Nah, I dissagree totally! LOL!
Sorry VamPyroX, but I don't see logic in that, to my mind, so I'm going to dissagree... life doesn't usually hand everyone out some balance of things to work with...
I've met plenty of beautiful people who are just genetically blessed, they're not vain and self obsessed at all! Are you saying all attractive people are narcisistic, and could only be nice people if their career sucked for example? I don't believe that, some people are just genuinely and naturally handsome/pretty... and there are sure a lot of less attractive people who spend a whole lot of time trying to be something they're not, and sucking up time they could spend on the rest of the joys in life! I've also met plenty of unkind, morally and spiritually bankrupt people who weren't at all competant or successful, and weren't even remotely stereotypically attractive either... to most people's eyes, very ugly, in fact. There is so much more variety in life than you appear to credit people with! (unless I missunderstand your meaning) Some people really do shine in many ways, they aren't necessarilly moral bottom feeders just because they're attractive and have a great job that they're good at, for example. Vanity is a flaw of the spirit/mind not something that comes of being attractive in the eyes that you don't see through (other people's).
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, morality depends on your value system, so that's very personal and could be different for everyone, success is part work, part opportunity, part skill, part motivation and part time & chance!
As for dating 'ugly' people, I've never dated anyone I wasn't attracted to, or that I thought was ugly when I met them... but I've been out with a few guys that some other people who know me looked at as too unattractive, personally I didn't think so. Attraction is important, but defining someone as ugly isn't always so simple. There was one guy i dated breifly, who isn't and wasn't ever successful, who turned out to have the ugliest nature (moral scum, IMHO) of anyone I've ever met, and he was at best, only a poor average looking... until his nature showed thru, then he seemed very ugly. Frankly he didn't have much going for him at all! LOL! That's exactly why I talk about him in the past tense, I moved on, because he was ugly in multiple ways, to my perception! *Shudders at the thought of him!* Scary guy. He might have some redeeming features, but none that obviously show. I think maybe his only redeeming feature is to serve as a warning to others in life! One of my best friends, on the other hand, was very beautiful but didn't really notice that she was, she was a very successful doctor, and she spent all her spare time off work volunteering as doctor in very poor places, using her work skills to help people out of kindness and her spiritual beliefs... she was one of the kindest most loving sweetest people I've ever known, she was a big success in her work, and was physically very beautiful. Her only flaw is that she's not here anymore, what is the saying... Only the good die young?
I miss her.
Sorry, I can't help it for feeling that way. Hope I didn't offend anybody in any way and I am just being honest how I feel or whatever. 
Unfortunately, my husband has declined my request for a personal harem. 
Boy-band cute guys aren't my forte either. Been there and done that! I must admit I like 'em tall and bulky with a rugged handsome look. That's a real man for me. To each one's own!