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It seems like the stereotypical idea that doctors/audiologists forcing parents to do the oral route doesn't apply to several of us here. When I was diagnosed at 18 months old, they told my mom that I had very little chance of having beyond a 4th grade literacy if I tried to go through a hearing school, so my mom should just send me to a deaf school.
It's odd because... what if a doctor tells a parent to send their child to go a deaf school, not because they are pro-ASL, but rather because they have little faith in deaf people, so might as well send them to a school where they can be "happy" with other kids with the same "problems"? And somehow the parent looks like a hero to other deaf kids because they "didn't" go through the oral route?
That's so weird because the doctors told my mom for me to be normal, I should never learn sign language and learn how to speak and be in public schools.