Nope, I'm well aware that all most all of todays social programs are government controlled. That is why I was not playing on words. What you don't understand is that people stay years and years and years on the government programs but those that are non-government have oversight and help people to get back on their feet and remove themself from the program. I'm also well aware that there are fewer non-government outlets today due to the apathy of people thinking "let the government handle it". Many years ago when there were many non-government outlets many, many people became involved and contributed help.
Which would you rather participate in? a) a government run program that has no accountability, no oversight, no time limit nor any restrictions.........or....b) a non-government run program that does have restrictions, that does have oversight, that does require you to pull yourself up and get out of the program and be accountable to yourself.
The easy way, and most people take the easy way, is (a) but the most beneficial to society and to the person is (b).