deafbajagal
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Ok, I am kind of "pffft" at my in-laws. Here's the deal. They inbox'ed my husband via Facebook about coming to visit this weekend because they would be in town for the wedding anyways...plus, we would exchange Christmas gifts as well since we didn't get to see everyone during Christmas. But it wasn't clear on what day, time, etc. and what exactly were the plans, etc. Not once had they e-mailed, texted, etc. me regarding their plans...today they showed up at noon and visited with my husband for a couple of hours. He opened our gift, etc. He had to pick up the kids and then go to work. They went on to the wedding. I had no idea what time to expect them, plus I wasn't sure if they were spending the night, etc. to make sure I had things ready for them. Also, I didn't really have time to get stuff for dinner so I was not sure..could I leave home to grab things for dinner? Would they show up and I'll be gone. Should I wait? Etc. After a few hours, I decided to just go and grab dinner (by the way, I'm in knee deep with IEPs right now, trying to keep my head out of the water) and left a note for them to text me if they showed up (the place was right next to my home, so I was only like five minutes away). After an hour, they showed up. Changed clothes, visited with the kids for a few minutes, exchanged a few words with me, and then left.
I have mixed feelings about a few things regarding this visit. Mostly negative feelings. It's hard to explain.
I have mixed feelings about a few things regarding this visit. Mostly negative feelings. It's hard to explain.