But to make a statement of the majority of hearing parents is not realistic. That is it from being involved with families and working with them in your part of the country. I'm in a different part of the country and I can also make a statement about my part of the country.
I have around 20 years of experience working with students with disabilities, I read research, I wrote a research paper - I'm not qualified to make a statement like that. I would never place a statement like that out.
I believe in cochlear implants. I have them. I only post on the part of alldeaf about hearing aids and cochlear implants. Lately all the postings have been negative. My cochlear implant is not negative. I knew all the negative before I set foot in the hostipal. I made my choice. I have discussed this with others and guess what - they also researched and made clear choices. Yes, I believe in a families right to implant a child.
First of all, I said the parents in my experience. That qualifies my statement right there.
Second of all, I am familiar with the attitudes and philosophies of the educational system in the area in which you reside. My own son was diagnosed at the very center which does your follow up, and my husband attended the university associated with the hospital in which your surgery was performed. Bill Wilkerson was the very place that advised tthat I should not use sign with my son as it would interfere with his ability to develop spoken language....extremely misguided and innacurate advise. Bill Wilkerson has always been an oral institution, and Vanderbilt Hospital, as a teaching hospital, has always been involved in experiemntal procedure. The educational system of middle TN is very orally based. I took a school system to due process in the area in order to receive a terp for my son when he was in the first grade. My first contact with Def Culture was at the League for the Deaf and HOH behind Bill Wilkerson, and it is there that I gained a perspective of deafness from those who live with it on a daily basis, and where I also learned ASL from native signers, as did my son.
I moved from that area in order for my son to attend a deaf school that is rated as one of the best in the nation. The area you are in is very oralist in philosophy.
Additionally, my experience is not limited to one geographic area, as you assumed.
Finally, my disagreement was not with your choice of CI, but to the fact that you stated that you chose to ignore the negative information regarding CI, and that you did not believe the con side of the issue would be of value to parents considering CI for their children. The topic here is whether parents are being informed of all of the issues in order to make informed choice for their children, and whether adult implantees are being informed of all of the issues prior to making their decision for themself.