/thanks, WDYS!
-actually we got a call at 10pm last night that the surgeon had an emergency coming in that would likely take much of today's time and we could either re-schedule or possibly try to arrange with another doc. that the planned surgeon had already discussed the situation with. I was pretty surprised as we had emotionally and other wise prepared for the surgery being TODAY. My husband took off work. He emailed his boss and is cleared to move his off time to next week. The clinic is supposed to call us in a while when the whole facility is actually open and people are available <the on-call ER person called last night>, so we can continue discussing.
I don't want to switch surgeons to someone we haven't met, and a man. She does terribly with men.
so it's been somewhat of an emotional roller coaster here! sigh.....