Good point Angel.
He could be either a cheater, married or embarrassed.
I had a boyfriend who hasn't brought me to his house during the several months we've been dating, I had no clue where he lives either all I know is the city of where he lives. A friend of mine told me to follow him one day, and find out if he's married or not, so I took her advice and followed him home, I did knocked on his door and an older lady answered, I thought it was his mother because she looks older enough to be his mother, But, she says she's the wife.
OR does it means that he and his parents are not in speaking terms?...I know from my friend's experiences, her bf and his family hasn't spoken within each others for more than 10 years, that's why she hasn't met his parents yet...
I personally believe it would be wise to find out the truth first before making assumptions IMO...
Ouch!
So what did u say to her?
Nothing, I just left. I don't want to be the one hurting her with the fact that her husband is cheating on her with me. sometimes it's best to leave things unsaid after-all it isn't my marriage. But, I did dumped the dude.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN YOUR PARTNER WON’T INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS?
A woman been dating a man for nine months who won’t introduce her to his family and friends. She know he has children from a former marriage, and she haven’t even met them. Most of the time, they spend alone at her apartment or his condo, and when they do go out, it’s always at the last minute. He claims that he is a private person, and that he doesn’t want to bring other people into our relationship, but something doesn’t feel right to her. What does this mean? So what would you advice her on this? Let hear some of your opinions.
Garnetigermom did say that the boyfriend wont introduce his girlfriend to his kids and friends. That is what makes it kinda suspicous.
I'd say there are about 3 different possibilities.
1) He is a cheater and he's hiding her (very likely).
2) He is embarrassed by her somehow (maybe deafness).
3) He is embarrassed by his own family and doesn't want her to meet them because they are losers.
Number 3 isn't very likely, but it's possible. Sometimes someone figures out that their family is full of losers and abusers, so they disown them and completely stay away from them. However, it is more likely Number 1 or Number 2, and she should leave.
Something is definitely fishy.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN YOUR PARTNER WON’T INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS?
A woman been dating a man for nine months who won’t introduce her to his family and friends. She know he has children from a former marriage, and she haven’t even met them. Most of the time, they spend alone at her apartment or his condo, and when they do go out, it’s always at the last minute. He claims that he is a private person, and that he doesn’t want to bring other people into our relationship, but something doesn’t feel right to her. What does this mean? So what would you advice her on this? Let hear some of your opinions.
Could be a lot of reasons he's hiding the relationship but the most common reason could be he's married or player. Doesn't sound right at all , he ought to be proud of his gf and show her off. This is pretty strange that he would keep her a secret.