Video Blog #2: Looking for a spouse online

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This is one of the better dating advice I have seen in a while on Youtube I really enjoyed that one, in some ways I am alots like him. :) :thumb:
 
Sunshine1 said:
I don't see subtitles there. Can you explain how can I get to it pls?
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There is a total of 7 or 8 subtitles he talks then the video clip goes dark for a few mintunes then you will read what it says then the video clip moves back brightly to him ..... You will need to watch the whole video clip in order to get the full benefits. Let me know what you think ? :) :thumb:
 
Heath said:
There is a total of 7 or 8 subtitles he talks then the video clip goes dark for a few mintunes then you will read what it says then the video clip moves back brightly to him ..... You will need to watch the whole video clip in order to get the full benefits. Let me know what you think ? :) :thumb:
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I see what subtitles really is. Well I see it but I didn't find any goods about it. It's boring. Sorry
 
Health, how can deaf ppl hear that the guy was saying?? Why don't you put the words in here so we can understand what it was said? HUH??
 
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With all due respect Heath, you need to stop. You're looking for mates in all the wrong places. I don't want to knock people who found signficant others online, and are very happy. That does happen, but it's rare when it does.

You're best bet is to find a nice young lady at a church function. Please cosider this advice. Otherwise, you could be sorely disappointed just like you were before.
 
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I did not post this for myself, I posted this for you guys and yes I told you I already am looking in church for a good woman but I don't go there for the women, I go there for the church service. If you really paid attention to what I said then you would have understoodand as far as what the guy is saying in the video clip, You need to watch for the tips on screen when he is talking then you will see about 7 or 8 tips on screen. How so hard is it to follow the instructions to watch the whole video clip because by then you would have seen some very good advice on there.
 
Heath said:
I did not post this for myself, I posted this for you guys and yes I told you I already am looking in church for a good woman but I don't go there for the women, I go there for the church service. If you really paid attention to what I said then you would have understoodand as far as what the guy is saying in the video clip, You need to watch for the tips on screen when he is talking then you will see about 7 or 8 tips on screen. How so hard is it to follow the instructions to watch the whole video clip because by then you would have seen some very good advice on there.
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Eh, thanks ...But, I don't like the idea of finding a mate online. That's not the best place to find a decent individual.
 
Oceanbreeze said:
Eh, thanks ...But, I don't like the idea of finding a mate online. That's not the best place to find a decent individual.
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I did not say it was the best idea.... for some people they may live way out in the country then I can see where dating online would be useful then meet up wit each other. I don't look for women online either but some of it also applies even when you are not looking for women online but when you are at work or at home and meet a good woman, have to make sure and check out to see if she says what she is by the way that guy in the video clip married a woman online and now they have a baby together.
 
Heath said:
I did not post this for myself, I posted this for you guys
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That's mighty nice of ya Heath but dont assume that everyone is having the same problems finding a mate as you are. I watched the video and it's pretty much common sense. The tips (what you call subtitles) were as follows; (some doesn't make sense to me)

1. Find out her expectations
2. Find out why she wants to get married
3. Find out what her friends think of her
4. Make sure her sister is single
5. Find out if your personalities match
6. Make sure she is not a stalker
7. Find out when she wants to have kids.
 
rockdrummer said:
That's mighty nice of ya Heath but dont assume that everyone is having the same problems finding a mate as you are. I watched the video and it's pretty much common sense. The tips (what you call subtitles) were as follows; (some doesn't make sense to me)

1. Find out her expectations
2. Find out why she wants to get married
3. Find out what her friends think of her
4. Make sure her sister is single
5. Find out if your personalities match
6. Make sure she is not a stalker
7. Find out when she wants to have kids.
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Number # 4 actually says " Make sure the sister is single "

and # 6 I actually had women who stalked me and they were major mental nutcases. No one wants that. Even if she is not a stalker, still good to know wheter she is a mental nutcase or not.

They do make sense, even if you are not looking for a woman online and meeting women from work and at home.
 
Oceanbreeze said:
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With all due respect Heath, you need to stop. You're looking for mates in all the wrong places. I don't want to knock people who found signficant others online, and are very happy. That does happen, but it's rare when it does.

You're best bet is to find a nice young lady at a church function. Please cosider this advice. Otherwise, you could be sorely disappointed just like you were before.
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If you paid attention in the thread that Reba suggested I make to see about getting some good advice and help. If you read through that whole thing again then you will see I was looking in all the right places. Actually pay attention for once then you will get it, what I am saying.
 
Heath said:
They do make sense, even if you are not looking for a woman online and meeting women from work and at home.
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No Heath... Like I said .. TO ME... some don't make sense... You can't tell me what does and doesn't make sense TO ME. In fact the one about making sure the sister is single really doesn't make sense... Why is that? In case it doesnt work out then you can go after the sister??? WTF??
 
Heath said:
If you paid attention in the thread that Reba suggested I make to see about getting some good advice and help. If you read through that whole thing again then you will see I was looking in all the right places. Actually pay attention for once then you will get it, what I am saying.
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I was paying attention. Get a grip, Heath. Finding a mate online isn't where it's at.
 
rockdrummer said:
No Heath... Like I said .. TO ME... some don't make sense... You can't tell me what does and doesn't make sense TO ME. In fact the one about making sure the sister is single really doesn't make sense... Why is that? In case it doesnt work out then you can go after the sister??? WTF??
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He never said that. He was talking about finding out if the sister is single, he checks with her friends to see if she is single then he checks with his friends to see if she is really single then he asks her himself if she is single then he steps back and watch what happens. Going after somebody's sister is sick. Please use common sense. I think you are taking advantage of the fact that we can't hear the video clip and you don't like me so you want to make me look bad. Well, I am here to tell you I am not a bad guy and you could use a real good dose of commonsense. i also happen to think you are trying to score points with the ladies and in the end that never works. I am not here to win points with the ladies which is something you are doing right now.
 
Oceanbreeze said:
I was paying attention.

If you did truly understand then you would not be agruing with me and you would be helping me which is something you do not even want to do. You still are not paying attention.

Get a grip, Heath.

You are the one who needs to get a grip, not me. Go back and read that thread then you will go " Oh shit, he was right " and hang your head in shame then you will want to apologize to me.

Finding a mate online isn't where it's at.
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Did I say it was a good way to meet someone online. No , and use your common sense. Even I know that looking online is not a good idea but it may work for some people and I don't look online for women. I go out and meet women at work or at home or at a social event.
 
Heath said:
Did I say it was a good way to meet someone online. No , and use your common sense. Even I know that looking online is not a good idea but it may work for some people and I don't look online for women. I go out and meet women at work or at home or at a social event.
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You're not making sense. You put up a thread about a video advocating finding a spouse online, and yet, you imply it's not a good way to meet someone?

I'm sorry, bud, but there's a problem here somewhere. You wouldn't be posting about something unless you endorse it.
 
Heath, Oceanbreeze is hearing. You are deaf. She heard what he said in the video. Showing a video to the deaf community that doesn't have closed caption is a BAD idea. You or them will never understand the WHOLE thing. Only 8 subtitles doesn't mean anything, unless you get more out of his flapping mouth. Some don't like online dating, some do. Oceanbreeze doesn't believe in online dating, is what she means.
 
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