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real life!!"
Dont you hate it when people say that? I was talking to my birth mom today and she totally pissed me off. I told her I wanted to quit my job because I dont deserve to be treated like shit. I want to vent so if u dont care for this then stop reading.
Me: I dont think I'll go this fall because Im trying to get a new job still
Mom: why would getting a job stop you from attending?
Me: Because I may have to work 2 jobs because I havent been able to find a job that pays what I make now
Me: Plus I dont know how flexible in schedule my new job would be, or if it has health insurance. I cant get vocational rehab assistance without health insurance
Me: And if I got a job without health insurance, I could apply for MN care health ins. but i have to go off health ins for 6 months
Mom: you can pay for your own health insurance - Jeff did for some time
Me: Which means VR would drop me until I got health insurance
Mom: so apply for individual coverage someplace now
Me: I cld get MN care, which I'd pay for, but like I said I would have to go 6 months without insurance
Mom: but I thought you had it?
Me: I have health insurance through my work
Mom: so if you're getting a second job, who cares if it has ins?
Mom: you'll be covered on the first
Me: Because i want to quit my first job
Me: its fucking stupid
Me: Im sick of being treated like dirt and everytime I try to solve the problem people tell me that im being dumb or its not a big deal.
Mom: welcome to life - where you put up with lots of things you don't like to make a living
Me: I dont have to work at a bead store for the rest of my life
Mom: so you'd rather risk school and insurance?
Me: If you want to put it that way, yes.
Mom: if you don't finish college, you WILL be working at bead stores the rest of your life
Me: I'll finish college.
Mom: you can't get anywhere as an unskilled laborer
Mom: maybe by the time you're 30 if you're lucky
This is the woman who told me that if i didnt go back to school right after i graduated from HS, I'd have to work 2 full time jobs - she expected me to work 16 hours a day. And if I went back to school, she expected me to go full time and work full time as well. Cause thats what SHE did. Hello, I'm not you! She sounds supportive doesnt she? Bah. She was like this the whole year I lived with her, it was really unbearable. It was a large reason why I moved back home with my dad. I felt like telling her, HELLO WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK I HAVE BEEN DOING SINCE I GRADUATED FROM HS IN 2002! Ugh. Parents. She thinks she can lecture me because she spent a total of 3 years constantly in my life and because shes my birth mother. You dont even wanna hear the rest of the convo.
Thanks for listening.
Dont you hate it when people say that? I was talking to my birth mom today and she totally pissed me off. I told her I wanted to quit my job because I dont deserve to be treated like shit. I want to vent so if u dont care for this then stop reading.
Me: I dont think I'll go this fall because Im trying to get a new job still
Mom: why would getting a job stop you from attending?
Me: Because I may have to work 2 jobs because I havent been able to find a job that pays what I make now
Me: Plus I dont know how flexible in schedule my new job would be, or if it has health insurance. I cant get vocational rehab assistance without health insurance
Me: And if I got a job without health insurance, I could apply for MN care health ins. but i have to go off health ins for 6 months
Mom: you can pay for your own health insurance - Jeff did for some time
Me: Which means VR would drop me until I got health insurance
Mom: so apply for individual coverage someplace now
Me: I cld get MN care, which I'd pay for, but like I said I would have to go 6 months without insurance
Mom: but I thought you had it?
Me: I have health insurance through my work
Mom: so if you're getting a second job, who cares if it has ins?
Mom: you'll be covered on the first
Me: Because i want to quit my first job
Me: its fucking stupid
Me: Im sick of being treated like dirt and everytime I try to solve the problem people tell me that im being dumb or its not a big deal.
Mom: welcome to life - where you put up with lots of things you don't like to make a living
Me: I dont have to work at a bead store for the rest of my life
Mom: so you'd rather risk school and insurance?
Me: If you want to put it that way, yes.
Mom: if you don't finish college, you WILL be working at bead stores the rest of your life
Me: I'll finish college.
Mom: you can't get anywhere as an unskilled laborer
Mom: maybe by the time you're 30 if you're lucky
This is the woman who told me that if i didnt go back to school right after i graduated from HS, I'd have to work 2 full time jobs - she expected me to work 16 hours a day. And if I went back to school, she expected me to go full time and work full time as well. Cause thats what SHE did. Hello, I'm not you!
She sounds supportive doesnt she? Bah. She was like this the whole year I lived with her, it was really unbearable. It was a large reason why I moved back home with my dad. I felt like telling her, HELLO WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK I HAVE BEEN DOING SINCE I GRADUATED FROM HS IN 2002! Ugh. Parents. She thinks she can lecture me because she spent a total of 3 years constantly in my life and because shes my birth mother. You dont even wanna hear the rest of the convo. Thanks for listening.
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but still working full time.. hopefully spring i'm gonna change into part time job and go college full time.. *praying*
