Don't get me wrong but every living, breathing thing (including humans) is a ticking bomb. If it didn't explode, thanks God. Love is always the last thing in the list because that's not how it works in the nature. Just saying. As long as you keep that in your mind, you'll be fine.
I think you are confusing loving with spoiling.
You CAN love an animal and treat them with respect and understanding their natures. Including understanding the need of a dog to know where they are in the hiracy. So It's very important to be really consistant with Jilli. But I don't think I can love Jilli too much.
I know with some owners they go on and on about how they love their pets. But some of these pets are really spoilt. Not because of the love, but more often lack of consistancy and disopline. Also some people don't seem to understand their pets natures but it's got nothing to do with loving or not loving. You should try to understand the animal natures but that and loving is too diferant things intirely. It's quite possible to do both.