Too Depression. Sort of need help. Need some of your advices?

I'm sorry your "friend" Robert stood you up. If he really care about you, he should have let you know he changed his mind and changed his plans about coming down to see you. So I guess the best thing is to move on and spend time with your new boyfriend.

So cheer up, okay? :hug:
 
I'm really not understanding some of this and keep hoping further posts will clear it up....have a great Thanksgiving....
 
Cheri said:
From what I don't understand is why would u want your ex boyfriend to come and visit you? There might be a possible feelings involved, Sometimes people don't know that until it happened. I think it's all right to be friends with your ex but having him coming down to visit you does not look good. I understand that you care about him, I'm sure in your heart you still have feeling for him. Every ex's do. That's why I don't hang out with my ex's, just be their friend by talking to them once a while on the Internet not in person because I'm afraid that feelings might come back if we see each other in person. Those feelings are unavoidable, It's not simple to remove your ex from your heart, but you can control your emotion with your mind. But, people always say "follow your heart". That a risk that you shouldn't take, if you are with sequoias. ;) So, You can be Robert's friend but it's not necessary to have him come and visit you.
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I wanted him to coming up here and visit me because he is my best friend, (i guess used to be) he always care abt me and being there for me, also I wanted him to seeing my family again. I knew he do loves me alot but he let me go and he dont care if Im with Seq or any guys, he want to see me to be happy again because right after, I found out abt him did something wrong then Im not happy since from Feb 2005 with him and cannot trust him. Until I realized that I made miskate to staying with him. Also I told him the reason and he understood and let me go thats all. No, you got wrong idea abt that, I dont have ANY feelings for him anymore. I did love him. Right now, since he and I broke up, no feelings. Ohh your advice sounds good! Right now, I will only talk to any of my exs on the internet, but not seeing them in person. Thank you for giving that advice! :hug: I already followed my heart to be with Seq and I will be Robert's friend always but, right now I found out more abt him and I decided to not talking to him for awhile. I will tell every of my friends who do talk to him and such like that they dont tell me whats up with him or what he want to tell them to tell me. No way, I wouldnt want to hear from him for AWHILE. Until I am ready to talking to him again. I would email him and such like that. He hurt me once and I dont want to talk to him again and getting hurt more and more from him, just forget it abt him and what happened.

Thank you for caring and your advice, Cheri! :hug: again
 
GalaxyAngel said:
Sweetheart,

Don't let him win over you and trying hurt you more any kinds make you feel want him.. He knew you're want him... So he want beat you up pain in love.. Useless..
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Im not going to let him win over me and try hurt me more. I told him that I dont want him anymore, he knew that. He only want me and such like that.

GalaxyAngel said:
You have to stood up and be strong for him.. Tell him.. Forget, Now I know you're trying to beat me up for pain in love. Time to stop.. Last resort say, Good Bye to you... End of Discussion w/him...
He'll smell the coffee. (wake up) How he is totally abursd done to you. Don't let him apgolize to you again.. Forget it.. Nice try!
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Ohh thats sound good advice! Thank you for giving me that! I will do that to him lol. I bet it will hit his head and shock that Im not care that he is not here anymore because he did it and now I knew that he couldnt care abt me anymore and such like that, I will tell him to MOVE ON and find another woman whoever he want to date with right now.

GalaxyAngel said:
You can look up the bright side and think about change what do you really need move forward new business... as such new life, new date, new things anything you like to...
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Ohh thank you, Im already move on since Im dating with Seq but Im trying to get new life because of stuffs happened between of me and my friends and exs. But thank you :)

GalaxyAngel said:
Let's do it.. Move your feet and fresh start! *wink*
I believe in you can do it.
*smile*

Everyones are totally good moral supportive where the best place here...
:ily:
Take care!
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Thank you for believe in me can do it heh. Yeppers, Im glad that everybody are totally good moral supportive where the best place here PLUS my mother, two sisters, a brother are support me when that happened. But cant wait for my mother to telling my father :eek2: my father, Robert better watch out. Heh

By the way, thank you for your caring and advice, GalaxyAngel!
 
TweetyBird said:
oh no! i m very sowwy to hear abt that... he need tell u the truth n what's going on... than u got worry too much so let him go n not worth ok? :hug:



also i thought u n seq are dating???
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Thats alright, thank you! :hug: I knew he should tell me whats going on. but he is a huge jerk ugh. I am already let him go. Thank you! :hug: again

Yeppers, Seq and Im dating since.
 
Autumn Tree said:
I'm sorry your "friend" Robert stood you up. If he really care about you, he should have let you know he changed his mind and changed his plans about coming down to see you. So I guess the best thing is to move on and spend time with your new boyfriend.

So cheer up, okay? :hug:
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Thats alright, but thank you for caring :hug: :dunno: I guess hes being jerk. Im moving on with my amazing guy, Seq heh.

Thank you :hug: Im already cheer up by posts in here and Seq cheer me up last night heh.
 
Sweetheart said:
Thats alright, but thank you for caring :hug: :dunno: I guess hes being jerk. Im moving on with my amazing guy, Seq heh.

Thank you :hug: Im already cheer up by posts in here and Seq cheer me up last night heh.
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That's great! Glad you are cheered up. ;)
 
Hey Sweetheart, stick with Sequoia becuz he is your new best friend! Don't worry about that guy who you thought was a friend. I agreed with Cheri and ^A^ that it's not a good idea to visit ex-bf or ex-gf in person unless there is child(ren) involved. Be strong and have faith :)
 
DeafMonkey said:
I dont know if I am right or wrong :dunno:

If he is playing the game on you?
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I guess you are right that he is playing the game on me since my brother, dad and males in my family said that he is since he is a man and they are men so they can feel his ways and such like that. Ugh, what a jerk.
 
flyfishfemme said:
Hey Sweetheart, stick with Sequoia becuz he is your new best friend! Don't worry about that guy who you thought was a friend. I agreed with Cheri and ^A^ that it's not a good idea to visit ex-bf or ex-gf in person unless there is child(ren) involved. Be strong and have faith :)
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I am already stick with Sequoias... Aww, of course I do consider him as my new best friend lol. Thats right, I agreed with Cheri and ^Angel^. Now I knew what to do with exs. Im not going to see him anymore and will not talk to him for awhile. Until feel ready to talk again, I bet it will take too long to get ready to talk again. But its his loss to lose me as good friend what my mom said. *shrug*
 
Sweetheart said:
Thats alright, thank you! :hug: I knew he should tell me whats going on. but he is a huge jerk ugh. I am already let him go. Thank you! :hug: again

Yeppers, Seq and Im dating since.
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i m glad that u stay with seq... ur ex bf is not good for u...;)
 
TweetyBird said:
great! i know seq is very nice man for u....:D
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I agreed that Seq is very nice man ALSO sweet, amazing, funny guy for me! Thats why I love him. He always be there for me when I need him, always cheer me up no matter what it is. Also he love me for who I am. :D Thats why I love him and would love to stay with him and such like that... :giggle:
 
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