I feel comfortable with, be his best friend/soulmate, loving, caring, thoughtful, and good communication. Helping each other like a team just like the bible says two is better than one (Ecclesiates 4:9). In return giving him loving, nurturing and caring qualities.
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oceanblue7: someof you ladies posted some pretty hot guy pics .. I like NE Patriots Quarterback, Tom Brady.

are you aware that your very same dream man who got two women pregnant without marrying them? that kind of immoral action -- as many christians would like to call it -- goes against every christian doctrine, isn't it?

tom brady do have this old-fashion quality -- getting unmarried women pregnant and leave them for other women. no wonder he's an idol for many male players who leave women after getting them pregnant. what a nice gentleman tom brady is.
 
"CHANGE"

Hmmm...

Why would someone want to change you?

I am thinking.

Someone wants to change you, because he or she wants you
to be a "better" person.

What is wrong with that? I would be thankful.

Look at us SINGLE FOLKS who are so ALONE, nobody wants us!!! :giggle:

Maybe if someone helps me change and improves me, then someone
will "LIKE BETTER" in a relationship!!!!

Am I Right?
 
PlateCafe said:
"CHANGE"

Hmmm...

Why would someone want to change you?

I am thinking.

Someone wants to change you, because he or she wants you
to be a "better" person.

What is wrong with that? I would be thankful.

Look at us SINGLE FOLKS who are so ALONE, nobody wants us!!! :giggle:

Maybe if someone helps me change and improves me, then someone
will "LIKE BETTER" in a relationship!!!!

Am I Right?
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Make sure it will make you happy before you change. If it doesn't make you happy, for example, maybe your new bf want you to get drunk everyday, all the times just like him, and you don't want, then LEAVE him.

Or if your bf want you to cook his dinner, taking of his children, taking care of his house, go work and paying for his rent, etc etc etc, and you don't like it, LEAVE.

But if something that make you happy, like if he want you to give him some of rose just for a day, if it make you feel happy, stay with him and give him rose, he will be thank you with all love. :)
 
PuyoPiyo said:
Make sure it will make you happy before you change. If it doesn't make you happy, for example, maybe your new bf want you to get drunk everyday, all the times just like him, and you don't want, then LEAVE him.

Or if your bf want you to cook his dinner, taking of his children, taking care of his house, go work and paying for his rent, etc etc etc, and you don't like it, LEAVE.

But if something that make you happy, like if he want you to give him some of rose just for a day, if it make you feel happy, stay with him and give him rose, he will be thank you with all love. :)
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Alright. :ty:
 
Everyone changes, even single ppl change. As ppl grow older and wiser, they change. No matter what you do, you can not stop ppl from changing. Tech going to impove and ppl have to change along with tech.

Also, something that will happen and can change ppl. Good way to put it, look at sept 11th. How many ppl still the same before sept 11th? I don't think anyone still the same before sept 11th.

Now, in the relationship, change is going to happen. Sex drive will go up or down and ppl change. Ppl get older and body changes, so we change.

So, no matter what you do, no one can stop themself or anyone from changing.
 
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