Lol, been mainstreamed for my whole life except in a classroom with other deaf students when I was in kindergarten to first grade.
Wasn't in any gifted or talented program....heck, I wasn't that smart back then compared to hearing ppl (even though I was the smartest deaf student in that school).
But in middle school, I've had teachers who doubted my ability to take honors level classes or anything more challenging.....then I went to high school. I faced same doubt from my guidance counselors and teachers, but I convinced them to let me to skip 2 levels of math classes and load up on all APs and honors. Hence, I was the only junior student in my class taking AP Calculus a year younger than everybody else.
After my grade in those classes came in, they finally shut up and let me do whatever I want. In short, high school was too easy for me...I was SO BORED with high school, so I just went to look to do other things...
Now, fast forward to the winter of my senior year of high school, when I found out that I've been accepted into MIT Early Action (just one of the 500 people accepted out of 5000 applicants)....December 15, 2009 at 9 PM....I"ll never forget that day.
I was the only student to be accepted into school like that for the first time in the school history in the last 10 years, and the first deaf student as well!
So, the point is, you don't need to be in any gifted and talented program or high IQ or anything like that as long you believe in yourself and stick up for you know what you can do.