This is for WOMEN ONLY! I have a question to ask.

Meet in public place and take a buddy

Hi, DeafGeorgiaLady!

My niece married a guy she met on lineeight years ago. When she met him in person, they met at a Starbucks in his town and she had two of her friends with her (one of her friends was a guy). That way, she was safe in case he turned out to be crazy.

I would suggest doing this for the first several times that you meet the person. Hope he is in your geographic area. If not, I would consider him a nice friend and keep looking. Good luck!
 
better wait! Myself never trust online. I used date guys from internet. Which i learned my lesson. If u decide to meet him whenever ur ready, better have someone go w/ u, so u can get know him. Best wish for ya
 
AJ and C.C., Keep out of this room! This was my question and the room for women only. Stay out! Thank you.
 
:sadwave: ... and I was the one with the best advice so far.
Women only? Some times men have good advice as well.
Just read what I wrote :deal:
 
Outspoken and SherryCherish,

Thank you for the advice. This guy that I met 2 nights ago, he seems so sweet and he has 2 kids. He is a good father. But like I told myself, I think it is safe to wait. Thank you women for the input.

:ily: :grouphug:
 
You are forgiven, AJ and C.C.

I wasnt mad. I was just trying to explain. Pls dont take it as I was being mean.

Thank you! :fu: :nana:
 
I have a thought. I would recommend that you only meet with him if he has a static IP address, AND you know what it is. If he turns out to be a looney or a Baltimore Ravens fan by the name of Steve, you’ll be able to positively identify him through a credit card trace.
 
HUH? He is from Georgia. Dont worry about that. I am not going to do anything so I am just taking my time.

Thank you for the input.
 
i agree with CC... honest with u, i did made mistake dated too fast with my ex gf and moved with her... now i learned lesson and better wait longer and getting know each other first.. :D
 
OK OK OK OK. I am keeping my ass here and holding the meeting to awhile til I know him very very well.
 
yeah, better off to wait for couple of months. Heard a story thru a friend. she married him like under less a month, he screwd her life up, blew her savings acct, list goes on.

pls don't be a sucker. wait on this.....
 
Ofc I know. Why do you think I ask all the women the question? Because I needed the input and advice. Thank you, women!
 
If you want you can get a group of people together to go out and have fun. Bring friends that are married so that they wont' be competition for you. Maybe he can bring friends too and you all can go bowling or to a restaurant where you can all chat. In this way you are not alone, you can see what kind of friends he has, he can do the same, and you can feel safe as you find out about him.

Good luck! I hope it works out. It is so hard to meet nice people these days.
 
The guy I was interested-aint going to work! :madfawk: ALL I WANTED TO DO IS HAVE FUN AND NOT TO BE LONELY ANYMORE! :tears:
 
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