The reason I did not immediately respond to this thread was because I wanted to think it over and make sure I had my bases covered.
First of all, AllDeaf has given me friends I never thought possible. I have gotten to know some of the most genuine people who make me laugh and offer encouragement when I'm down on my luck.
Secondly, AllDeaf has given me understanding that I'm not quite so odd, and even if I were, I have a whole pack of oddballs I fit rather well with! Being deaf/hh doesn't mean I have to be ashamed of it and try to hide it, the way I was raised. Now, I am proud that I am hh and that there are others out there that do understand where I am coming from and I also have the opportunity to share my experiences that may help someone else find their place or at least find someone who understands.
Third, AllDeaf has given me a whole new language to explore, though I am far from fluent, I still find that sometimes it is easier to just converse in ASL where possible when the environment is not conducive to being hh.
I have met one AD.com member and I am forever grateful for the experience. I have also video chatted with one other, I wish we could do that more often, your sense of humor is attractive and I love seeing you smile. You both know who you are.
But most importantly AD.com has given me friendships that I hope will last me a lifetime. I hope to be able to make it to an AD.com meet and join in on the fun and make new friends. Thank you AD.com, and I hope AD.com lasts for many years to come!