The 7 Meanest Ways to Dump a Guy

Is there a good way to get dumped? Like, in your sleep?
 
:hmm: good point, I don't think there's "good" ways, but there is certainly a scale for bad to worst ways.
 
Feel you gotta be careful in some cases...one guy stalked me for a year...and another guy broke the windows in my apartment...I wasn't home at the time, my neighbor told me what happened...she said he was yelling "that we were supposed to get married!...and if he ever saw me again he would give me a black eye!".....:giggle:
 
I don't think you need to worry about it :D

Btw those are mean ways to dump someone, you don't have to dump someone in a mean way.
 
LOL Radioman. No that's not it. ;) This link is about how mean they dump someone in the mean ways. It is like a soap opera effect to me.
 
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As for me, I prefer woman walk to me in a person (right time & right place of
course) and explain to me why she do not want me anymore and I will discuss my feelings/opinion about her and then we will have to wrap it up and move on.

Men who can't handle face-to-face dumping, that is his problem.
 
authentic said:
As for me, I prefer woman walk to me in a person (right time & right place of
course) and explain to me why she do not want me anymore and I will discuss my feelings/opinion about her and then we will have to wrap it up and move on.

Men who can't handle face-to-face dumping, that is his problem.
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whoa too long.

All she had to do is tell me - we're done. and that's it. I'll probably just wallow around... drink some... and ride some... and move on...

my break-ups were pretty much amicable and we stayed friends because we agreed that we were better off as friends than couples.
 
ncff07 said:
Panda??? When I first saw that gif I though it said "Papa Panda" LOL

Oh ... and I dumped my exwife ... with #1 LOL then left for a "trip" to NC (lived in Ohio) and I was 600 miles away when she discovered all my stuff had disappeared :D That was in 2000 divorce was final in 2001 ... she's still after me to go back even though she's married again :shock: last time I heard from her was October Or November I think it was she said "You don't have to worry about ChicagoBlue2 anymore we split up and I filed for divorce" ... like I was going back to her 13 years later ... I don't think so!!!

She was crazy crazy!!
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That's one you talked about? :eek3:
 
ncff07 said:
Panda??? When I first saw that gif I though it said "Papa Panda" LOL

Oh ... and I dumped my exwife ... with #1 LOL then left for a "trip" to NC (lived in Ohio) and I was 600 miles away when she discovered all my stuff had disappeared :D That was in 2000 divorce was final in 2001 ... she's still after me to go back even though she's married again :shock: last time I heard from her was October Or November I think it was she said "You don't have to worry about Mark anymore we split up and I filed for divorce" ... like I was going back to her 13 years later ... I don't think so!!!

She was crazy crazy!!
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:laugh2:

Most of my break ups have resulted in staying friends. I've had a few stalker-ish ones that made me run for the hills but I've always been up front and provided reasons like, "You're an unemployed loser who expects me to pay for everything and that's not flying here" or "I thought I could work through the terrible sex with you but am now seeing that's impossible :laugh2:" Or "you're freaking crazy and need to seek help" kind of things.:laugh2: I've changed my number twice "jerks they were both REALLY easy numbers to memorize too!" I did pull the pick up and move thing one time and when she went to work (I wasn't on the lease thankfully ) I packed up my things and hit the road! That one was super crazy though and I definitely needed to leave... :shock: However, honestly I am friends with quite a few of my ex's. :P I try and keep it civil and don't try to destroy anyone or anything. However, I've been single for a couple of years now and I have to say it's nice. :D
 
Jiro said:
whoa too long.

All she had to do is tell me - we're done. and that's it. I'll probably just wallow around... drink some... and ride some... and move on...

my break-ups were pretty much amicable and we stayed friends because we agreed that we were better off as friends than couples.
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If she dump me with her closure. I do want to have my closure with her too. It canbe quick and short. It can be too long.

My ex date in high school who misunderstood with the whole situation and dumped me for that. Once I told her my situation and gave her few days to reconsider. It works, but I told her it's over, because I don't really like how she handled the whole situation. It was ugly and embarrassing, but hey it's part of learning process.
 
Mewtilation said:
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Most of my break ups have resulted in staying friends. I've had a few stalker-ish ones that made me run for the hills but I've always been up front and provided reasons like, "You're an unemployed loser who expects me to pay for everything and that's not flying here" or "I thought I could work through the terrible sex with you but am now seeing that's impossible :laugh2:" Or "you're freaking crazy and need to seek help" kind of things.:laugh2: I've changed my number twice "jerks they were both REALLY easy numbers to memorize too!" I did pull the pick up and move thing one time and when she went to work (I wasn't on the lease thankfully ) I packed up my things and hit the road! That one was super crazy though and I definitely needed to leave... :shock: However, honestly I am friends with quite a few of my ex's. :P I try and keep it civil and don't try to destroy anyone or anything. However, I've been single for a couple of years now and I have to say it's nice. :D
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If you knew my exwife you'd understand ... she was literally crazy and mentally abusive ... we split up for a bit and she agreed to work on it but 2 months after I went back it was the same and I decided it just wasn't going to work ... if she had known I was planning on leaving for good she would have went off the deep end and I may have ended up dead she was that crazy ... only reason I stayed as long as I did was for the kids ... she had 2 from a previous marriage and they called me daddy ... she wasn't very good to them and wouldn't take care of them I had to get power of attorney for both to make sure they got what they needed after the girl sliced her foot open and she refused to let me take the kid to the ER ... her son needed counseling and she wouldn't ... I could write a book about it ...

I am friends with others though .. was engaged and after that we remained friends and still are shes even on my FB ... just my exwife was a real piece of work ...
 
No worries, it's always the ones that you marry and become perma-attached to that are the craziest, after all. :P :laugh2:

I was engaged once upon a time... years and years back and you want to talk about crazy? Whew! I won't go into details because airing my dirty laundry out everywhere isn't my style, however dear good lord I'm surprised she hasn't been baker acted / institutionalized yet! They need to make a permanent straight jacket and padded room for that one! :laugh2:
 
The first boyfriend i had kinda turned out to be gay. But now we are best friends so all good with that.
 
I am well trained. All she has to do is tell me how busy she is, hmmm, I think I see where this is going and I just kind of go away. If I am wrong she will show up some how. Usually no it is over. I don't hang around for the femme fatale treatment.

Early on I felt the pain after having my heart stomped a couple of times it was not quite so acute after that. I figured out that freedom is a valuable and beautiful thing. They gave me a gift that is greater than gold.

From the time I was a little guy it was always about overcoming obstacles. Perservere! and all things will come to you! All of that. You want something you set your sights and start going for it that is how it is done. It is the key to success... and then ... there is women...

Huh? Recompute recompute anomaly on the right there Captain. What? she said no? **** off and die? And when I tried even harder it got even worse? My world it is upside down and backwards, I am all shook up uhuh in a really bad way. Then the light slowly comes on. Women are different and I have to listen to them and hear what they are saying. Oh the pain.

Nuts and bolts they rock. Nice and simple. Kind of boring though :lol:
 
To get back at all the men who have wrongfully dumped us, I've created a list of the worst ways to break his heart. It's a bit tit for tat.
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Really? Unless you're doing this to the guy who wronged you, BITCH, you're just hurting someone who doesn't deserve to be punished for your baggage. One man is not responsible for what another man may have done to you.

This makes me really, genuinely mad.
 
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