Violence Pregnancy and children..

MilitaryGirl83

MilitaryGirl83

New Member
Joined
Jun 2, 2003
Messages
3,605
Reaction score
0
I read an article about it in Epregnancy mag...it's so sad! Some women who survive it but some others didnt. *Shudders* Why does men who are abusive want their wife and baby die??? Why does other men kill them so they can be with other women??? I read in one section that one man who murdered his wife and unborn babyis in jail for 40 years without the possibly of parole.

I don't understand why it has to happen especially it involves the unborn baby. It takes two to make a baby yet some of the men want to get rid of the mother and the baby for various of reasons but most commonly has to do with affairs of other women. It just is so terrible!

And about babies and children who are abused and killed by some parents..it's just so terrible!! It's not the babies' fault that they cry for some reasons and why does children are being abused for no reasons even if it's a simple mistake like eating candy before dinner. Those people who harm them shouldnt be parents at all and shouldnt be having sex at all!!!

Now tell me your thoughts about this.
 
U know what I totally agree with you WildKaTReSS, It's a terriable world where we living in and having babies died during the time the mother being abustive.. I have seen worst it just breaks my heart and make me soo angry I wish there was more laws protected women who are pregnant and being in an abustive relationship.. or if the father doesnt want the child he kills both the mother and the unborn baby.. It just makes me soo sick to my stomach.. I wish the killing will stop!
 
What's worse is the fact that these women don't do anything. They have no faith or trust in the outside community. She doesn't even trust the police enough to come forward about her husband's abusings. The other problem that these women have is that they "love" their husband too much to report them to the police. It's more of a mental problem.
 
Domestic Violence is awareness about the HIGH level of violence in our family system today....It also denies much research in contrast starting with the 1975 National Family Violence Survey...No one, man, or woman should HIT anyone if they hadn't gotten the message as a child that hitting is WRONG....A lot of them were raise in an abusive home then grew up becoming what they went thru as a child...Unable to handle their emotions...temper.....anger....and etc.....and physically beating a child of their own....

Each year, hundreds of children in United States are cut off from what should have been a worry-free path to adulthood by the hands of a parent or parents....The violent death of a child stikes a STRONG emotional outcry in public consciousness....It is MOST heartbreaking to see children and babies being killed by their parents....It is almost too much to bear to see another child being beaten to death...

For Spouse Abuse.....There are different kinds of abuse...

1. Verbal Abuse
2. Emotional Abuse
3. Financial/Resource Abuse
4. Sexual Abuse
5. Physical Abuse

Most women and men are scare to leave their abusive relationship for alot of reason.....Some are afraid to leave because of getting beaten worse and maybe end up being killed.....Some of these spouses whether man or woman have no where to go......Some loves their spouse too much......Some are scared to leave their children behind....Some dont know who to turn to during these emotional and pychological times and whom to trust and be able to fully confide with...whereas taking these steps calls for boldness on their part and quite possibly knowing that taking such steps may infuriate the aggressor (one who is doing the abuses) more...with this in mind, much encouragement is needed from family, friends alike in order to be able to overcome ANY kind of abuses and put an end to it....
 
About 5 yrs ago, when I was a freshman in high school...

I heard news about the carolinas' panthers' football player has hired afew "professionals" to go out and kill his g/f, who is like, 5 or 6 months pregrent, chased her in the car, using a uzi or whatever it was, shot up on her front, and she got shot in the belly before she could call 911 on her cellphone and then got her car hit somewhere, and the guys just ran away. the baby was in bad shape, but it's a miracle that the baby survived, but the mother died two days later after the attack.

the man who hired those killers has tried to run away, but got spotted in tennssensse...he was hiding in a car and so they took him back to NC. He was sentencted proably about 10 to 25 yrs in prison, while the others who shot the woman were sentenced to 50 yrs in prison.
 
That is soo Sad Steel.. *sigh*....
 
I know someone who was in an abusive relationship with her ex. She tried to hide her pregnancy because she knew he wouldn't like it but of course, he found out because he noticed she missed her period a few times so he decided to beat her up and punched her stomach repeatingly. The result is she had a miscarriage but never went to the hospital because he wouldn't let her.

Why did he do this? Because he doesn't want a kid. Why doesn't he just walk off and let her take care of her child? Stupid man.
 
Oh my gosh! Butterflygal,is she still with that mean guy? I wonder how she is doing now.. I am pretty sure she's still sad because her child isnt here anymore because of him.
 
No, she is not. She had some people helping her out get out of that relationship and she has someone wonderful now. For that awful guy, he is definitely out of the picture but sadly he has been abusing other girls.

Forgot to add...

She is of course sad that the baby is gone but she has moved on with her life and met someone wonderful who treats her well. So she is happy right now.
 
Last edited:
Back
Top