Thinking abt my friends.

^Angel^ said:
Aww I feel bad for this guy :( .....


Alex is right, some people can be quite selfish to the point of not caring about someone's feelings but only caring about thsemsleves.....
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Yeah, I feel bad for that guy. I agreed with you that Alex is right abt that part.

^Angel^ said:
Cheri also had a good suggestion about not getting involved because it can cause problems between two friendships since you did say you are friends with both of them....
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Yeah, Cheri had a good suggestion, I agreed. But, Gabrielle had asking me to involved few times. But, I never see Chris since last time was like in around December.

^Angel^ said:
I know you feel bad about the situation between two friends , and you don't want to see either of them being hurt that is understandable, cause I'm the same way as you are, when it comes to friends being hurt etc but you want to keep those friendship with the two of them and the best advice is not to get involved, but to let them work it out on their own or let them go on with their lives separately....
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Im trying to not get involved but Gabrielle pulled me in few times since. But, Chris is deeply in love with Gabrielle, he plan to move out to living with her, he want to marry her becuase he and she has been together for whole of 6 years. She didnt see that, I saw Chris giving her 4 different rings and he said he will buy LAST ring and it will cost MORE and it will be value(sp) and I took that hint that he is planning to ask her to marry, maybe this Valentine's Day or his birthday or anytime. I wish that Gabrielle notice that and realize that he want everything what Gabrielle wanted everything. But Im back off.

^Angel^ said:
Also there's nothing wrong with having Chris ( the guy ) venting his feelings out to you, cause you are his friends too, you want to be there for him by being able to help him feel a bit better knowing he can count on you, and that doesn't mean you're getting in the middle of it, its more of helping a friend in needed ;).....
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I wanted to be there for Chris but I dont have his phone number OR he dont have my phone number but he and I know where we live at. But I dont know when he will need me :|
 
Steel X said:
perhas you could tell your friend to see if she can listen more closely to her heart instead of in her head.
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I did tell her to follow her heart, she did.
 
TweetyBird said:
yea i agree with cheri and alex.. tell her how ur feeling...
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Yeah, I did agree with them but I did telling her some of my feelings but not whole yet because of Chris S was there mostly of time. But wait until Gabrielle ask me to hang out and I will ask her who with her if no one then I will tell her more where I didnt tell her whole. Thank you! :hug:
 
Sweetheart,

You mean Gabrielle haven't told Chris about this other guy yet? And he brought her a ring already and planning on giving it to her on Valentine's day?
 
Cheri said:
Sweetheart,

You mean Gabrielle haven't told Chris about this other guy yet? And he brought her a ring already and planning on giving it to her on Valentine's day?
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Yeah, Gabrielle didnt tell Chris abt this other guy yet. I bet he already bought the ring and planning to ask her to marry him but, maybe he is planning to ask her on Valentine's day? or whenever. :|
 
Sweetheart said:
Yeah, Gabrielle didnt tell Chris abt this other guy yet. I bet he already bought the ring and planning to ask her to marry him but, maybe he is planning to ask her on Valentine's day? or whenever. :|
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Uh-Oh! That is very very bad, She should be honest with him, about this other guy, Cheating gets her no where, there goes the trust down the drain. If she cheats on her soon to be ex boyfriend, she going to keep on cheating on her new love. She needs to be honest with this guy, and tell him the truth. Because telling the truth sets her free, lies only bites her in the ass. You can tell her that and that she making a huge mistake by betraying the love of her life for 6 years, by cheating on him. She needs to face the music and tell him the truth, that the realtionship is no longer working, even if it's gotta hurt his feelings. Because if he finds out on his own he is gotta get burnt and hurt even more. Not worth it. :(
 
Cheri said:
Uh-Oh! That is very very bad, She should be honest with him, about this other guy, Cheating gets her no where, there goes the trust down the drain. If she cheats on her soon to be ex boyfriend, she going to keep on cheating on her new love. She needs to be honest with this guy, and tell him the truth. Because telling the truth sets her free, lies only bites her in the ass. You can tell her that and that she making a huge mistake by betraying the love of her life for 6 years, by cheating on him. She needs to face the music and tell him the truth, that the realtionship is no longer working, even if it's gotta hurt his feelings. Because if he finds out on his own he is gotta get burnt and hurt even more. Not worth it. :(
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I agreed with you but I will tell Gabrielle that when I see her. But she didnt cheat on her ex, just kissed thats it... But she did break up with her ex before everything to be screw up but all of sudden, shes taken by Chris S already and I was like excuse me, you need to be single for awhile. Im back off whatever she want to do but I dont want to seeing Chris catch Gabrielle with Chris S, it will be soooooo HUGE trouble. *gulps*
 
plz tell her that before valentine day
sweetheart
let me tell ya about my stituation
i was engaged to hearing man for 5 months and he suddenly disappeared on me one day i never heard from him for 10 years now and i already move on i am happier than i was when he left when he left i was depressed for a year my friends and my family help me face that that man is jerk
they are right he was
 
moonflower said:
plz tell her that before valentine day
sweetheart
let me tell ya about my stituation
i was engaged to hearing man for 5 months and he suddenly disappeared on me one day i never heard from him for 10 years now and i already move on i am happier than i was when he left when he left i was depressed for a year my friends and my family help me face that that man is jerk
they are right he was
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Oh really, I apologzie abt your ex finacee who suddenly disappeared on you one day.

I DID tell her and she said she dont want to, I am back off.
 
Sweetheart said:
I bet he already bought the ring and planning to ask her to marry him but, maybe he is planning to ask her on Valentine's day? or whenever.
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Aww poor guy :( ....
 
it is ok sweetheart it is all past smile i always think of future

good idea to back off let her ex found out smile
 
Isn't solve the problem..

which the best "Let go" and will come better ways..

I do agreed w/rest of you guys...
 
moonflower said:
it is ok sweetheart it is all past smile i always think of future

good idea to back off let her ex found out smile
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Yeah, I hope everything will be ok with all of them. *gulps* Yikes...

Yeppers, let her ex find out whenever happen.

If Gabrielle comes up to me when that happens, I will say that I did tell her to telling him the truth instead of having bust.
 
GalaxyAngel said:
Isn't solve the problem..

which the best "Let go" and will come better ways..

I do agreed w/rest of you guys...
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Yeah, I agreed with you. I let it go.
 
Sweetheart said:
Yeah, I hope everything will be ok with all of them. *gulps* Yikes...

Yeppers, let her ex find out whenever happen.

If Gabrielle comes up to me when that happens, I will say that I did tell her to telling him the truth instead of having bust.
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of course
 
Sweetheart said:
I have been thinking abt my friends alot, I just dont understand my best friend, Gabrielle in some ways. Her ex: Chris and her boyfriend(present): Chris S.

My best friend, Gabrielle dated her boyfriend named Chris for 6 years, she threw it out of the window in around 3 weeks ago. I got confused abt it and got too upset because I saw how he treat her in good and everything like that, she didnt tell me abt another situation between of her and him. She date with her new boyfriend right now, named is Chris S. Until, finally she told me abt her ex, Chris. She dont like stuffs abt him are: her ex wont go out to anywhere with her to like, Mall, Resturant to dating, etc like that. And her ex wont go out with her with her friends ilke me, blah whoever is her friends. And he must to be stay at home ALL THE TIME. And he focus on the piano all the time, dont attention to her that enough. And he dont tell her what he talk abt since he is hearing and she is deaf. So, she been patient with him since until she saw her and my old friend, Chris S again and she woke up by that and dumped her ex then date with Chris S, which it got me turn off by that but Im back off since shes adult. Im still not understand her becuase SIX YEARS of relationship that she been with her ex. Her ex admit that he will change to better person that he can be but she said she apologize and wont tell him the truth that she is dating with someone already. Also she told me that she do likes her new boyfriend but do still love her ex. Thats what got me scared a little.

How would you feel if that happen to you?

My answer for that question:

I would be very upset if that happens to me, since 6 years is long enough. And if I do love my guy, I will dicussion with him and work out on his and my relationship to BETTER instead of letting that go down, you know? I would be very scared to lose him, you know who I talk abt. Since I do love him and cant wait to meeting him and being in his arms and everything like that. :| I would be very sad if I lose him, my life would feel so empty without him in there. But if there are good reasons that I have to lose him, I WOULD UNDERSTAND but if STUPID reasons, no reasons, such like that and I would very upset, sad, angry, etc like that.

By the way, I felt very bad for Chris(her ex) and hes very sweet guy, funny and friendly but I dont understand why she have to throw that 6 years in the toilet and she flushed it away already. :(
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Ok, Funnyface...

Next time, before you post something about your "best friend", make sure you have the story straight. Six years is a long time, yes, but there were a lot of problems with the relationship that you do not know about. It had nothing to do with him being hearing, it has nothing to do with the other guy. I was not happy with my ex boyfriend. I was happy with him for the first four years, and then he changed. He was my best friend in the beginning, and that person disappeared. I had to get out. My breakup with my ex has nothing to do with anyone else, or any other guys at that matter. Sure, I may be seeing someone new, and it might have been slightly rapid, but I'm happy with him. There's a lot more to this than you realize, but I'm not going to say anything more about the relationship issue on this blog, though. Next time you're confused, talk to me before posting anything like this. Oh, by the way, I do understand wanting some "girls" time, just to gab, but... imagine this, one of the many reasons I called it quits was because my ex did not want anything to do with my friends... or my best friend. How about that?
 
SierraIllusion said:
Ok, Funnyface...

Next time, before you post something about your "best friend", make sure you have the story straight. Six years is a long time, yes, but there were a lot of problems with the relationship that you do not know about. It had nothing to do with him being hearing, it has nothing to do with the other guy. I was not happy with my ex boyfriend. I was happy with him for the first four years, and then he changed. He was my best friend in the beginning, and that person disappeared. I had to get out. My breakup with my ex has nothing to do with anyone else, or any other guys at that matter. Sure, I may be seeing someone new, and it might have been slightly rapid, but I'm happy with him. There's a lot more to this than you realize, but I'm not going to say anything more about the relationship issue on this blog, though. Next time you're confused, talk to me before posting anything like this. Oh, by the way, I do understand wanting some "girls" time, just to gab, but... imagine this, one of the many reasons I called it quits was because my ex did not want anything to do with my friends... or my best friend. How about that?
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*poke ya* it moi...sasha aka fei ku.........lol u joined here eh? i am surprised that u did heh welcome to here by the way sorry folks if it is off topic....
 
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