I learned last night, it is better to be alone than having a friend who depend on you to help them with their own dramas and $. I am tired and wanted to be left alone so I can focus on my own self and my own family who need me. I have a job and they don't. They wanted to move in with us because my husband and I own a house and they are about to become homeless because they made many bad choices. I told them 3 months ago, do not live with their own children but move out. They got huge tax refund which we paid our tax back to our government, they should be happy about it and wise with it. Now they are crying on my shoulder which effect my performace on my job and made my blood sugar whacked. My husband is about to have back surgery within 2 weeks and very scary time for us because it will be long journey for us.
Friends should never depend on other friends for their own needs. Sigh.