VA Bowbender
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I've been a butcher/meat cutter for 42 years. Currently I am a Meat Dept manager for a major Washington, DC area supermarket.
Are you deaf or hoh? I used to work as a cashier for a supermarket in my teenage years. I'm hoh and I remember having a hard time understanding customers, especially when the place got crowded.
Just curious to see if some of us still have regular jobs or have been unemployed due to our situation.
I am not trying to be captious, you see because some people think that they don't have it fair because of a disability they have, everyone to me has a disability. Instead of looking for a job create jobs, become independent, become an entrepreneur. I have teamed up with members of the ASL community. If any of you meed help, it doesn't matter whether you are hearing, deaf, hard of hearing, or whatever. I believe anyone can do anything they set their minds to. It is better teaming and and working together.
How can any of us set their minds to anything in a world as HEARING as that in which we live in? Teaming up is not easy when the others have no intention in working together with the deaf individual; many will only see your deafness and never know how clever or capable you can be.
Not everyone is as "open-minded" as you say you are. What's it that you do? Let me know if I can join you.
I am an out of work IT QA Tester...and looking.
I won't get into the 'teaming up with others' part as that's been covered already up there.
But will say regarding 'become an entrepreneur/start your own business!' angle. I hear this one A LOT... thing is not everyone is business minded and is willing (or want to) to do this. I don't want to because a) I am a huge introvert and b)I would have to spend more time networking/schmoozing with people which I totally fail at. and c) who knows maybe I'd be good at business courses I don't know but math is my stress point (I do know that's only a small part of starting a business).
Throw in the fact I am deaf. While there is nothing wrong with that (I grew up oral, learned ASL in college), you still have to face what's known as the real world out there and how most people react/act towards deaf people. It gets frustrating on both times and takes more time- time that could be spent...earning money.
I agree..I work with hearing people and the ignorance is just absurd! Also, these are college educated professionals and yet, they treat me like I am not as capable as they are. Luckily my supervisor and my mentor don't treat me that way so that's why I ignore the other people who talk to me like I am a child or dumb. I talk back to them like they are dumb and don't make any effort to go out of my way to chat with them. I keep it to a minimum as much as I can. I seek those who treat me with respect and there are a precious few of them at my work. It is unfortunate that it is not the other way around.
Youth and complete ignorance! What a charming combination.
Are you saying I am "Youthful and ignorant"?