What have bullies done to you?

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Another thread asked if people are mean to you because you are deaf. This reminded me of a bully that I had. Wanted to see if anyone wanted to share experiences of a bully who was mean to you (doesn't necessary have to be related to your deafness).

For me, I would say I had two.

One was in 6th grade, he would cover his mouth and say "Haha you can't understand me!" But since I already kind of figured that he would say that and I verified it by his facial movements as he said it, I just said "Yea... I can understand you." Then he'd respond with "No you cant!"...... not a very intelligent guy. Everyone hated him though, because he'd do really lame things like that to "be cool".

The other was in kindergarten (or pre-k?) where we all were taking a nap (ahh remember those days?) and this boy RANDOMLY came up to me while I was sleeping, yanked the hearing aid out of my ear, and THREW it across the room. He got a time out. To this day, I still have NO idea why he did that! I remember it vividly because it was so shocking!
 
My son had one who, when he was in the 5th grade, pulled a switchblade on him and told him he was going to kill him because he was deaf and didn't deserve to live.
 
One bully almost broke my hand by slamming my locker door shut on it for no reason. Asked him why he did that and he said cuz I was deaf and dumb. That was the worst bullying episode of all.

2nd worse was this girl who was always harrassing me in class and I reported her. Instead of her getting into trouble, I had to change classes. :roll:
 
jillio said:
My son had one who, when he was in the 5th grade, pulled a switchblade on him and told him he was going to kill him because he was deaf and didn't deserve to live.
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OMG! :shock: I hope he went to jail.
 
jillio said:
My son had one who, when he was in the 5th grade, pulled a switchblade on him and told him he was going to kill him because he was deaf and didn't deserve to live.
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:eek3:

I was lucky nobody said that they wanted to kill me.
 
Pepsi said:
OMG! :shock: I hope he went to jail.
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He went to juvenile detention for a short time, but it took me raising all kinds of cain to get it done. It was pretty scary for me, and even more so for my son.
 
shel90 said:
:eek3:

I was lucky nobody said that they wanted to kill me.
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Yeah, this was a pretty disturbed kid, and he had been causing problems for quite some time. They just kept letting him get away with things.
 
Whoa!!! Thats...... some f&$ed up stuff!!! Gimme their names. People say that I'm surprisingly strong and I have sharp nails too.

Sorry that you guys had to experience that. Makes my experiences seem like a little fart.
 
Daredevel7 said:
Whoa!!! Thats...... some f&$ed up stuff!!! Gimme their names. People say that I'm surprisingly strong and I have sharp nails too.

Sorry that you guys had to experience that. Makes my experiences seem like a little fart.
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I dont know why I was unfortunate cuz I wasnt mean to anyone as a kid. All I wanted was to be accepted by anyone but I guess I was too accepting and people took advantage of my kindness. That's why I am not too nice anymore and dont let anyone walk all over me like that anymore.

Ya, I had friends but there was this period of time when it seemed like everyone was out to hurt me. Those years were hell times for me.
 
shel90 said:
I dont know why I was unfortunate cuz I wasnt mean to anyone as a kid. All I wanted was to be accepted by anyone but I guess I was too accepting and people took advantage of my kindness. That's why I am not too nice anymore and dont let anyone walk all over me like that anymore.

Ya, I had friends but there was this period of time when it seemed like everyone was out to hurt me. Those years were hell times for me.
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**nodding** Which is one more reason I insisted that my son attend a deaf school. BTW, this bully wasn't from school, but just lived in the same town. I got him out of the mainstream early enough to prevent a lot of the problems you had to go through.
 
some kid told me that they were going to push me off a bridge, and another one pushed me off the bus seat every day unless i brought him a coke. i had another girl on the same bus sexually harass me.
 
hjones711 said:
some kid told me that they were going to push me off a bridge, and another one pushed me off the bus seat every day unless i brought him a coke. i had another girl on the same bus sexually harass me.
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i rather be sexually harassed by a girl than being pushed off the bus seat.... unless she was an ugly nasty ho bitch.
 
it was kind of like a roller coaster, ok when is the driver going to slow down eanough for me to get up...
 
It really bugs me that people get pleasure out of hurting others. I thought I had it bad, but reading the posts before me, mine seem so little. I never got teased for my hard of hearing because I never spoke up or really talked to people I didn’t know, I was extremely quiet…and that lead to other things. Since I was quiet and not very outgoing, I was an easy target. I was the tallest girl in my class and I was always being called the jolly green giant. Every day on the bus people sitting around me would put their windows down and this one girl would mess up my hair to where it was a frizz ball, I would also have to pick out sandspurs from my hair because they would secretly put them in there. I eventually stopped riding the bus.

I have been recently teased for my hearing. At work I can’t hear the phone ring, and one of the girls I work with gets so angry that I don’t hear it and she has to answer it. So one day when the phone was ringing, she walked over to it and turned the ringer as loud as it could possibly go (like the whole building could hear it), and said “there, now you will be able to hear it” and she made me answer it. She and her mean friends laughed at me.
 
I wasn't bullied as a kid, I just kicked their ass and it was over.

I played starting string on the football team and was 2nd place in weight lifting competition in the regional division.
 
I got bullied up until the 5th grade when I turned the tables on the bullies. Unfortunately, I regret becoming a bully myself. I did it to defend myself. I'd usually push around kids that I considered to be smaller and weaker than myself. I shoved kids through doors, rigged booby traps and vandalized walls.

Again, nothing but regret over that part of my life. If I hadn't been consumed by my anger of years of bullying and such, well, I'd probably have more friends now.
 
I was bullied in 8th grade at junior high, this girl had some issue, she kept pushing me around in hallways just because I wouldn't be her friend, and I've even informed my parents, they kept telling me to ignored her, and even the school wouldn't do anything about it, so one day I've had enough, she pushed me again and slammed me against the lockers, I turned around and punched her in the face gave her a bloody nose, of course we both got suspended.

Another time was at the high school, I wasn't bullied but my twin sister was verbal bulled, and she would end up crying. I came in my sister's defense-- beat this girl up, after that she never bothered my sister again.
 
Also, my brother beat the shit out of some kid that was talking shit about me. My brother went to a regular high school and sometimes, other kids would talk shit about me to rile him up and they usually ended up with their asses kicked.
 
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