Janna May 6th, 2006 at 12:25 pm
This is a good article that raises important issues in the Deaf community. I hope that one day we won’t need these kinds of labels.
I see some Audism in everywhere I go, either teaching an ASL class or meeting new co-workers at my job. I have a co-worker who never spoke to me in 4 years and finally spoke to me last week, only because she sees me talking to other hearing co-workers more and more.
I think it is because I use more hearing culture with my co-workers and since she is not open minded about deaf culture and is comfortable with hearing culture, she is “accepting me.” We do not tell African-Americans to be more “white” or Gay workers to be more “straight” but a deaf person has to be more hearing so s/he will not be judged harshly.
There are times I meet students in my ASL class who want to learn ASL to “help the Deaf” without realizing you can’t just learn a language without first immersing yourself in the culture that formed the language.
I often tell my students if the deaf person does not ask or accept your assistance in interpreting something, leave that person alone. There are other ways to communicate with the hearing population and using “voice” is not the only option.
For that reason I require both immersion in the culture as well as mastery of the grammar when I teach ASL so my students will have a better understanding of all the elements that come together to make up a language.
I do not believe in the term “can’t” when it comes to communication skills relating to us Deaf people. Instead of saying “she can’t read lips”, I say “she does not read lips.” It is more of a fact than a negative aspect. To me, this takes away the practice of “Audism.”
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 12:33 pm
Hi Janna Marie!
Thank you for sharing your exciting thoughts on this important issue and I appreciate you bringing the whole Audism and Audist concept to my attention. This is a good discussion to have about Deafness and labelling and the power of perception from the majority view and the minority view.
So do you think ASL enforces the Audist view that the Deaf have an inferior language to spoken English or do you think it disproves Audism?
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 12:35 pm
FYI:
For those wondering about Janna’s Gravatar — she is demonstrating in American Sign Language the final sign for the phrase “throwing my computer out the window!”
Ha!
Janna May 6th, 2006 at 1:03 pm
Right now ASL is accessible to the hearing people who want to learn the language. They are learning that sign language is a visual language with its’ own syntax and specific rules such as detailed facial expressions and body movements.
The Deaf people in this society have to keep going and keep teaching hearing people that we are human beings and we do have a strong impact in this world. Just because we do not use our voice or do not hear like they do, it does not mean we are creatures or our language is any less good than English or Russian or Chinese.
Last night we watched the movie “A History of Violence” and there was one part where a character said something like, “They are creatures…they do not speak.” So I thought to myself, “So I am a creature. I am inhuman” because I prefer not to use my voice. This is where more deaf people have to speak out and teach even writers about how they unknowingly degrade people like me.
There are always people who will stick to their old fashioned point of views and they will not change. I’m hoping there will be less and less of these kinds of people one day.
I have mixed feelings about the logo you show above with the ear and the diagonal line through it. I understand it is saying that the ear has no hearing and it intended to be a positive image for the Deaf community.
I see it and sometimes feel it means “no hearing” and it is a negative thing. It is the line across from ear that bothers me. Like when there are other logos such as “no smoking” or “no eating.”
“No” is negative term. “Not hearing” is not a negative term to me but “no ears allowed” is negative because the Deaf community is happy to welcome in the Hearing who want to be a part of our culture.
Why can’t we create a logo without that negative line? Why can’t we have a “Deaf” logo with a positive image?
Okay, that was fun but no more questions. I’m hungry and you owe me lunch. Janna has left the building!
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 1:07 pm
Thanks for the excellent comment, Janna!
I take your point about the image and I think you’re right. It can be interpreted as the negative opposite of Audism and that’s important to note.
Okay, let’s go do lunch!
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 2:06 pm
Okay, we’re back from lunch!
If anyone has any questions about Audism or comments for Janna, shoot away!
Chris May 6th, 2006 at 2:11 pm
Hi David and Janna,
I’ve never heard of Audism before. Thanks for enlightening me about the issue.
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 2:15 pm
Hiya Chris!
Join the club!
Janna just mentioned it to me last week!
SimmeringInSeattle May 6th, 2006 at 2:25 pm
Dear Janna and David –
Okay I have a question about my nephew. He has a hearing loss in one ear and is pretty much deaf in the other. His parents want him to have a cochlear implant and keep him in a hearing school. He is 8. He knows some signs and tells me he would like to learn more but his parents do not let him hang out with other deaf kids and the doctos say if he uses sign language he will never master his implant.
Where do you two come down on this?
Dawn May 6th, 2006 at 2:29 pm
Hey there.
You know, I’d never heard this term up till now, and omg it makes me angry! I suffer from a hearing loss, as do two of my three Children, which has resulted in them having to wear Hearing Aids. They will need them for the rest of their lives.
But what gives Audists the right to slap Labels like this on People?? Isn’t this just to cover their own insecurities? Like racism, or being sexist to name just a couple.
My life isn’t, nor ever has been, miserable as a result of suffering from a hearing loss - although I should point out that I’m not Deaf completely, and neither are my Children. We are “hard of hearing” as it’s termed in the UK.
The results of tests that proved my Daughter and my youngest Son needed Hearing Aids devastated me. I felt like it was all my fault, and that they’d be picked on in school for being “different”. But nothing could be further from the truth. A little girl almost moved me to tears one day when she was playing with my daughter before going into class. I was calling my daughter’s name to get her in for class, but she didn’t hear me. So this little girl went and grabbed her and said your Mummy’s shouting to you. Then hand in hand, they walked over to this little girls’ mom and she said Mummy, this is —-(my daughter), she’s my friend and she is hard of hearing. My daughter walked into class with a big smile on her face and since then, they’ve been inseperable. She proved to me that kids aren’t always cruel, and indeed my daughter’s friends all look out for her - I hope the same can be said of my youngest Son when he starts full time school.
Janna May 6th, 2006 at 2:32 pm
Hi SimmeringInSeattle –
This is a typical point of view from parents. They think the child will lose their voice or become less human if they learn sign language. For me, I learned ASL and took speech class at the same time growing up. It helped me become a secure person & to make decisions for myself as I became an adult. What is great about your 8 year old nephew is that he is interested in sign language. That means he already understands that sign language can be a part of his many communication skills. Why take that away from him? Let him find out what is best for him, not what is best for his parents.
Janna May 6th, 2006 at 2:46 pm
Hello Dawn-
I love it that you were able to share that story about your daughter and her friend. I think that is another reason why parents do not want their kids to sign because kids can be crueler than adults sometimes. Kids make fun of names, the color of our hair, & how we dress. Your daughter’s friend is not only a solid friendship for her, but a strong support system she needs in her life. I think that’s really cool. There is a children’s book that Academy Award winner Marlee Matlin wrote several years ago. Marlee, as you may know, is Deaf and she wrote a book about a Deaf child meeting a hearing child & they became best friends. The title of the book is “Deaf Child Crossing” and while it says the story is fiction, it is based on her real life growing up.
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 2:52 pm
Hiya Simmering!
Gosh, I feel for you and I hope you will find a way to be an impartial advocate for your nephew. It seems like he is interested in sign and to expose him to a few experiences in the Deaf community will only enrich his life and not demean it.
Take the advocacy position that exposure to everything leads to big things while narrow expression of the self condemns one to a small life.
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 2:57 pm
Hi Dawn!
I had no idea there was hearing loss in your family. I commend you for accepting it and not making it a bad thing for you or your children.
Is there any pressure from the medical community to implant your children — or you! — with Cochlear Implants?
http://www.nidcd.nih.gov/health/hearing/coch.asp
In America, implanting Deaf children — and now infants as young as four months old — is the preferred method of treatment to surgically “fix” Deaf (and Hearing Impaired) ears.
SimmeringInSeattle May 6th, 2006 at 2:59 pm
Thanks so much you two. It looks like I better start standing up for my nephew. I will be his advocate as best I can and refer his parents and his doctors to this article and conversation if they give me any guff about it.
Kathakali Chatterjee May 6th, 2006 at 4:50 pm
Hi David and Janna,
Thank you for empowering us about “Audists and Audism.”
At times I think, we, those who claim to be able to use their five senses perfectly are the most incapable of doing so. We may hear, but we don’t listen. We are way too eager to talk, to keen to get our message across, just because we can talk. What a waste of energy.
If we could speak less probably we could become more sensitive and the world could be much peaceful place to live.
Mik May 6th, 2006 at 5:23 pm
Thanks too for enlightening me about those words, not heard them before either.
My Dad’s parents were both hearing and vocally challenged (they always called themselves “deaf & dumb”) and it never stopped them leading rich full lives and making the most of every opportunity. They raised five hearing kids and belonged to a plethora of social clubs and had loads of friends.
Grandma could sign in British and American sign language because she had British and American deaf friends at the social club for the deaf she went to.
Of course I am sure they encountered discrimination because of their deafness but it wasn’t something they made a big fuss of. they just got on and enjoyed life.
Maritza May 6th, 2006 at 5:28 pm
I finally got hearing aids this year after saving up my money for a very long time. They are about $2,000 each and to quote my style conscience brother in law, “Why did you get the orthopedic shoe version of hearing aids?” Meaning, damn those things are big, clunky and ugly!
I’m glad I got them. I have about 40% hearing loss which isn’t enough to qualify as “deaf” but “hearing impaired”. Whatever. I now understand why some deaf people don’t want to wear hearing aids (it’s a loud loud world!) and why some do (music is great!). I only wear them half a day at work and when my teenage daughter deems it necessary to speak in complete sentences.
I have noticed that my co-workers talk to me more since I don’t always bark, “What? Excuse me?” anymore. But, I’ve noticed that those people who don’t know me treat me as if I am stupid. Some people equate deafness with mental deficencies.
Serendiptously ran across your blog while surfing and listening (truly) to NPR’s radio bit on this same topic you posted. Unfortunately, I was too lazy to put in my aids so didn’t get everything that was said.
Thanks!
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 5:38 pm
Hi Katha –
Thank you for your powerful thoughts! When one sense is taken away or partially impaired or permanently missing the other senses seem to gain ever greater energy and perception.
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 5:46 pm
Hi Mik!
We use “Deaf and Does Not Speak” today instead of “Deaf and Dumb.” Was your dad involved in the Deaf community beyond his parents in any way? As a CODA — a Child of a Deaf Adult — he might have made a wonderful interpreter. Did your dad learn to sign?
British Sign Language, or BSL, is fascinating. I think Janna has had some exposure to or experience with it in the field.
Discrimination is tough. You’re right that you either let it kill you or you find a way to live around it.
David W. Boles May 6th, 2006 at 6:07 pm
Hey Maritza!
I am happy you decided to get hearing aids! Yes, they are incredibly expensive. I know several people who have spent $8,000.00 USD for aids in both ears. Radio star Don Imus said the other day on his show that he spent $12,000.00 USD for new aids for both ears. That’s an ironic result of the danger of a 40 year in radio – you slowly become deafened because you had your headphones set much too loud for four hours a day.
I hope your insurance plan helped cover some of the cost. Your brother-in-law deserves a punch in the ear for that rotten comment! The line between insensitivity and being funny and inflicting cruelty is a thinner line than many of us realize.
It’s great with your 40% hearing loss that you don’t worry about labels. If you decided with at 40% loss to join the Deaf Community and learn ASL so you could communicate with others you would be welcomed. Unfortunately, in the Hearing World, any sort of sensory loss is directly marked as bad and different and separating and that can cause pain in community and communication.
You’re right there is a LOT of environmental sound poisoning! Some offices — with radios and unrestricted voices — are louder than the street below with cars and busses and the churn of people. I think that’s why many work places allow people to use iPods and other personal music devices — so they can find a little bit of personal quiet in an ever-loudening world that is their office cubicle.
Your point about Deafness equaling a mental deficiency to some people is important and it comes out of the belief if someone needs to communicate on paper or in mime or in home signs or in Pidgin-Signed-English that they are in some way inferior to the mainstream majority way of communicating. We all have our heaps and our losses — some of them are just not visible to the naked eye or ear.
I searched the NPR website for “Audism” but didn’t find anything. If you can find a link to share that would be super!
Thanks so much for stepping up. I appreciate it very much because staying low and keeping quiet is the easier path to resistance. To stand up and say, “Hey… this is what I know…” risks exposing yourself to ridicule from some like your brother-in-law but you service a much greater good by sharing your confidence instead of hoarding in fear.
Maritza May 6th, 2006 at 7:09 pm
My bro-in-law’s remark was meant to illustrate that for $4,000 USD all you get are some ugly ass low tech hearing aids. I didn’t take offense at all. There are some super sleek ones that are extremely costly with all sorts of programmable features and are pratically invisible. I don’t care if mine are day-glo green, I wear them (part time) proudly. Bro in law is a fashion facist but there seems to be one in every family!
My insurance didn’t cover any part of the cost of the hearing aids. When I call our benefits administrator to enquire, she explained that our plan will only cover the cost of hearing devices only if, “…you have total and sudden hearing loss.” Not being able to resist, I said, “What? What? Oh my god, I have total and sudden hearing loss!”. She hung up on me.