Update on my ex's situation
Last night, I couldnt sleep very well because I was worrying about my daughter about her having to adjust to a new family living in her house. Put me in a bad mood in the morning but as soon as I got to work and told my coworkers about this story, I felt better but still worried.
Well, my daughter texted me around 4PM saying that she misses me and loves me. Also, she asked how my first day back at work was. Told her the same and that it was hard to get back to work and how was school. She said it was boring. So, I asked her if she was doing ok. Guess what? She went on and on about how much she loves my ex's new girlfriend and her kids. She has 3 boys and a girl and the girl is 15 years old. My daughter was like alll excited about the girl and loves the 3 year old boy. I told her that I am glad she is ok and that she is happy and that was all what matters to me. Then, she said that she feels better now and that she is happy to see her dad completely less stressed and joking all the time. She HAS never spoke that highly of the other two like that...was more of "eh...they are ok." No excitement. I know it is the first day but I remembered that was how I was when I first met dad's 2nd wife. I loved her right away on the first day we met her and still love her to this day after 26 years. Maybe it is the same thing?
For whatever is worth, I just hope they are good people and if my daughter feels so happy and excited about them and connects with them in a way that she never did with the other two girlfriends and their kids, then I will tell my ex to marry her and stay with her for life! LOL
I feel better now..important my daughter is ok. After she told me that and I started feeling better, I started this new feeling of being sooo thrilled that the recent ex is out of the picture. She was horrible to me so no more Lisa...YES!!!! I still love Laurie (the first ex)..we always got along very well even when I was fighting with my ex. She never got involved and always told me that she knows that he and I fought like cats and dogs but hoped that she and I would be ok. Ever since then, throughout their relationship, we have been great. Lisa was a different story.
I will make every effort to get along with this girl if my daughter already loves her and her kids that much so soon. Wait and see.
Geez...now, it is poor me, going through with all these women. lol