ryancher said:So, how can they diagnose then?
I want to make sure it's not a disorder and implant and it not be sucessful.
ryancher said:A successful ci for Tyler would be a true without a doubt response that he understands when we speak - head turn, sign response, oral response, etc... We are so up in the air right now... we have no idea what he hears and what he doesn't. Sometimes I wonder if he turns because of movement, periphal, etc...
I want a definete sign that our voices are being heard.
If he chooses to sign as a response, great. If he chooses to speak as a response, great. I just want an accurate and appropriate response!
I'd love both hearing and understanding!
And how he chooses to respond can be his choice... although I will still promote both.
Do you understand that if he is able to hear you and understand you he will speak to you?
It isn't like he will stubbornly choose ASL>
So really you are saying you want him to be a hearing child.
A CI can't make someone a hearing child, but it can provide a deaf child with access to sound. What the child can do with that sound varies.
I know children with CIs who prefer ASL, just as I know children with CIs who prefer to speak. There can be a complex set of variables that drive a child in one direction or another. Achieving equal access and value of two languages is not easy, but it is possible.
Wanting access to sound doesn't mean you DON'T want to communicate with ASL, they are not mutually exclusive. You can have a happy, healthy deaf child, fluent in both ASL and a spoken/written language who is able to communicate with ease with those who are hearing and those who are deaf.
True. BUt the mother here says she wants to have him understand her speaking and then respond. It would be different if she was willing to use ASL as the communication if he could not understand her speech
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of course grendel! We were just remarking that if a child with a ci may not ever reaching "understanding running spoken language" and that would be the highest level of functioning. Also, a person who understands all spoken language through listening with a ci wouldn't generally answer back in asl.