What do you NOT look for in a relationship?

Adamsmomma said:
Keep in mind I'm not 'young' anymore and this applies to the men my age that I would consider dating~~

NO Cheaters!!! Once a cheater always a cheater (in my bad experience) and don't accuse me of stepping out when it's really you who's prowling :)

No liars!!! Enough said about that

No momma's boys, move out of the house already!!... I'm already raising one son, don't want to date another I have to raise~ I love to do things for the man I'm in love with but please there is a line-- just b/c your momma ironed all your shirts for you~~ doesn't mean I will! LOL

No alcoholics, and no druggies~~ I'm not Betty Ford or Amy Winehouse~ not putting up w/that again.

No "Bums", Work for crying outloud-- UNLESS you have come into a HUGE inheritance that will allow BOTH of us to be stay at home parents!! Get a job!!

No deadbeat dads!!!! You made 'em you help raise 'em (at least that's how it should be)

And I can't be with someone who's not affectionate-- I'm not talking "Get a room" affectionate out in public but will hold my hand or put his arm around me, etc...

Ummm :) :) I have a list can ya tell?? There are many more positive things I look for but these are the ones that will make me RUN in the other direction~~
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the most hysterical post ever. I think I was clinically dead for a minute or two.
 
Insecure or wasteful spenders is what I would avoid. (Theoretically since I have been married forever.)
 
Adamsmomma said:
Keep in mind I'm not 'young' anymore and this applies to the men my age that I would consider dating~~

NO Cheaters!!! Once a cheater always a cheater (in my bad experience) and don't accuse me of stepping out when it's really you who's prowling :)

No liars!!! Enough said about that

No momma's boys, move out of the house already!!... I'm already raising one son, don't want to date another I have to raise~ I love to do things for the man I'm in love with but please there is a line-- just b/c your momma ironed all your shirts for you~~ doesn't mean I will! LOL

No alcoholics, and no druggies~~ I'm not Betty Ford or Amy Winehouse~ not putting up w/that again.

No "Bums", Work for crying outloud-- UNLESS you have come into a HUGE inheritance that will allow BOTH of us to be stay at home parents!! Get a job!!

No deadbeat dads!!!! You made 'em you help raise 'em (at least that's how it should be)

And I can't be with someone who's not affectionate-- I'm not talking "Get a room" affectionate out in public but will hold my hand or put his arm around me, etc...

Ummm :) :) I have a list can ya tell?? There are many more positive things I look for but these are the ones that will make me RUN in the other direction~~
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Excellent, excellent post !!! :) You and I think alike.
 
I can't stand it when men start out admiring my confidence and independence but soon get threatened cause I make more $$ than they do,can pay my own morgage and bills, and don't need to be taken care of.
 
I do not look for men who feel that they are superior to me.
 
Jiro said:
but it's same as everyday. "work sucks. me tired." that's why I hardly ask people - how was your day? how was work? - because I know it's same answer and i give same answer too.
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*Smiles* I see your point, I guess. But, you know...what are we supposed to do? Just be silent? I suppose I could do it easily enough. But that hardly seems a relationship...you know?
 
my mom and dad want to continue marry always. I don't understand argue to my parents seems negative; I don't know I guess my believe really, I ignored to my mom and dad reason you know should be stop.. impossible because not help better communication to love heart.. I strength.. I am hope be encourage to positive. I don't want to negative.well I guess hard to my parents want to love My Smithtr. I am stronger family positive change future hope be improve..
 
sara1981 said:
mostly dating couples always trust what right as for reasons like maria says in their examples.

If i got married somedays i would obey my future husband and listen on rules as examples for reasons:

1.No drugs!! includes cocaines,meth,majuriana,etc of types of drugs stay clean of drugs.Never going out for meet dealer buy drugs if you got serious addict types of drugs IF i have my own children somedays and going meet dealer im not appreciation! or not right i can find my own children in backbags or purse checkups they flush the toliet PEROID! stay out!

2.No smoking!! that what happened on my late Grandfather Bean been smoking chain till he got 2 heart attack in 1975 and 1976 and he dies in 1976 but i would trust my family on my behalf late Grandfather let him rest in peace he will watch me but i quit smoking years ago but my brother and my cousin also smoking BAD CHOICE! my brother is 25 and my cousin is 18.

3.No Alcoholic!! mostly married couples and dating couples always do that but its wrong!! if you dating someone and who are not drink but my boyfriend James not drink alcoholic also i respect that i cant complain with my boyfriend!! But i love my boyfriend dearly.

mostly dating couples and married couples who is serious had drugs and smoking,expect alcoholic drink include beer,vokda,whatever till drunk!! and police can look at you if you are really drunk or not need tell truth!
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You took the words right out of my mouth :)
 
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