What are you thinking about? Part V

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lanapoo said:
Think of how you would feel if you were the person who wasn't supposed to know.. I'm sure that person would like to know no matter how nasty the secret is. Telling the truth is better than holding it back.
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It doesnt involve me ...just a very very very sticky situation. i am talking to my friend who shared that secret with me that I am concerned for others if we keep it to ourselves about this one person. So frustrating..I could lose another friendship over this and I already lost 3 friendships last weekend for an unrelated situation. *sighs*
 
Thinking and wondering what I have eaten or drank to give me such pain in the digestive tract. I have been very good and watching all labels and such, but I am having killer pain for now and I have a high thresh hold for pain.
 
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Unsure, two signs come to mind.
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i suck at explaining stuff clearly but i'll try my best lol

for GOOF- make a "G" sign on the middle of your forehead and sign as if you're twisting something. same thing for JERK except it's on the side of your head, not middle of forehead.. not sure if the other people here have different signs for it but that's how we sign it here.
 
shel90 said:
It doesnt involve me ...just a very very very sticky situation. i am talking to my friend who shared that secret with me that I am concerned for others if we keep it to ourselves about this one person. So frustrating..I could lose another friendship over this and I already lost 3 friendships last weekend for an unrelated situation. *sighs*
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That's why I don't really like socializing with people. They make a mountain out of a molehill and lose friendships over nothing.

I believe in being honest, if others have "drama..." I like to tell them to just deal with it, better told than holding it until 5 years later... The result would be a lot worse. People just don't understand. They get all offended, run off to cry and end the friendship over nothing. At least you have the choice to be a true friend by telling the truth.
 
lanapoo said:
That's why I don't really like socializing with people. They make a mountain out of a molehill and lose friendships over nothing.

I believe in being honest, if others have "drama..." I like to tell them to just deal with it, better told than holding it until 5 years later... The result would be a lot worse. People just don't understand. They get all offended, run off to cry and end the friendship over nothing. At least you have the choice to be a true friend by telling the truth.
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This could involve a mother losing custody of her children. No, her children arent in danger...it is the drama that could result in lies and accusations that could result in having her children taken away from her and I feel helpless. i am going to contact my therapist to get input because my rationalizing on this is very very muddled right now. I need someone who is unbiased to help me see through this mess clearly. I have been holding it in for 3 days and it is really getting to me. Ughhhh.

It involves some people in my family as well which is why I dont know what to do.
 
shel90 said:
This could involve a mother losing custody of her children. No, her children arent in danger...it is the drama that could result in lies and accusations that could result in having her children taken away from her and I feel helpless. i am going to contact my therapist to get input because my rationalizing on this is very very muddled right now. I need someone who is unbiased to help me see through this mess clearly. I have been holding it in for 3 days and it is really getting to me. Ughhhh.

It involves some people in my family as well which is why I dont know what to do.
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Yikes! That does sound like a complicated situation. I hope you figure it out and do what is best for yourself and the people involved...
 
lanapoo said:
Yikes! That does sound like a complicated situation. I hope you figure it out and do what is best for yourself and the people involved...
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Just texted my therapist asking for a session. I havent seen him since I have worked all of my issues out with my daughter being taken away. This situation is totally unrelated but I know it will eat me alive if I dont resolve it.
 
shel90 said:
Just texted my therapist asking for a session. I havent seen him since I have worked all of my issues out with my daughter being taken away. This situation is totally unrelated but I know it will eat me alive if I dont resolve it.
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:hug: Hope it all works out for the best.
 
lanapoo said:
:hug: Hope it all works out for the best.
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me too..funny thing is that my friend whom told me this ugly secret also sees him. I will just not use her name and I am sure he will be able to piece the puzzles together. Wait and see. I cant battle this alone...nope, not worth it. Thanks
 
Mintee said:
i suck at explaining stuff clearly but i'll try my best lol

for GOOF- make a "G" sign on the middle of your forehead and sign as if you're twisting something. same thing for JERK except it's on the side of your head, not middle of forehead.. not sure if the other people here have different signs for it but that's how we sign it here.
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I got it! I was thinking of the middle finger touching forehead and sign for fool lol thank you :)
 
shel- that does really sound like a sticky situation.. i pray this all works out on it's own. hope the therapist helps you through this situation.. drama is never fun and i try to stay away from it as much as possible. hugs :hug:
 
Mintee said:
shel- that does really sound like a sticky situation.. i pray this all works out on it's own. hope the therapist helps you through this situation.. drama is never fun and i try to stay away from it as much as possible. hugs :hug:
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I usually stay away from drama that doesnt involve me and dont have any emotions invested in them but this could involve my family and one of my dearest friends and her children. Some bad stuff going on and I am like :eek3:...oh boy.

Thanks...if I get it worked out, I will share the details with you here so you all will understand. If not, then I have to keep quiet.
 
shel90 said:
I usually stay away from drama that doesnt involve me and dont have any emotions invested in them but this could involve my family and one of my dearest friends and her children. Some bad stuff going on and I am like :eek3:...oh boy.

Thanks...if I get it worked out, I will share the details with you here so you all will understand. If not, then I have to keep quiet.
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:grouphug:
 
shel90 said:
I usually stay away from drama that doesnt involve me and dont have any emotions invested in them but this could involve my family and one of my dearest friends and her children. Some bad stuff going on and I am like :eek3:...oh boy.

Thanks...if I get it worked out, I will share the details with you here so you all will understand. If not, then I have to keep quiet.
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If you ever need an advice. I'm here to listen so you can PM if necessary although you requested for a session with your therapist.
 
shel90 said:
I usually stay away from drama that doesnt involve me and dont have any emotions invested in them but this could involve my family and one of my dearest friends and her children. Some bad stuff going on and I am like :eek3:...oh boy.

Thanks...if I get it worked out, I will share the details with you here so you all will understand. If not, then I have to keep quiet.
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:grouphug: That sucks. I hope everything will be ok eventually for you and your family.
 
thinking about how BEAUTIFUL Dubai is... heard about it a few times but didn't realize how over the top awesome it was until i saw pictures/videos. i'd LOVE to vacation there sometime soon.
 
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