The Lounge thread: Whatever you feel like......... Anything goes! Part XVI

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Oceanblue7 said:
Are you done with school for the semester? I am still going to school, we have our final exam today:Ohno: We start a new module tomorrow , done in September and graduation ceremony Oct :)
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I am done for the semester, but in 6 days I start an accelerated summer class. 4days a week, 4hrs a day for 6weeks! It will be hell!:lol: Good luck on the final!!!
 
quirkylibra said:
I am done for the semester, but in 6 days I start an accelerated summer class. 4days a week, 4hrs a day for 6weeks! It will be hell!:lol: Good luck on the final!!!
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:ty: I am going insane :run: what kind of class?
 
Thanks for making me look like a slacker, Kristina! :giggle:

Good luck to everyone who has finals coming up! :wave:
 
im so thrilled that california will having a warm and perfect temperature weathers by starting from today to summer!
 
Just got my daily cussing, and I'm depressed. Never a good mix. If I had the money I would move out already, this is driving me absolutely nuts.
 
I am eating a whole grain white bread sandwich with white chocolate crunchy peanut butter and strawberry Jam. I am also drinking an ice cold glass of milk.

Its great :wiggle:
 
Guess the stress took a toll on me. I was rushed to the hospital Monday night with a near heart attack and I just got released. I need to forget about the problems with my daughter and ex hubby and let the lawyers take care of everything.

I went to the lawyers on Monday and it turns out that it is a possibility I may be still legally married to my ex hubby since there was no divorce decree signed by the judge so my hubby and I have to go to Salisbury (2 hours) to the courthouse and see if they have it. If not, I have to file for divorce and remarry my husband. It is just one thing after another and I guess it just became too much after the new news from the lawyers. Well, once I get everything straighten out, the lawyers will fight for my rights as I have been cut off from my daughter for over 2 weeks now. I didnt even hear from her on Mother's Day ..then on Monday, this info about the divorce..ugh.

It looks like I have problems with my blood pressure going too low while I sleep and as a result, my heart starts beating very very fast to bring it back up only to be unable to return to normal rythm causing the signals to be all messed up. I have to see a specialist to find out why that happens when I am sleeping. I had that problem when I was pregnant and working 2 full time job 5 years ago. My dad said that he and my grandpa had the same problems whenever they were stressed or overworked so I just need to stop stressing over everything. With my type A personality, that will be a challenge.

What a scary experience...but the good news is that once I get meds, I shouldnt have this problem again since my dad and Grandpa never had it again after they got on meds and learned to relax more. *crossing fingers*
 
:shock: about not knowing if ur divorse/re-marriage is legal or not....WOW!...that's bigamy, but hopeful the judge did sign the paperwork!!

When it rains, it pours, it seems! Too much on ur plate, Shel!...Too much stress is gonna make you sick, let the lawyers work it out.

As for ur daughter, I'm sorry she did not call or even send you a card....she should be ashamed!...But as a parent, we have to overlook a lot of things....if you are able to call her, maybe just saying "you missed Mother's Day"!...Hoping that ur daughter might have simply forgot it....or she is simply hurting herself for some reason and wants to hurt you back?....My oldest son was like that a few years ago....but time takes care of it all....Wishing you the best....take it easy.
 
rockin'robin said:
:shock: about not knowing if ur divorse/re-marriage is legal or not....WOW!...that's bigamy, but hopeful the judge did sign the paperwork!!

When it rains, it pours, it seems! Too much on ur plate, Shel!...Too much stress is gonna make you sick, let the lawyers work it out.

As for ur daughter, I'm sorry she did not call or even send you a card....she should be ashamed!...But as a parent, we have to overlook a lot of things....if you are able to call her, maybe just saying "you missed Mother's Day"!...Hoping that ur daughter might have simply forgot it....or she is simply hurting herself for some reason and wants to hurt you back?....My oldest son was like that a few years ago....but time takes care of it all....Wishing you the best....take it easy.
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Her daughter may not have a choice. Her father may be telling her not to call her or she will be in trouble.. etc etc. I would not quite place the blame on the child. She is only 13.
 
rockin'robin said:
:shock: about not knowing if ur divorse/re-marriage is legal or not....WOW!...that's bigamy, but hopeful the judge did sign the paperwork!!

When it rains, it pours, it seems! Too much on ur plate, Shel!...Too much stress is gonna make you sick, let the lawyers work it out.

As for ur daughter, I'm sorry she did not call or even send you a card....she should be ashamed!...But as a parent, we have to overlook a lot of things....if you are able to call her, maybe just saying "you missed Mother's Day"!...Hoping that ur daughter might have simply forgot it....or she is simply hurting herself for some reason and wants to hurt you back?....My oldest son was like that a few years ago....but time takes care of it all....Wishing you the best....take it easy.
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Thanks...my hubby thinks it is funny and tells me that he owes me nothing since we may not be married. He couldnt believe it either at the lawyer's office on Monday. It is a mess that is easily fixable so not going to stress about it. Just focus on fighting for my rights to see and contact my daughter. That will be the lawyers' job and they will start asap as soon as I get all the paperwork from Salisbury. It is possible that there is a divorce decree but wasnt mailed to me. Have to go down there and see from there.
 
Babyblue said:
Her daughter may not have a choice. Her father may be telling her not to call her or she will be in trouble.. etc etc. I would not quite place the blame on the child. She is only 13.
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My therapist said that she is in a bad situation because of my ex hubby's girlfriend brainwashing her. She said that just be supportive of her and not say anything negative to my daughter like questioning her why she didnt contact me on Mother's Day and all that. Just give her time and be positive as much as I can whenever she does contact me. No criticism and no questioning her. As for making visiting arrangements, the lawyers will fight for my rigths because I learned that my ex hubby's girlfriend makes all the decisions on when and how long my daughter will see me. I was supposed to have her all summer until they told me that I can only have her for 4 weeks so I have to pick either June or July. I wont accept that but since they wont budge so I am getting the courts involved.
 
shel90 said:
My therapist said that she is in a bad situation because of my ex hubby's girlfriend brainwashing her. She said that just be supportive of her and not say anything negative to my daughter like questioning her why she didnt contact me on Mother's Day and all that. Just give her time and be positive as much as I can whenever she does contact me. No criticism and no questioning her. As for making visiting arrangements, the lawyers will fight for my rigths because I learned that my ex hubby's girlfriend makes all the decisions on when and how long my daughter will see me. I was supposed to have her all summer until they told me that I can only have her for 4 weeks so I have to pick either June or July. I wont accept that but since they wont budge so I am getting the courts involved.
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Exactly... I really feel for you and your daughter. Hope it all works out for the best Shel.

I am glad you are seeing someone also. I know this can take a heavy toll on a person. Stress is not a friend and not easy to get rid of.

Are you still exercising? That helps to reduce some of the stress.
 
Nice of the school to provide free breakfast for Teacher's Appreciation Day but, it would have been nice for them to give us notice and that didn't happen pretty upset teachers' this morning.
 
shel90 said:
Guess the stress took a toll on me. I was rushed to the hospital Monday night with a near heart attack and I just got released. I need to forget about the problems with my daughter and ex hubby and let the lawyers take care of everything.

I went to the lawyers on Monday and it turns out that it is a possibility I may be still legally married to my ex hubby since there was no divorce decree signed by the judge so my hubby and I have to go to Salisbury (2 hours) to the courthouse and see if they have it. If not, I have to file for divorce and remarry my husband. It is just one thing after another and I guess it just became too much after the new news from the lawyers. Well, once I get everything straighten out, the lawyers will fight for my rights as I have been cut off from my daughter for over 2 weeks now. I didnt even hear from her on Mother's Day ..then on Monday, this info about the divorce..ugh.

It looks like I have problems with my blood pressure going too low while I sleep and as a result, my heart starts beating very very fast to bring it back up only to be unable to return to normal rythm causing the signals to be all messed up. I have to see a specialist to find out why that happens when I am sleeping. I had that problem when I was pregnant and working 2 full time job 5 years ago. My dad said that he and my grandpa had the same problems whenever they were stressed or overworked so I just need to stop stressing over everything. With my type A personality, that will be a challenge.

What a scary experience...but the good news is that once I get meds, I shouldnt have this problem again since my dad and Grandpa never had it again after they got on meds and learned to relax more. *crossing fingers*
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good grief, shel! I can never understand why exes would do something horrible like this. Are they that sadistic?
 
shel90 said:
Guess the stress took a toll on me. I was rushed to the hospital Monday night with a near heart attack and I just got released. I need to forget about the problems with my daughter and ex hubby and let the lawyers take care of everything.

I went to the lawyers on Monday and it turns out that it is a possibility I may be still legally married to my ex hubby since there was no divorce decree signed by the judge so my hubby and I have to go to Salisbury (2 hours) to the courthouse and see if they have it. If not, I have to file for divorce and remarry my husband. It is just one thing after another and I guess it just became too much after the new news from the lawyers. Well, once I get everything straighten out, the lawyers will fight for my rights as I have been cut off from my daughter for over 2 weeks now. I didnt even hear from her on Mother's Day ..then on Monday, this info about the divorce..ugh.

It looks like I have problems with my blood pressure going too low while I sleep and as a result, my heart starts beating very very fast to bring it back up only to be unable to return to normal rythm causing the signals to be all messed up. I have to see a specialist to find out why that happens when I am sleeping. I had that problem when I was pregnant and working 2 full time job 5 years ago. My dad said that he and my grandpa had the same problems whenever they were stressed or overworked so I just need to stop stressing over everything. With my type A personality, that will be a challenge.

What a scary experience...but the good news is that once I get meds, I shouldnt have this problem again since my dad and Grandpa never had it again after they got on meds and learned to relax more. *crossing fingers*
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shel90 said:
Thanks...my hubby thinks it is funny and tells me that he owes me nothing since we may not be married. He couldnt believe it either at the lawyer's office on Monday. It is a mess that is easily fixable so not going to stress about it. Just focus on fighting for my rights to see and contact my daughter. That will be the lawyers' job and they will start asap as soon as I get all the paperwork from Salisbury. It is possible that there is a divorce decree but wasnt mailed to me. Have to go down there and see from there.
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shel90 said:
My therapist said that she is in a bad situation because of my ex hubby's girlfriend brainwashing her. She said that just be supportive of her and not say anything negative to my daughter like questioning her why she didnt contact me on Mother's Day and all that. Just give her time and be positive as much as I can whenever she does contact me. No criticism and no questioning her. As for making visiting arrangements, the lawyers will fight for my rigths because I learned that my ex hubby's girlfriend makes all the decisions on when and how long my daughter will see me. I was supposed to have her all summer until they told me that I can only have her for 4 weeks so I have to pick either June or July. I wont accept that but since they wont budge so I am getting the courts involved.
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He will be VERY sorry! That's unbelievable. :squint:

Hope you will feel better after you try to take care of yourself once things get straightened out. im so sorry. :hug: Oh yes, Agree your goal is to get your girl back after they raise her like this way is big NO NO.
 
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shel90 said:
Guess the stress took a toll on me. I was rushed to the hospital Monday night with a near heart attack and I just got released. I need to forget about the problems with my daughter and ex hubby and let the lawyers take care of everything.

I went to the lawyers on Monday and it turns out that it is a possibility I may be still legally married to my ex hubby since there was no divorce decree signed by the judge so my hubby and I have to go to Salisbury (2 hours) to the courthouse and see if they have it. If not, I have to file for divorce and remarry my husband. It is just one thing after another and I guess it just became too much after the new news from the lawyers. Well, once I get everything straighten out, the lawyers will fight for my rights as I have been cut off from my daughter for over 2 weeks now. I didnt even hear from her on Mother's Day ..then on Monday, this info about the divorce..ugh.

It looks like I have problems with my blood pressure going too low while I sleep and as a result, my heart starts beating very very fast to bring it back up only to be unable to return to normal rythm causing the signals to be all messed up. I have to see a specialist to find out why that happens when I am sleeping. I had that problem when I was pregnant and working 2 full time job 5 years ago. My dad said that he and my grandpa had the same problems whenever they were stressed or overworked so I just need to stop stressing over everything. With my type A personality, that will be a challenge.

What a scary experience...but the good news is that once I get meds, I shouldnt have this problem again since my dad and Grandpa never had it again after they got on meds and learned to relax more. *crossing fingers*
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Wow. I hope all is well with you now. I hope you get your heart taken care of.


Re your ex: I'm like oh, boy what a mess. :shock: I hope you get all this straigtened out. It sounds stressful.
 
i just found it out that my mom is in hospital.. of course, i was stunned and lost of my focus to teaching.

my mom had her kidney failure and trying to keep up with dylesis. (sigh)...its been hard for me today and my dad too. sheesh.
 
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