~*Kaelei*~
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My opinion: Simple words-I AM NOT IN FAVOR OF THEM. I never have been and never will be. Cochlear Implants are way to "robotic" for me. I would never have dreamed that on my son. My wife had originally wanted it. We went and did everything necessary to see both sides (good and bad). In my opinion, the Bad outweighed the good. People woke up with paralysis (rare) or they just never adjusted so you had the surgery done for nothing. Many people used them for a few years and they got old, so they stopped the use! A student I worked with, at a local school (I interpret for the school district), has attempted 3 Cochlear Implants. One while he was 1 1/2 years old, one when he was 5, and one while he was 14. None of these have been successful. He has given up and he has always been fluent in American Sign Language. When he tried the Implant, the parents did everything possible to help...but it still didn't help.
What's wrong with being profoundly, permanently deaf? Have a Cochlear Implant is NOT the best of both worlds, like some claim. Generally, your doctor who does the procedure is extremely against Deaf Culture, the language, and the rituals. Therefore they ask for total verbal communication. I compare Cochlear Implants to oralism.
I'm sorry if this is opinionated. Didn't intend to be that much opinionated.
I personally think Cochlear Implant is one of the greatest thing that has happened to the Deaf Culture and Oralism Culture. I'm 22 years old and I had CI since age of four, it's implanted on my left ear. It's the greatest thing ever happened to me and I love hearing through CI. Sure there are risks but their rare, meaning they rarely happen. I only have two friends out of 10 friends with CI that only had problems with it. Sure, CI may not be for everyone but it doesn't mean that everyone has a problem with CI.
I do know this, if my son is Deaf, I would give him CI because I want him to have same opportunity that I had, to grow up in both world, hearing and deaf world. However my husband, who's hearing, is against it because he doesn't like the idea of having surgery so close to the brain and he said there's always a chance for something to go drastically wrong.
Anyways, I just wanted to say Nicknrm, everyone have their own opinion but CI isn't bad for everyone, sure everyone have their own experences and there may be some people out there that can never get hold of the CI, but it can work....look at me, I'm 22 years old and I have been 'Hearing' through CI for 18 years of my life without any problem.
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cdmeggers:
I understand what you're going through. When I was 16/17 years old, My dad and stepmom wanted me to get another CI for my right ear because they think it would be great, to give me more advantages of hearing. I flat out told them no because I didn't want to look "odd" to have two CI instead of one. But nevertheless, they dragged me to the doctors to get me xrayed and everything and thankfully, they have asked me once again, do I want to get CI for my right hear and my answer has always been the same, "No" so they have dropped it. But every once in a while, they would bring it up to see if I would change my mind. All they want is to give me the best of everything.
I told Dad that I want to leave my right ear alone so there's a possibility chance of getting my ear fixed with cell regeneration but then again, I've been waiting for this most of my life and nothing is happening about it. BC if you get CI, you can never fix your hair cells as CI would have destroyed it completely. I'm afraid that if they were able to do it, what if they can't fix mine...all my hair cells are broken, been like that since or before I was born.
So now after couple of years thinking...I'm thinking about getting another CI for my right ear since I've been hearing from so many friends of mine that been getting another CI and they think it's amazing, that they can hear more than they heard with one CI. I've been hearing positive feedbacks about having two CI....but I can't help it but think that one CI works just fine but then again, I've noticed that I've been asking friends/Family to repeat what they have said and I'm not hearing as good as I thought I was before.
So now....I'm thinking about getting another CI but I'm afraid to tell my husband and my parents....my husband surely would have negative feedback about it while my parents would have positive feedback with saying I told you so!